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Well it would help if we knew your definition for “legalistic” Also I don’t know what your idea of penitence is in the Western Church. What is your source for this knowledge especially since you apparently hever had confession in a Western Rite church.?
Penitence in the Western Church as in “100 Hail Marys and 100 Our Fathers,” that sort of thing. The “stereotype,” if you will.
I meant “legalistic” as in “specific punishment that has to be carried out.” I now see it was a poor choice of words.
I did not “get that” in my Melkite Confession. 👍
 
Dear brother Nine_Two,

I don’t understand how my two statements contradict. Please explain.

In any case, I know I’ve read comments from bishops online in the past. I don’t have time to search for it online now. I’ll just point out that the Greek Orthodox Church issued an encyclical in 1937 stating that continence is the only moral choice for couples who wish to avoid conception.

Blessings,
Marduk
That’s fine if you don’t have time to search for it now, we can come back to it when you do. I fully understand not having the time or desire to search for stuff.

However an encyclical stating that continence is the only moral choice is not the same as stating a grant of economy specifically nullifies sin.

You’re maybe right, reviewing your comments they don’t contradict, they just mislabel what economy is. Economy is the putting aside of a normal regulation for whatever reason, not a putting aside of Canonical penalties. My last parish had been allowed to use a church building which faced the wrong way. Oikonomia was necessary as it was dispensing with normal rules and regulation, however it was not a sin to do so. Until you show otherwise, oikonomia is not something that can be applied to a sinful act. Whether Catholics use dispensations in this way is something for them to deal with, we do not insofar as I know.
 
That’s fine if you don’t have time to search for it now, we can come back to it when you do. I fully understand not having the time or desire to search for stuff.

However an encyclical stating that continence is the only moral choice is not the same as stating a grant of economy specifically nullifies sin.

You’re maybe right, reviewing your comments they don’t contradict, they just mislabel what economy is. Economy is the putting aside of a normal regulation for whatever reason, not a putting aside of Canonical penalties. My last parish had been allowed to use a church building which faced the wrong way. Oikonomia was necessary as it was dispensing with normal rules and regulation, however it was not a sin to do so. Until you show otherwise, oikonomia is not something that can be applied to a sinful act. Whether Catholics use dispensations in this way is something for them to deal with, we do not insofar as I know.
As I understand it, Orthodox who say that ecomomia may be applied to contraception do not see it as an intrinsic evil in the same way that murder is. Those who do allow it in some circumstances do not see it as an intrinsic evil - which isn’t to say it is a good.
 
As I understand it, Orthodox who say that ecomomia may be applied to contraception do not see it as an intrinsic evil in the same way that murder is. Those who do allow it in some circumstances do not see it as an intrinsic evil - which isn’t to say it is a good.
I don’t think EO Traditionally accept such distinctions. A sin is a sin is a sin. If these EO do say such things, then they have accepted the Latin distinctions between venial and mortal sin.

Blessings
 
Dear brother Nine_Two,
That’s fine if you don’t have time to search for it now, we can come back to it when you do. I fully understand not having the time or desire to search for stuff.

However an encyclical stating that continence is the only moral choice is not the same as stating a grant of economy specifically nullifies sin.

You’re maybe right, reviewing your comments they don’t contradict, they just mislabel what economy is. Economy is the putting aside of a normal regulation for whatever reason, not a putting aside of Canonical penalties. My last parish had been allowed to use a church building which faced the wrong way. Oikonomia was necessary as it was dispensing with normal rules and regulation, however it was not a sin to do so. Until you show otherwise, oikonomia is not something that can be applied to a sinful act. Whether Catholics use dispensations in this way is something for them to deal with, we do not insofar as I know.
Oikonomia as it relates to canonical matters can refer to both a relaxation of the rule or regulation, or a dispensation from the canonical penalty.

But in the moral sphere, it can only refer to the dispensation of the penalty, because nothing can make a sin no longer a sin, or make a sin “less” of a sin than it is.

