Question about rape by proxy

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So if the kidnappers cut her throat in front of you, you won’t feel the least bit guilty knowing you might possibly have saved her life?
Good never comes from evil. I would prefer to die knowing I had done no wrong against an innocent woman. What others do is on their conscience, not mine. I would have of course to fight them to my death in even a fruitless attempt to save the woman. Nothing less is called for from a man of courage. Pray that we are never called to find that honour within our souls.
 
Temptation got the better or me and I decided to get involved in this discussion. God forgive me.
In my view, those “forced” would still be culpable. Their culpability would be lowered, because they were being pressured at gunpoint, but not absent. They still had a choice. They still could have said “No.”, come what may come. This is the behavior that is befitting a Christian, or any fully moral person.

But it is above what probably most of us would do. Imagine if all good men refused to do evil’s bidding, no matter what. The world would be a much better place. Bu we make excuses due to fear and lack of faith. And no, I am not putting myself above that level. I am not among the saints.
I don’t agree with this. The value of a human life is so high that we have a duty to protect it. If we knew for sure this would save their lives (which we woldn’t and the this whole discussion is pretty far out there) the male in would be relieved of cuplability. If he refused and lives were lost because of his refusal he would have to assume responsibility. In anyway the captor assumes all responsibilty for everything.
 
I don’t believe this question was asked without another motive.

This scenario can be extrapolated into current situations:

Is a correction officer who helps incarcerate death row inmate guilty of killing him? Or is his duty to enforce the currents law even if he doesn’t agree with them?

Are police officers who arrest protestesters that get out of hand guilty of the abortions that go on in the clinic that day?

Honestly I see a trap in the question.

And no. Police officers and corrections officers who enforce laws are doing there duty they are not guilty of taking lives by proxy.
 
Temptation got the better or me and I decided to get involved in this discussion. God forgive me.

I don’t agree with this. The value of a human life is so high that we have a duty to protect it. If we knew for sure this would save their lives (which we woldn’t and the this whole discussion is pretty far out there)…
That is a key point! Kidnappers are not famous for their trustworthiness. Just because they say they let you go if you rape her, a reasonable person would not put much credence in that promise. It is just as likely that the kidnappers intend to kill both of you regardless of whether you comply. Considering that kidnapping is already a capital offense, they have little to lose and perhaps some security to gain by killing both of you as the only witnesses who can identify the kidnappers. At least by failing to go along with their demand you are remaining free of guilt.
 
This is heroic purity–going above and beyond what is required to a supernatural degree It in no way implies that a victim of rape is at all culpable.
yes, I agree with that. I think the better focus is to look at the lives of these types of saints and focus on them and their choices instead of splitting hairs as in choosing the lesser of two evils. Yes there is no culpability in being a victim nor is anyone less holy if that is something they suffered from. Some of these saints such a St. Charles Lwanga sheltered others from an evil pervert and did what he could even if in the end they all gave up their lives for moral purity and their own integrity. These saints should be our focus not on scenarios that ultimately lead to justification of the lesser of two evils.Those types of choices are not from God and refusing to go along with perversion in the name of “saving” someone’s life is just a sick idea and again a false dichotomy and a waste of time.
 
I don’t believe this question was asked without another motive.

This scenario can be extrapolated into current situations:

Is a correction officer who helps incarcerate death row inmate guilty of killing him? Or is his duty to enforce the currents law even if he doesn’t agree with them?

Are police officers who arrest protestesters that get out of hand guilty of the abortions that go on in the clinic that day?

Honestly I see a trap in the question.

And no. Police officers and corrections officers who enforce laws are doing there duty they are not guilty of taking lives by proxy.
yes these types of questions are traps. Jesus didn’t answer them when asked by Pharisee but exposed the trap.
 
