It is a matter of discipline. If some one becomes arrogant, abusive it becomes necessary to take action. Three stage action is very wisely advised in the Quran. But the christians cannot undersatnd the goodness in that advice. The last step in such cases could be divorce. But the christians do not like the divorce too. So what they do, I do not know what they do in such bad spoiled wife cases?
If bible does not say in such cases “beat your wife” or it does “say beat your wife”, i have no idea. I believe there is no guidance in the bible about it. That is another bad thing, not having a word of guidance about it.
The Quran is very clear about these things. I can quote a Hadith too, a saying of the prophet 'The best amongst you is the one who is best for his family (towards his family)."
That shows one has to be kind and well behaving husband. Only in serious bad cases where the wife becomes disobedient, something has to be done. What happens when a christian comes home drunk and there is a clash. It is always reported in the newspapers.