Blessings,
Marduk
 
All EO I’ve met say that contraception is permitted under the principle of oikonoimia. Some say that it is not a sin because of that. Unless the EO have changed the Traditional understanding of oikonomia, that would be a wrong interpretation. Oikonomia does not make what is a sin no longer a sin. Oikonomia is normally applied on a case-by-case basis. What it does is it removes the normal penalty for a sin. So saying that contraception is permitted by oikonomia is an implicit admission that contraception is a sin.

Blessings,
Marduk
ABC may be allowed for the same reasons the Catholic Church may allow NFP. In fact, it seems to me, based on papal encyclicals such as Casti connubii and other patristic evidence, that the use of NFP is itself an exercise of economia on the part of the Catholic Church.

In Christ
Joe
 
ABC may be allowed for the same reasons the Catholic Church may allow NFP. In fact, it seems to me, based on papal encyclicals such as Casti connubii and other patristic evidence, that the use of NFP is itself an exercise of economia on the part of the Catholic Church.

In Christ
Joe
That is also my reading, though it does not seem to be the view of most American Catholics.
 
That is also my reading, though it does not seem to be the view of most American Catholics.
There are many patristic sources and papal writings that condemn the frustration of conception as sinful. Of course the intention of both ABC and NFP is to frustrate conception. The problem the Catholic Church has with ABC is not based on the fact that concpetion is frustrated, but that it supposedly violates “natural law.”

Of course the fathers didn’t make a distinction between frustration that that violated natural law and frustration that didn’t. That is why in Humanae Vitae, the document laying out the Catholic position on NFP, you will not find a single reference to Apostolic Tradition or the writings of the fathers to support it!

The reality is both Churches allow frustration of conception as a matter of economia. The only difference is the manner of frustration that may be employed.

In Christ
Joe
 
One rarely finds the idea of a celibate marriage suggested or condoned any longer within a Catholic context. One will even find people suggesting it is better for a couple to use NFP than be celibate if there is good reason to avoid pregnancy, because one ought not to avoid sex in marriage. As far as I can tell, this seems to be at least partly the influence of Evangelicals.
I am asking because I have not heard of celibate marriage except perhaps of the Biblical Joseph and Mary. If there is it has to be because of spiritual requirement. It would be good if you can give reference for this type of marriage in Catholicism. Since in your last post you are saying this type of marriage seems to be lost I take it that it must be practiced widely before it was seemed to be lost. So please give reference.

However in my limited experience I do come across a few Catholic couples who would choose celibacy because they oppose the use of birth control or because its usage is unsuitable for them. The other couple was out of fidelity – the husband (who since had died) was paralyzed from the waist down onward due to a car accident and they lived a life of celibacy. I know this case personally as I was involved in going through the journey with them in helping them to overcome the trauma of the unexpected tragedy.

Therefore there are married couples who are celibate in Catholicism but for reasons stated; the reason why you do not see them is because such things are private. There are no doubt catholic married couples who get married for support and companionship and where sex may not be practical. This would be forced by circumstances and not out of preference.

I would like to know more on the celibate marriage of the Orthodox though. It must be interesting, if you don’t mind to tell us.

You seem to be unsure of the role of NFP in the Catholic Church. There may be many people saying many things about it but it may not be the proper Church teaching. Celibacy and birth control has nothing to do with it. It might not be properly understood here; one needs to have a deeper understanding of it to see the reason why it is not so.
 
ABC may be allowed for the same reasons the Catholic Church may allow NFP. In fact, it seems to me, based on papal encyclicals such as Casti connubii and other patristic evidence, that the use of NFP is itself an exercise of economia on the part of the Catholic Church.

In Christ
Joe
This is over simplifying a bit, is it not?
 
Dear brother Nine_Two,

Oikonomia as it relates to canonical matters can refer to both a relaxation of the rule or regulation, or a dispensation from the canonical penalty.

But in the moral sphere, it can only refer to the dispensation of the penalty, because nothing can make a sin no longer a sin, or make a sin “less” of a sin than it is.

Blessings,
Marduk
That sounds rather antinomian.
 
I do not understand.
It is the Orthodox practice not only to eat less and abstain from certain foods during fast periods, but to fast from sexual activity during the fasts.

Now we are in a fasting period, the Nativity Fast or Advent.
 
