I have been told by other Calvinists that they are one of the “elect” and therefore no sin can separate them from the love of God
Here is my question.
Could you, as one of the elect, commit the sin of adultery or fornication or murder or rape, or homosexual relations, and without confessing and repenting of that sin still be absolutely assured that you will enter eternal life with God?
If your answer is yes, please provide a scripture that proves your belief.
I used to be Presbyterian, which is a Calvinistic Church. However my first and most influential pastor was Methodist, which meant he was schooled in Arminian theology.
Even the fact I was Presbyterian was almost incidental, as my father was Catholic, but lost his faith. He had me baptised Presbyterian after marrying an Anglican, and my sister wasn’t baptised at all, so we had a microcosm of modern Western society in one small family.
Now to some extent I sit on the fence. One of the problems with hardline Calvinism or the Reformed Church can be spiritual arrogance. The policy of Aparthied in South Africa largely owed its origins to the Dutch Reformed Church for example. I know of one particular Presbyterian pastor who lies and conspires, even to the point of wrecking the careers of other pastors by the evil use of power when he was moderator, yet no doubt considers himself one of the Elect. He’s convinced he can’t be lost, no matter how many lies he tells. Even my own old pastor said of him, “He tells a lot of lies”, and “He serves the devil. He thinks he serves God, but he serves the devil. It’s a terrible position to be in.” For personal reasons, I’m less sympathetic.
That’s the main problem with it.
However to counteract that, my own father turned up in my room the night he died. I’ve related this ad infinitum on other posts. But during the proceedings he blurted out, “I always was doomed! I didn’t really have any choice!” I argued back (and I was an atheist at the time), “That can’t be right!” He replied, “Oh, it’s right, all right, You can see that from here!”
But later in the same conversation, he also said, “I was WILLING!” (to do the cruel, stupid, vindictive things that condemned him). So if that was correct, both principles operated - he was both predestined, but also very willing to do what he did.
Was Adolf Hitler predestined to do what he did? I think he was (and so, I believe was Winston Churchill. Yet as soon as Churchill had carried out his singularly important role in World War II, he was voted out on his ear in the very next election. He’d fulfilled his preordained function. He was willing as well.)
And Adolf Hitler was also willing. Very willing.
So I think both properties operate. And I think the OSAS are dead wrong. The reality though is that those Calvinists who take their faith
seriously are as aware of avoiding sin as anybody else, and repenting when they fail. The main danger, as I see it, is a tendency to spiritual arrogance, as shown by Apartheid and the specific pastor I mentioned above.