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Feanaro's Wife:
You are correct. This is not clear cut. As several Catholic Answers apologists have pointed out, you are NOT morally obligated to abstain around ovulation when using the pill for legitimate medical purposes.I have heard this advice many times, but I wonder how it is possible. For me, personally, while I was on the Pill (yes, for medical reasons) I never had any cervical fluid. I would not have been able to tell when and if I was fertile.
I was very confused when I started researching NFP before going off of the Pill. I had no idea what all the different kind of fluid were! It took quite a few months post-pill before I started to get any fluid. It took close to a year before the fluid pattern resembled anything in the books.
So for any women out there who are thinking of getting off of the Pill before you get married, do it as soon as possible so that your body has a chance to get back to normal and make it easier to use NFP in your marriage.
One other thing I would like to note… I was put on the Pill for heavy bleeding and severe cramps. It did reduce the severity of both, but now that I am off of it, my periods are lighter than ever and the cramps are not nearly as bad. Go figure.
Malia