Pushed to the SSPX

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Brother,

I did not say the OF was despicable, and I would never use that adjective for an approved rite of the church. You and friend Newt need to read posts more carefully.

I spoke of “practices” that are despicable, which as I told Newt, may not bother one or seem out of the ordinary to one who was not brought up in the pre-Conciliar church. Here are a list of some of those practices - please feel free to tell me which of these were approved by the Holy See and which you would deem acceptable:
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*  Girls in mini-skirts or very short dresses in singing groups on the altar
*  turning one's back to the tabernacle to reverence the "table" with no consecrated species present
*  Full-voiced socializing and a lack of reverence for the Blessed Sacrament before and after Mass
*  Shorts, sports jerseys, and flip-flops at Sunday Mass
Yet none of those things are officially taught by the Catholic Church. You are rightfully upset at folks who take it upon themselves to do those things, and the leadership which doesn’t speak up about those things.

Solution: find a parish in FULL communion with the Holy Father where the rubrics are followed by both the priests and the people, and the priests are not afraid to give instructions about proper dress and other procedures.
 
I feel as though I have almost been pushed to at least trying to attend an SSPX Mass.

I have considered myself faithful to the Church, but at a recent (NO) Mass I attended, I was denied Communion on the tongue, forced to receive on the hand, and forced to receive multiple hosts (because the Church will be closed for awhile). Even though I explained I had a right to receive on the tongue, I was told “don’t argue, the Priest is the boss at the altar” No! Christ is the Head at the altar!

Why bother attending Indult masses when the Dioceses are just as rebellious?

Laus Deo
I find it curious that you have not posted since starting this thread.
I cannot comment on your situation, as I was not there. AND we are only hearing one side to the story, yours. Nevertheless, I find your first sentence interesting. Pardon, but it sounds very much like a pitch for the SSPX.
If the SSPX is regularized, I would have no problem attending a parish within the society. But since this has not yet occured, why the rush? Is there no approved latin Mass in your area? Or at least a reverant OF?
Questions like these need to be answered.
 
Yet none of those things are officially taught by the Catholic Church. You are rightfully upset at folks who take it upon themselves to do those things, and the leadership which doesn’t speak up about those things.
Correct, but ‘not officially condemned’ is as good as ‘officially taught’. One wonders where the priests were formed that allow this or the bishops that permit it in their diocese?
 
This I didn’t know. But what about the liceity of Lutheran baptisms or even atheist’s baptisms which are validly administered. Is the liceity issue even applicable? I suppose the parents may want to press charges but what is the Church going to do, excommunicate the atheist and the godparents? 🙂
This is an important question that you’re asking and the answer should be known by all Catholics. Canon law only applies to Roman Catholics. Baptisms that take place outside of the Roman Catholic Church are not subject to the same rules, even those that take place in Eastern Catholic Churches. There is an entire code of law for the Eastern Churches. There are points that overlap, those dealing with doctrine and dogma. But the points on discipline are often different.

The Church recognizes as valid and licit any baptism by a non Roman Catholic as long as there is the intent to baptize and the Trinitarian formula is used. You cannot baptize in the name of Jesus as some Protestant communities do. But those who baptize in the name of the Trinity are valid and licit, because they are not obliged to follow canon law.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
Correct, but ‘not officially condemned’ is as good as ‘officially taught’. One wonders where the priests were formed that allow this or the bishops that permit it in their diocese?
Gosh, the Catholic Church doesn’t officially condemn me from standing on my head during Mass. I guess that means that it “officially teaches” us to do so…
 
You mean as a sponsor for them to come into the Catholic Church? Sure, why not?
There’s very little chance my godchild will come into the Catholic Church. Too much bad press or something.
 