I am asking because I have not heard of celibate marriage except perhaps of the Biblical Joseph and Mary. If there is it has to be because of spiritual requirement. It would be good if you can give reference for this type of marriage in Catholicism. Since in your last post you are saying this type of marriage seems to be lost I take it that it must be practiced widely before it was seemed to be lost. So please give reference.

However in my limited experience I do come across a few Catholic couples who would choose celibacy because they oppose the use of birth control or because its usage is unsuitable for them. The other couple was out of fidelity – the husband (who since had died) was paralyzed from the waist down onward due to a car accident and they lived a life of celibacy. I know this case personally as I was involved in going through the journey with them in helping them to overcome the trauma of the unexpected tragedy.

Therefore there are married couples who are celibate in Catholicism but for reasons stated; the reason why you do not see them is because such things are private. There are no doubt catholic married couples who get married for support and companionship and where sex may not be practical. This would be forced by circumstances and not out of preference.

I would like to know more on the celibate marriage of the Orthodox though. It must be interesting, if you don’t mind to tell us.

You seem to be unsure of the role of NFP in the Catholic Church. There may be many people saying many things about it but it may not be the proper Church teaching. Celibacy and birth control has nothing to do with it. It might not be properly understood here; one needs to have a deeper understanding of it to see the reason why it is not so.
I’ve also heard of celibate marriages in Orthodoxy. My priest calls them “white marriages.” They are only to be undertaken with the blessing of your spiritual father. It’s also not uncommon for married couples to separate to join monasteries with a blessing. Of course in that case both spouses have to agree to the separation.

In Christ
Joe
 
I’ve also heard of celibate marriages in Orthodoxy. My priest calls them “white marriages.” They are only to be undertaken with the blessing of your spiritual father. It’s also not uncommon for married couples to separate to join monasteries with a blessing. Of course in that case both spouses have to agree to the separation.

In Christ
Joe
Thanks for the information. Is there any particular reason for the undertaking of such marriage? Does it has any Biblical or Traditional justification? How common it is not uncommon for the Orthodox who practice this kind of marriage? Is there any figure or percentage of the total population of Orthodox? Sorry if the questions sound quite naive. This is rather new to me.

God bless.
 
Thanks for the information. Is there any particular reason for the undertaking of such marriage? Does it has any Biblical or Traditional justification? How common it is not uncommon for the Orthodox who practice this kind of marriage? Is there any figure or percentage of the total population of Orthodox? Sorry if the questions sound quite naive. This is rather new to me.

God bless.
Well marriages aren’t undertaken as white marriages in the beginning. It’s something that the couple decides to do later with the blessing of a spiritual father. As far as justification is there are a number of saints who lived in celibate marriages and many more who separated from each other to join a monastery. A recent example is St John of Kronstadt who lived in a celibate marriage.

As far as numbers go I don’t have any hard evidence. Of course couples living in celibate marriages wouldn’t broadcast it to the world. From what I’m told it is very rare as is agreed separation. Couples undertake it for the same reason one undertakes any ascetic effort, to grow in communion with God. 🙂

In Christ
Joe
 
It is the Orthodox practice not only to eat less and abstain from certain foods during fast periods, but to fast from sexual activity during the fasts.

Now we are in a fasting period, the Nativity Fast or Advent.
Interesting. 🙂 I know we should abstain (apart from food where possible) from something we like during the fasting period but those thing are things that bring us away from God like maybe TV, gossip and our other weaknesses. We are instead to do the things that can bring us closer to God like penance, praying and giving alm.

Abstain from sex is something new to me and of course is not included among the abstinence during our fasting period. Sex is God’s gift in marriage and it is holy. But if we immerse ourselves in prayers, we may not be thinking so much about sex but nevertheless there is nothing wrong with it in a marriage life. It certainly does not bring us away from God.
 
I must apologize if Orthodox see it your way as I don’t know much about your belief.

From a Catholic point of view, ABC kills while NFP does not. But then this is just Catholic view.
I don’t understand the distinction as they both purpose to frustrate conception. The only difference is the method used.

In Christ
Joe
 
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