So if the kidnappers cut her throat in front of you, you won’t feel the least bit guilty knowing you might possibly have saved her life?
The kidnappers are in complete control of the situation. They are also moral agents of their own, not machines or natural phenomena. The man’s refusal does not kill the woman; the kidnappers choose to do that, and could have chosen otherwise no matter what the man did. Conversely, the man’s compliance does not prevent the kidnappers from killing either victim at whim. Even the chance to save their lives depends entirely on the kidnappers being willing to go through with their strange bargain, and the victims have no influence over that.

Obviously, in the actual situation, fear and other emotions will play a part, and someone may make a choice (either way) he later regrets. But just looking at your hypothetical, there is no reason to assign culpability to the male victim for the actions of others.

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Temptation got the better or me and I decided to get involved in this discussion. God forgive me.

I don’t agree with this. The value of a human life is so high that we have a duty to protect it. If we knew for sure this would save their lives (which we woldn’t and the this whole discussion is pretty far out there) the male in would be relieved of cuplability. If he refused and lives were lost because of his refusal he would have to assume responsibility. In anyway the captor assumes all responsibilty for everything.
The captor assumes responsibility for his or her actions, as does the ones who were captured. Doing evil is still doing evil, no matter what justification we make up for the action. Somehow, I doubt those who have given their physical lives as the result of refusing to deny Christ to save the lives of their family would agree with the idea that if the man rapes her to save her life he is free of guilt for the rape.
 
The reason I ask this question is because unfortunately events like the Nanking Massacre happened in real life. During said massacre, the invading Japanese soldiers forced Chinese civilians to commit rape against their will; sons forced to rape mothers, fathers forced to rape daughters, and celibate monks forced to do these things as well. I am asking because I was curious if the people who were forced to do such things would be considered by God to be rapists or victims of rape.

I do not appreciate being accused of trying to trap anyone, that is not my intention.
 
I don’t agree with this. The value of a human life is so high that we have a duty to protect it. If we knew for sure this would save their lives (which we woldn’t and the this whole discussion is pretty far out there) the male in would be relieved of cuplability. If he refused and lives were lost because of his refusal he would have to assume responsibility. In anyway the captor assumes all responsibilty for everything.
But you’re looking at this from a deterministic/consequential sort of way. The people involved are all moral actors with free will, not machines. So whether I choose to rape the woman or not in the hopes of satiating the kidnapper’s need for perversion and let her go has no bearing on the kidnapper’s moral choice. It is independent. Just as my moral choice is independent. And I must not do evil so that good may come.
The kidnappers are in complete control of the situation. They are also moral agents of their own, not machines or natural phenomena. The man’s refusal does not kill the woman; the kidnappers choose to do that, and could have chosen otherwise no matter what the man did. Conversely, the man’s compliance does not prevent the kidnappers from killing either victim at whim. Even the chance to save their lives depends entirely on the kidnappers being willing to go through with their strange bargain, and the victims have no influence over that.
Exactly! 👍

Now, if I had a gun and could protect my life and that of the woman by firing at the perpetrator after a warning, I believe that would be a perfectly moral use of force and I would not hesitate to use it in such a circumstance.

However, if the threat was NOT a person- NOT a free moral agent- then the situation would be different. If it was some kind of device where the only way to free the woman was to have sex with her- that would pose a different moral dilemma, I think. Still, one could always ask permission, thus not making it rape, but consensual sex (which is still a mortal sin, but a not as bad as rape)!

But if this were intentionally set up by a moral agent and on going we’d essentially get into the perverse and unlikely situations that the infamous Saw movies like to put people through. In such a situation the moral principles would still stand- one has a right to survival and do do what one can to survive, including taking the life of the perpetrator, but not the life/innocence of another innocent.
These saints should be our focus not on scenarios that ultimately lead to justification of the lesser of two evils.Those types of choices are not from God and refusing to go along with perversion in the name of “saving” someone’s life is just a sick idea and again a false dichotomy and a waste of time.
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yes these types of questions are traps. Jesus didn’t answer them when asked by Pharisee but exposed the trap.
It’s still useful to discuss them in case one ever encounters a similar situation in real life. Thankfully most of the situations we encounter in real life are much more common and clear. But then, we often have problems with those too.
 