Here are a list of some of those practices - please feel free to tell me which of these were approved by the Holy See and which you would deem acceptable:
Code:
*  Girls in mini-skirts or very short dresses in singing groups on the altar
I doubt that they are actually on the Altar - you mean they are up near the front of the Church, right? And yes, rightly, they should be in the Choir Loft at the back of the Church, not calling attention to themselves - however, some priests, for “pastoral” reasons, think that putting the kids up front to sing helps them feel more connected to the parish.
  • turning one’s back to the tabernacle to reverence the “table” with no consecrated species present
Who is doing this? The priest, or some of the children, or who? :confused: We have a priest who doesn’t even reverence the Altar.
  • Full-voiced socializing and a lack of reverence for the Blessed Sacrament before and after Mass
    * Shorts, sports jerseys, and flip-flops at Sunday Mass
Not to mention the unbelievable amount of gum-chewing that goes on in Church. However, these are very small things.

What, exactly, do you hope the priest will do? If he throws the people out, they won’t come back - they’ll find a different parish to attend, or else they will quit going to Church altogether.
 
I doubt that they are actually on the Altar - you mean they are up near the front of the Church, right? And yes, rightly, they should be in the Choir Loft at the back of the Church, not calling attention to themselves - however, some priests, for “pastoral” reasons, think that putting the kids up front to sing helps them feel more connected to the parish.
In the parish I am thinking of, they’re are in the area we would normally call the ‘sanctuary’ if such a delimitation can still be understood. That would be to the left of the altar with the right-most band members in front of the pulpit. Not gathered around the table, but certainly front-and-center and distracting.
Who is doing this? The priest, or some of the children, or who? :confused: We have a priest who doesn’t even reverence the Altar.
Everyone, parishioners, choir members, priest, and deacon.
What, exactly, do you hope the priest will do? If he throws the people out, they won’t come back.
BINGO!!! This appears the universal modern answer as to why priests are loath to correct and/or chastise from the pulpit. Ignoring these abuses is rarely, if ever, a problem at an SSPX, or in all fairness, at an FSSP Mass.

I am not sure why pastorly instruction is not an option, but I fear it is the same fear.
 
Brother,

I did not say the OF was despicable, and I would never use that adjective for an approved rite of the church. You and friend Newt need to read posts more carefully.
You never specified what you found to be despicable. Taken from the context of the thread, it led me to believe that you found the entire form or parts of the form to be despicable. The only thing in what you mentioned that is part of the Ordinary Form is the veneration of the altar.

Yes, the rubrics do call for the clerics to kiss the altar at the beginning of mass, even though the Blessed Sacrament is not present. The reason is that the altar is the cross where the sacrifice will be offered. It is proper and required by liturgical law that the altar be venerated. The GIRM also requires that one bow before the altar when crossing the sanctuary or the church from one side to the other, even if there is no tabernacle in the church. The bow is omitted by the cleric who is going to read the Gospel. The reason is that the pulpit is considered the “table of the Word” in the OF If you’re going over to the pulpit, the focus should be on that.

Turning one’s back on the tabernacle is part of the Ordinary Form, since you are facing the people and the tabernacle is behind you, unless you are celebrating the mass ad orientem, in which case you’re facing away from the people. The Ordinary Form does allow you to turn your back on the tabernacle when you’re at the altar. The normal way to proceed, if the tabernacle is in the center of the sanctuary is to genuflect before entering the sanctuary and then proceed up to the altar, facing the people, and venerate the altar. Sometimes, if the sanctuary is large enough, thee is room to step into the sanctuary and genuflect before venerating the altar. If the tabernacle is on the side, even if it is visible, which it should be, you do not genuflect. The reason is that it is not within the sacred space where the focus of the liturgy is. But when the tabernacle is in the main sanctuary you do genuflect before proceeding to venerate the altar. The point is that the altar must be venerated in the Ordinary Form.
I spoke of “practices” that are despicable, which as I told Newt, may not bother one or seem out of the ordinary to one who was not brought up in the pre-Conciliar church. Here are a list of some of those practices - please feel free to tell me which of these were approved by the Holy See and which you would deem acceptable:
Code:
*  Girls in mini-skirts or very short dresses in singing groups on the altar
*  turning one's back to the tabernacle to reverence the "table" with no consecrated species present
*  Full-voiced socializing and a lack of reverence for the Blessed Sacrament before and after Mass
*  Shorts, sports jerseys, and flip-flops at Sunday Mass
The rest of what is on your list is certainly inappropriate behavior and there are many people, including pastors who have concerns about those things. It is not fair to make sweeping statements.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
Br. JR –

Sorry to go off on a tangent for a moment, but others may have the same question. A few posts back you mentioned something about brothers hearing confessions. You also said that a couple brothers are priests.

