I am registered at and attend a Byzantine Catholic Parish, and it has been my primary parish for probably the last two years, and the majority of my time as a Catholic. I use to serve at the altar every weekend, although I have not served too much lately as school has been busy. I was also president of the school’s campus ministry for a year. Sometimes, such as this weekend, I went to a Roman Mass simply for convenience (although I hate doing this because most Roman liturgies are atrocious).
I do not follow the fasting customs strictly. I follow the strict fast during the Great Fast and during the St. Philip’s Fast, but I do not usually follow more than the minimum (abstinence from flesh-meat one Wednesdays and Fridays) during the Apostles’ Fast and Dormition Fast. I abstain from flesh-meat every Friday. I sometimes feel guilty and feel like I should abstain from animal products on Wednesdays and Fridays, but when I did do that, I found myself being extra gluttonous on Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday.
I follow the Holy Days of Obligation as I am instructed to at my parish. Usually there is a Divine Liturgy when the Romans have a day of obligation.
I used to pray the Roman breviary, but have not for a while. That was probably recent convert fervor. I have made the Sign of the Cross in the Eastern (proper) fashion since before my conversion - an Orthodox friend of mine taught me how to make it and it wasn’t until an ex-girlfriend tried to correct me that I switched, but only for a while. I prayer Eastern prayers usually. I used to wear a chotki (prayer rope) but it broke - I need a new one. I have an icon corner at my home, although the center and most prominent icon is a Roman Crucifix.
As for which I identify with? In my soul, I don’t know. I was active in a Maronite Mission before it went defunct. I feel more like an omni-ritual Catholic, honestly. I was received into the Roman Church, so I am Roman. But I often feel more Ruthenian than anything else.
The only reason that I would consider a canonical transfer is if I felt called to a religious or clerical vocation. I don’t believe myself so called at the moment, but were the call to come, I really believe it would be as a Ruthenian. I could see myself becoming a Ruthenian deacon eventually.