Being a Marine, I’d be forced to follow through the scenario to it’s natural end. Now the question is; Did I commit a mortal sin by beating our captors to death? or dying trying? 👍
 
Being a Marine, I’d be forced to follow through the scenario to it’s natural end. Now the question is; Did I commit a mortal sin by beating our captors to death? or dying trying? 👍
As a marine, I believe my money would be on you. But courage must mean something to a man. Good man!
 
Temptation got the better or me and I decided to get involved in this discussion. God forgive me.
LOL! I’m with you! 👍

Here’s my take: we’re discussing ‘culpability’ as if it were a binary switch – either “fully culpable” or “not at all culpable.” It would seem to me that, if a hostage were to rape a fellow hostage, at the command of his kidnapper, then a number of considerations come into play, including the hostage’s mental ability to withstand his captor’s demands, the hostage’s mental state (which may include such a level of stress as to preclude a reasoned decision), the will of other hostage (!).

In any of these considerations, though, it seems clear that the culpability for mortal sin belongs solely to the captor; however, there may be culpability for venial sin on the part of the hostage.
 
The captor assumes responsibility for his or her actions, as does the ones who were captured. Doing evil is still doing evil, no matter what justification we make up for the action.
Are Jews who did forced labor in concentration camps guilty of supporting Nazi cause? Should they have surrendered their desire to survive?
 
Somehow, I doubt those who have given their physical lives as the result of refusing to deny Christ to save the lives of their family would agree with the idea that if the man rapes her to save her life he is free of guilt for the rape.
I am not sure this is an apples to apples comparison. Surrendering a belief is different than participating in an action.
 
Are Jews who did forced labor in concentration camps guilty of supporting Nazi cause? Should they have surrendered their desire to survive?
I am not sure how you make the connection between working in a labor camp to raping a woman. Each is responsible for their own actions. 🤷
 
I am not sure this is an apples to apples comparison. Surrendering a belief is different than participating in an action.
Unless of course that action is surrendering your belief, so no, it is not different. I don’t know about you, but I would never, under any circumstance, sin against God by raping a woman no matter what lies were told to me about someone’s survival. It is turning your back on God and for selfish reasons. If those who died simply because they refused to deny God by word, how could anyone do less and deny God by action? And I am not even touching on surrender by word IS action.

No, regardless of the circumstances, if someone rapes or commits any crime because of some threat, that choice to commit the crime is theirs and they hold full responsibility. There is no “Get out of jail free” card" for them to play. They choose to follow God or deny God. It is that simple. If the choice is rape a woman or die, then die it is. Sometimes it isn’t easy being a child of God. Make sure we choose the right path in every situation and stop looking for excuses to do something we know is wrong.
 
It is turning your back on God and for selfish reasons…and stop looking for excuses to do something we know is wrong.
If the male captive here has a sincere belief he will save her life then is the act selfish?
 
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I am not sure how you make the connection between working in a labor camp to raping a woman. Each is responsible for their own actions. 🤷
I am not sure how you don’t make the connection.
  1. they are both under duress
  2. they are both forced to do something that would normally be evil
 
If the male captive here has a sincere belief he will save her life then is the act selfish?
It’s a sinful act he can choose NOT to perform, leaving the blame in the hands of only the abductors who may or may not follow through with their threats. If he chooses to act in a sinful way, he accepts blame for the sin he chooses to engage. If he refuses, as he should and any Christian must, any sin the captors choose to engage is theirs alone.

This is no different than killing someone for no reason to save another’s life under threat. It is still murder and still rape, there is no way to get around this truth. YOU are responsible for YOUR actions and if YOU choose to sin, regardless of the circumstances, that is YOUR choice and YOU are responsible for that action.

Unless the Catholic Church had provided an explaination to the contrary I’m unaware of, it’s wrong.
 
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