Could you clarify your use of “brother”? Does it mean any fellow Franciscan, whether ordained or not? Because there is also a canonical use of “brother” such as the Christian Brothers, where they take vows, but it is not the sacrament of Holy Orders.

thanks!
A very good question. In the Franciscan Order you enter to become a friar. You do not enter any of the Franciscan orders to become a priest. You can be a priest without being a Franciscan. Therefore, the formation of Franciscans, our life and our rule targets the consecrated life, not Holy Orders.

When we admit a man who is priest, he becomes a brother. But he does not cease to be a priest. Or when the superior allows a brother to be ordained a priest, he is still a brother, because he is still a consecrated religoius, just like a Christian Brother is. He is called a friar-priest or a brother-priest, meaning that he is an ordained religious. There is no difference between our ordained brothes, our non-clerical brothers and a Christian Brother. They are all equally consecrated men. The difference is in their ministry, not in their way of lfie. They live the vowed life. But among mendicants and monastics, even the ordained do not always exercise the ministry of Holy Orders. Many have other functions. It all depends on the superior.

Somewhere in history, people began to call our ordained brothers, Father. This was a title that was used for priests in other orders, not our own. The only man whom we call Father is St. Francis and his successors. Francis was not a priest, neither are many of our superiors. But they are properly Father.

As I said, somewhere people began to call our ordained friars, Father. The General Chapter ordered that all friars revert to the title Brother or the Latin, Friar and that all semblance of clericalism be eliminated from the order, because Franciscan Friars were founded as a lay order, not a clerical order. A lay order is one where the government of the order is shared by all the members. It does not require ordination. A clerical order is one where only the ordianed can govern. The term lay is not used to mean laity. It is used to mean non-clerical or non-ordained.

It has been very difficult to stop the laity from calling our friars Father, at least in the USA. The laity gets confused. However, when we refer to each other, we always say, Brother or the brothers or friars. In the newer communities, this is easier, because when you go in and people don’t know you, you can just start off as Brother or Friar.

In the parish where we are, we came in new. No one knew us. So everyone calls all of the friars, Brother, except the superior of the house. The laity calls him Father, even though he is not a priest. We have only two priests. One is the parrochial vicar and the other is the groundskeeper. They are called Brother. In Canada, our brothers use Friar. In Italy they use Frater and in Spanish speaking countries they use Fray. I think we got it from the English, the business of calling our friars Father.

You will also find it interesting to note that in writing, we Franciscans rarely refer to the Pope as Holy Father. That title is reserved for St. Francis. The pope is Lord Pope or our Lord the Pope. When the order was founded, St. Francis wrote that into our rule, the Lord Pope. In April, we had a general chapter at which the Pope spoke and it was wonderful to hear him refer to Francis as Holy Father and to himself as Lord Pope. He said, "You have come to see your Lord Pope. . . " when he addressed the chapter delegates.

Remember, when you hear a Franciscan use Brother or Friar, it can be any invesed member of the order. Even novices are called Friar or Brother. We have had novices who are priests. Sometimes you get a secular priest who is called to religious life. He must be an aspirant, postulant, novice, and a student friar, before he becomes a solemly professed friar, just like every other brother. Many secular priests do not join religious orders, because they find it humbling to go back to the level of being a subordiante or as one priest told me, “I don’t think I could take being told not to say mass, but to go work a soup kitchen or to wash dishes.” I reminded him that when Bonaventure was a Cardinal his superior assigned him to the kitchen. He was the dishwasher for the fraternity. But it didn’t persuade him to join us. Wonder why not :confused:

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF
 
You never specified what you found to be despicable. Taken from the context of the thread, it led me to believe that you found the entire form or parts of the form to be despicable. The only thing in what you mentioned that is part of the Ordinary Form is the veneration of the altar.

