As I understand it, the Church does not have a particular teaching directly addressing the question, so, I am asking this community. Generally: Is it better to send Catholic kids to Catholic school or public school? (In this post, we are leaving all other kinds of schools out of the picture) Please defend your answer
In addition:
Is the answer something you think should apply in all cases to all Catholic children?
Or, should it be applied on a case-by-case basis?
If applicable and you wish to answer, do you personally send your kids to Catholic or public school?
(For the record, I am not a parent, but wish to be one in the future. I am not a Catholic, but am seriously thinking about converting.)
Thanks in advance.
Bypassing all the other answers you’ve received, here’s my take:
What we did and what I think all parents should so, discern what is the best for your family, taking into consideration the following:
your
finances, cost of attending catholic schools (especially at the high school level) can be exhorbitant;
the
reputation of your local public school district. Anecdotally, my daughter started in catholic elem. school, but due to a bullying issue that they did not handle to our satisfaction, we switched to public school Now, it should be noted that I live in one of the best public school districts in my state, so this was an easy choice to make…it would have been difficult if that were not the case.
How well
your child adapts to either setting. Some kids thrive in parochial schools, some do not. Same for public schools.
Again, anecdotally, my kiddo flourished in public school. I valued the diversity that she encountered because it taught her how to get along with all sorts of individuals who weren’t the same as her. Since we all know the real world is messy, it’s a nice lesson to be exposed to early on if you are an involved parent and can monitor various situations that kids find themselves in.
The drawback for public school attendance as a practicing catholic is that you have to subsidize it with religion classes during elementary and middle school so that your kids can receive the sacraments. In my city this consisted of Monday evenings (during the school year) for an hour when my daughter attended “religion” class.
Having said all that I have to confess that I believe my daughter received a great education in the public school system and she will graduate from college this Spring with the hope of teaching in a public school.