How does one explain fruits of the Spirit like love, joy or peace if not through feelings?
I have been very involved in a charismatic prayer group for three years now. My experience has been incredibly positive and I have grown closer to God the Father, to Jesus Christ and to the Holy Spirit as a result. I love mass, I love Eucharistic adoration and I continue to grow in ability to love others.
I have experienced either personally or through others the gift of tongues, interpretation, discernment, words of knowledge, prophesy and healing.
I am surrounded by people that really live their faith, loving God and loving and serving the parish and each other.
I know I may be guilty of looking prideful, exclusive or elitist - and very sorry for anyone hurt by that, it is not intentional. I know i just really want others to experience what I have: the truly profound depth of how much God loves you!
I don’t say the following to offend charismatics, please accept my apologies if you feel offended.
Love, Joy, Peace, these feelings are universal, shared by all human beings whether they are religious or not. Are we to believe that love, joy and peace can be experienced just by Christians?
Discussing these feelings with another friend that says that the Holy Spirit is present in their group gatherings, I told her that the way her assembly react is similar to those I see in crowds at rock concerts, where you’ll see people feeling love (hugging each other), joy (everyone happy) and wishing peace for all (the two fingers peace sign from the 60’s). I’m sure the Holy Spirit is not in those rock concerts, but love, joy and peace are.
I believe the traditional way these fruits of the Spirit were experienced by Catholics was in their privacy. The individual grew in love for all, he carried his life with joy, and was at peace with everyone, but it was experienced privately, discreetly. The public signs of the fruits we see today were not the norm for almost 2000 years. This public showing of the fruits came from the Protestant camp, which rejected it when it first appeared about 100 years ago. Would it be that this “private” vs “public” showing of the fruits is where the real difference is?
We have the parable of the Pharisee and the tax collector in *Luke 18:
10 “Two men went up to the Temple to pray; one was a Pharisee and the other a tax collector.
11 The Pharisee stood by himself and said: ‘I thank you, God, that I am not like other people, grasping, crooked, adulterous, or even like this tax collector.
12 I fast twice a week and give the tenth of all my income to the Temple.’
13 In the meantime the tax collector, standing far off, would not even lift his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast saying: ‘O God, be merciful to me, a sinner.’
14 I tell you, when this man went down to his house, he had been set right with God, but not the other. For whoever makes himself out to be great will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be raised.”*
I think you don’t see many individuals like the tax collector not only in the charismatic movement but in the Church in general, and the reason is ahead. I also believe that the appearance of the charismatic movement in the Catholic Church coincided with other changes and thus they were accepted easily, they got a free ride. The reason we don’t see the tax collector is that things now are done collectively and loudly, whether clapping, singing, holding hands, responding the priest’s prayers. Before it was “I” the individual attending Mass or praying (the tax collector), now it’s “Us” the collective where the “I” prays loudly (the Pharisee?) together with the rest. Before there was silence during Mass, you could pray like the tax collector if you felt you needed to, now you are expected to be part of the “community”, and it seems the louder the better.
This is another example of this push for the collectiveness, I know a priest who said to the congregation during a Sunday Mass, “I don’t want to see sad faces here, I don’t want to see closed mouths when we sing. If you don’t want to participate then you better stay at home”. Sadly, this mind set is almost everywhere, there is practically no church were this practice (fashion?) is not present, since most of our young priest were trained in a charismatic environment.
So my question would be: are charismatics sure that when Paul mentioned these gifts he meant they had to be made in public, all together at the same time and loudly?