Yes, the rubrics do call for the clerics to kiss the altar at the beginning of mass, even though the Blessed Sacrament is not present. The reason is that the altar is the cross where the sacrifice will be offered. It is proper and required by liturgical law that the altar be venerated. The GIRM also requires that one bow before the altar when crossing the sanctuary or the church from one side to the other, even if there is no tabernacle in the church. The bow is omitted by the cleric who is going to read the Gospel. The reason is that the pulpit is considered the “table of the Word” in the OF If you’re going over to the pulpit, the focus should be on that.

Turning one’s back on the tabernacle is part of the Ordinary Form, since you are facing the people and the tabernacle is behind you, unless you are celebrating the mass ad orientem, in which case you’re facing away from the people. The Ordinary Form does allow you to turn your back on the tabernacle when you’re at the altar. The normal way to proceed, if the tabernacle is in the center of the sanctuary is to genuflect before entering the sanctuary and then proceed up to the altar, facing the people, and venerate the altar. Sometimes, if the sanctuary is large enough, thee is room to step into the sanctuary and genuflect before venerating the altar. If the tabernacle is on the side, even if it is visible, which it should be, you do not genuflect. The reason is that it is not within the sacred space where the focus of the liturgy is. But when the tabernacle is in the main sanctuary you do genuflect before proceeding to venerate the altar. The point is that the altar must be venerated in the Ordinary Form.

The rest of what is on your list is certainly inappropriate behavior and there are many people, including pastors who have concerns about those things. It is not fair to make sweeping statements.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
I know that I’m going to get slammed on this. Jesus as God incarnate was also a human being. He joked. He enjoyed festivities. He enjoyed children. He walked around as a normal person enjoying the “fun” of life. He is God…but did not put himself in a position that required those around him bowing to him at every moment. We must be respectful of His presence in the Eucharist…but He does not demand continual pious behavior. Sure…clowns as extraordinary ministers of the Eucharist is not appropriate. Showing disrespect toward the Eucharist is sacralige. But Jesus is our brother as well as our God.
 
I know that I’m going to get slammed on this. Jesus as God incarnate was also a human being. He joked. He enjoyed festivities. He enjoyed children. He walked around as a normal person enjoying the “fun” of life. He is God…but did not put himself in a position that required those around him bowing to him at every moment. We must be respectful of His presence in the Eucharist…but He does not demand continual pious behavior. Sure…clowns as extraordinary ministers of the Eucharist is not appropriate. Showing disrespect toward the Eucharist is sacralige. But Jesus is our brother as well as our God.
I don’t think you’ll get slammed. While all of what you say is true, I think much of the reverence that the Church calls for is especially important when other folks are around, it order to set a good example.

I’ve heard stories of folks who – when they are alone – like to play music for Jesus in the tabernacle; even secular songs. Or I suppose they could tell Jesus their favorite joke. That’s OK. But when other Catholics are present, it’s best to keep the pious reverence lest they see our behavior as an excuse to start down the slope of clown Masses.
 
I don’t think you’ll get slammed. While all of what you say is true, I think much of the reverence that the Church calls for is especially important when other folks are around, it order to set a good example.

I’ve heard stories of folks who – when they are alone – like to play music for Jesus in the tabernacle; even secular songs. Or I suppose they could tell Jesus their favorite joke. That’s OK. But when other Catholics are present, it’s best to keep the pious reverence lest they see our behavior as an excuse to start down the slope of clown Masses.
Yep. I realize I am new to this Catholic thing, but I was under the impression that Catholics have a ancient tradition of reverence and piety, and that “Buddy Jesus”-style worship is more the specialty of evangelical and pentecostal Protestants.
 
I don’t think you’ll get slammed. While all of what you say is true, I think much of the reverence that the Church calls for is especially important when other folks are around, it order to set a good example.

