I can see how upsetting this can be, Jim.
This article may put your mind to ease a bit.
Latin:
Odisti omnes, qui operantur iniquitatem, perdes omnes, qui loquuntur mendacium; virum sanguinum et dolosum abominabitur Dominus.
Translation: Thou **hatest **all the workers of iniquity, thou wilt destroy all that speak a lie; bloody and deceitful man the Lord will abhor.
Hate is comparative and usually best translated as ‘love less.’
From another source: Now large crowds were traveling with him; and he turned and said to them, "Whoever comes to me and does not
hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and even life itself, cannot be my disciple.
"Miseo" is the Greek word which is translated “hate” in St. Luke 14:25-26. It has the fundamental sense of “separation” or “exclusion” of one from another – usually out of a fear of physical or spiritual harm.
It doesn’t, therefore, include the “psychological sense” of anger or emotional “againstness” that modern English generally situates in the word “hate,” but rather describes one’s relational orientation towards another.
Informed by the linguistic roots of the word “miseo,” it seems clear that there is no emotional baggage in it, no anger or malicious disregard – as there is in the English word “hate.” Quite the contrary, in THIS context “miseo” has a very clear meaning:
it means to separate or remove one’s self from entangling relationships or circumstances which might come between the disciple and the master.
I understand this to be that God hates the sin, not the sinner.