I’ve heard stories of folks who – when they are alone – like to play music for Jesus in the tabernacle; even secular songs. Or I suppose they could tell Jesus their favorite joke. That’s OK. But when other Catholics are present, it’s best to keep the pious reverence lest they see our behavior as an excuse to start down the slope of clown Masses.
Clown masses are definitely disgraceful. I did little checking on that clown Mass. Apparently that bishop is not in very good standing with the Church. I don’t want to make a claim that isn’t true…but he may not even be in a position to say Mass any longer. 🙂
 
I know that I’m going to get slammed on this. Jesus as God incarnate was also a human being. He joked. He enjoyed festivities. He enjoyed children. He walked around as a normal person enjoying the “fun” of life. He is God…but did not put himself in a position that required those around him bowing to him at every moment. We must be respectful of His presence in the Eucharist…but He does not demand continual pious behavior. Sure…clowns as extraordinary ministers of the Eucharist is not appropriate. Showing disrespect toward the Eucharist is sacralige. But Jesus is our brother as well as our God.
We have to know a little history here. It was not until St. Francis came around that the tabernacle was ever on the main altar of the sanctuary. Most European Churches belonged to monasteries. In monasteries the Blessed Sacrament was kept on a side altar or a separate Blessed Sacrament chapel. It was Francis of Assisi who moved the tabernacle to the main altar. There were reasons for this. First, was his devotion to the Eucharist. He wanted it to be where it could be seen. The other was that our community is not an order of monks. Therefore, we did not have churches. We had chapels and oratories attached to our houses. They were very small; therefore, there were no side altars. Francis of Assisi could not imagine having a chapel without a tabernacle. He asked the local bishop for permission to place the tabernacle on the main altar.

This practice became very popular as the friars spread through Europe. They did not build large cathedrals. They built small chapels that later were erected as parishes. The Franciscan idea of silence in the presence of the tabernacle was very different from what is being espoused here. It was never in Francis’ mind that speaking was offensive to the Blessed Sacrament. The friars have always spoken in our chapels. In those of our houses where there is no meeting room, the chapter takes place in the chapel. It is usually the only room that can accomodate everyone when you have brothers come in from the other houses.

There was another reason for the silence. One observes silence before the Blessed Sacrament because it is a sacred space where man should enter into contemplation and dialogue with the Divine. Anything that distracts from that practice should be avoided. The presence of Christ in the tabernacle should draw us into dialogue with him.

It is not about sin or sacrileges. Francis’ idea, when he first placed the tabernacle on the altar, was about great love for Jesus. It was a very positive idea. We tend to focus too much on the negative and forget to encourage the contemplative. One can be in total silence, but not be in contemplation. Where is the good to the soul? Where is the love for Christ if all one has to do is be physically silent, while one’s mind wanders about mundane thoughts?

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
Yep. I realize I am new to this Catholic thing, but I was under the impression that Catholics have a ancient tradition of reverence and piety, and that “Buddy Jesus”-style worship is more the specialty of evangelical and pentecostal Protestants.
Bottom line for me is that Jesus is our brother and our God. I always show reverence at Mass. I always show reverence before the tabernacle outside of Mass. I am lucky enough to live near a large church that always has Eucharistic adoration. Unfortunately I don’t take advantage of it enough. I find that when someone talks of turning their back to the tabernacle as irreverent…that is going beyond what is expected. In our parish the tabernacle is in the sanctuary…genuflecting while initially passing it is reverent. Genuflecting at every time you cross its path is just not needed. Jesus knows what is in our heart.
 
We have to know a little history here. It was not until St. Francis came around that the tabernacle was ever on the main altar of the sanctuary. Most European Churches belonged to monasteries. In monasteries the Blessed Sacrament was kept on a side altar or a separate Blessed Sacrament chapel. It was Francis of Assisi who moved the tabernacle to the main altar. There were reasons for this. First, was his devotion to the Eucharist. He wanted it to be where it could be seen. The other was that our community is not an order of monks. Therefore, we did not have churches. We had chapels and oratories attached to our houses. They were very small; therefore, there were no side altars. Francis of Assisi could not imagine having a chapel without a tabernacle. He asked the local bishop for permission to place the tabernacle on the main altar.

This practice became very popular as the friars spread through Europe. They did not build large cathedrals. They built small chapels that later were erected as parishes. The Franciscan idea of silence in the presence of the tabernacle was very different from what is being espoused here. It was never in Francis’ mind that speaking was offensive to the Blessed Sacrament. The friars have always spoken in our chapels. In those of our houses where there is no meeting room, the chapter takes place in the chapel. It is usually the only room that can accomodate everyone when you have brothers come in from the other houses.

There was another reason for the silence. One observes silence before the Blessed Sacrament because it is a sacred space where man should enter into contemplation and dialogue with the Divine. Anything that distracts from that practice should be avoided. The presence of Christ in the tabernacle should draw us into dialogue with him.

It is not about sin or sacrileges. Francis’ idea, when he first placed the tabernacle on the altar, was about great love for Jesus. It was a very positive idea. We tend to focus too much on the negative and forget to encourage the contemplative. One can be in total silence, but not be in contemplation. Where is the good to the soul? Where is the love for Christ if all one has to do is be physically silent, while one’s mind wanders about mundane thoughts?

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
A question that I think fits well in this last post of yours. Was not the ringing of bells during consecration a means to let people in the smaller chapels be aware that the bread and wine was being consecrated in another part of the cathedral or church?
 
Yep. I realize I am new to this Catholic thing, but I was under the impression that Catholics have a ancient tradition of reverence and piety, and that “Buddy Jesus”-style worship is more the specialty of evangelical and pentecostal Protestants.
Far from it. The Protestants took that form of spirituality from the Catholic mystics. The Catholic mystics have always written and spoken about their friendship with Jesus. St. Teresa used to play the guitar for him and she also scolded him.

Padre Pio would get very upset with Jesus. St. Francis of Assisi would take two sticks, pretend it was a violin and sing and dance before the tabernacle. There were other great mystics who did the same. Once, while traveling, Teresa of Avila was thrown from her cart into the mud. She heard Jesus’ voice say, “This is the way I treat my friends.” Teresa was so upset with Jesus that she responded, “No wonder you have so few.”

There is a famous story of a woman who was praying to Mary and she thought she heard Jesus calling to her while she prayed. She ignored the voice. The voice kept calling. Unable to ignore the voice any longer she stopped her rosary and said to the voice, “Be quiet. I’m talking to your mother.” As far as she was concerned her relationship with Jesus was so personal that there was nothing wrong in speaking to him as one would to a family member. That’s the point.

The mystics have defined prayer as a “conversation with a friend.”

Catholicism has always encouraged a very personal and familial relationship with Jesus, especially among religious. This is always taught in novitiates. The novice must discover in Jesus: his friend, his lover and his God. That’s what we teach the novices in my community.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
A question that I think fits well in this last post of yours. Was not the ringing of bells during consecration a means to let people in the smaller chapels be aware that the bread and wine was being consecrated in another part of the cathedral or church?
That was a later development. The earliest development is rather humorous. The monks would get up in the middle of the night to pray, usually around 12:00 am. They’d go back to bed and rise again at about 4:45 am. They would remain awak the rest of the day. The mass was always the last thing before breakfast. By the time the mas came around, usually around 6:30 or 7:00 the monks had been up for a while and sitting in silence in the chapel.

The bells during the mass were introduced by the Benedictines to wake up the monks who had fallen asleep at their seats. The poor guys were sleepy, cold (not heat in those monasteries) and hungry.

That’s how the Benedictines started the use of the bells during mass. Later, people would hear them, because it was very early in the morning, they would know that the mass was being celebrated.

The Franciscans had no bells. We had wooden clappers. Now we have bells. But bells were expensive and the brothers could not afford them. I remember the clappers too. God I’m old. They were the most annoying sound. The bells are nice.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
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