RC in an EC parish and having children baptized

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What needs to happen with me, for example, as a canonically RC person who has been regularly attending an EC parish. If I have my next child and I would definitely want him/her to be baptized in the parish we attend which is the EC parish, are there additional steps to be done? Can someone confirm if we need to inform our canonical RC parish? And also send the baptismal record there? How about confirmation? Can we have the confirmation done as well?
 
What needs to happen with me, for example, as a canonically RC person who has been regularly attending an EC parish. If I have my next child and I would definitely want him/her to be baptized in the parish we attend which is the EC parish, are there additional steps to be done? Can someone confirm if we need to inform our canonical RC parish? And also send the baptismal record there? How about confirmation? Can we have the confirmation done as well?
Depends on the priest. In the many cases I know of personally the baby is baptized, chrismated, and given the Eucharist even if they are officially RC. He probably would not inform the RC parish.

I’m sure Uncle Vito will have another answer for you though. 😃
 
I’m thinking we’d follow the rules here because we want to be polite to our neighbors. 😉
 
What needs to happen with me, for example, as a canonically RC person who has been regularly attending an EC parish. If I have my next child and I would definitely want him/her to be baptized in the parish we attend which is the EC parish, are there additional steps to be done? Can someone confirm if we need to inform our canonical RC parish? And also send the baptismal record there? How about confirmation? Can we have the confirmation done as well?
I talked to my pastor (Byzantine) about this. He said in this situation he must obtain permission from the Latin Chancery before he can proceed licitly, same for Chrismation, but he is not to give Chrismation with baptism in this situation as is usuallly done (nor does he give Holy Eucharist to infants of the Latin Church - the eastern norm is to wait until after Chrismation). To give Chrismation would require permission also. If given permission for one or both, the proper parish (in this case Latin) is to be notified, according to the canon law. He said in practice they do not grant him permission, and there are also complications for matrimony (which I won’t go into here).

These canons bind the eastern priest:

CCEO Canon 683
Baptism must be be celebrated according the liturgical prescriptions of the Church sui iuris in which according to the norm of law the person to be baptized is to be enrolled. [in this case that of the Catholic father/mother means Latin Church sui iuris]

CCEO Canon 696 [Re: Chrismation with Holy Myron]
  1. All presbyters of the Eastern Churches can validly administer this sacrament either along with baptism or separately to all the Christian faithful of any Church sui iuris including the Latin Church.
  2. The Christian faithful of Eastern Churches validly receive this sacrament also from presbyters of the Latin Church, according to the faculties with which these are endowed.
  3. Any presbyter licitly administers this sacrament only to the Christian faithful of his own Church sui iuris; when it is a case of Christian faithful of other Churches sui iuris, he lawfully acts if they are his subjects, or those whom he lawfully baptizes in virtue of another title, or those who are in danger of death, and always with due regard for the agreements entered between the Churches sui iuris in this matter. [Latin Church members are subjects to the local Latin bishop, unless there is not one, then one is assigned of another Church sui iuris]
CCEO Canon 697
Sacramental initiation in the mystery of salvation is perfected in the reception of the Divine Eucharist, and thus the Divine Eucharist is administered after baptism and chrismation with holy myron as soon as possible according to the norms of the particular law of the each Church sui iuris.
 
What needs to happen with me, for example, as a canonically RC person who has been regularly attending an EC parish. If I have my next child and I would definitely want him/her to be baptized in the parish we attend which is the EC parish, are there additional steps to be done? Can someone confirm if we need to inform our canonical RC parish? And also send the baptismal record there? How about confirmation? Can we have the confirmation done as well?
I asked my priest about this maybe a year or so ago. He said if a Latin couple were longstanding, active “parishoners” he would baptize, chrismate and give Holy Eucharist to their baby. I cannot recall now what he said about what approvals he might need to do it. He or previous priests of my parish chrismated several of our adult parishioners who were baptized in the Latin Church and had never been confirmed.
 
I asked my priest about this maybe a year or so ago. He said if a Latin couple were longstanding, active “parishoners” he would baptize, chrismate and give Holy Eucharist to their baby. I cannot recall now what he said about what approvals he might need to do it. He or previous priests of my parish chrismated several of our adult parishioners who were baptized in the Latin Church and had never been confirmed.
My pastor checked with his bishop, and the Latin Chancery …no permissions needed. Give them all the sacraments just make sure it is noted in the Baptismal register that the child is officially RC.
 
Although my family is still canonically Roman, my daughter was Baptized, Chrismated, and Communicated at our Melkite parish according to the Melkite tradition. We left it up to our pastor to handle the logistics…

In point of fact, my daughter was actually baptized in the hospital, but still according to the Melkite tradition. Our pastor wasn’t able to fully immerse her because she has a bunch of tubes and monitors hooked up to her. So he dipped her feet and then poured water over her head. It was the best he could do given the circumstances. Since my brother and his wife (my daughter’s God parents) were not able to make it on time, my dad got to fill in for them; a fact of which he is immensely proud even to this day. 😃
 
My pastor checked with his bishop, and the Latin Chancery …no permissions needed. Give them all the sacraments just make sure it is noted in the Baptismal register that the child is officially RC.
Thanks! I hope its the same case here with the RC diocese. Sometimes the rules and the practice are different.
 
What needs to happen with me, for example, as a canonically RC person who has been regularly attending an EC parish. If I have my next child and I would definitely want him/her to be baptized in the parish we attend which is the EC parish, are there additional steps to be done? Can someone confirm if we need to inform our canonical RC parish? And also send the baptismal record there? How about confirmation? Can we have the confirmation done as well?
You need permission from your proper parish priest. The baptism should be recorded at your proper parish. Whether these things will happen or not is another matter. Even if your child is baptised in your EC parish the child will be a Latin Catholic. I presume because you are asking this question that your wife is also Latin Catholic.
 
Yes we all are Roman Catholics canonically.
I just thought if your wife belonged to an Eastern Catholic church there would be no issues.

Canonically, you’ll need the permission of the parish priest of the Latin parish in which you have your domicile. In practice you may not have to do this. As I am sure you know the child would be canonically Latin even if baptised in a Eastern Catholic church.
 
I just thought if your wife belonged to an Eastern Catholic church there would be no issues.

Canonically, you’ll need the permission of the parish priest of the Latin parish in which you have your domicile. In practice you may not have to do this. As I am sure you know the child would be canonically Latin even if baptised in a Eastern Catholic church.
Constantine…I suggest you speak with your parish priest or the bishop since you have his ear. They have probably been through this before and will let you know the routine.
 
Children follow the rite of the father. If you are canonically Roman, your children must be baptized in the RC church. I’m sorry if this is not the answer you wanted to hear, but many priests will “look the other way” and bend the rules which is not the right thing to do.

This happened to my husband and didn’t find out the truth until we were engaged and planning our wedding. My FIL was raised RC, but after marrying my MIL, began attending her Byz Cath parish. When DH was born, he was baptized in the BC rite, contrary to canon law. We assumed we had to get married in the BC rite, and went to see the priest to begin adding preparations. He’s the one who questioned DHs rite, by pointing out his very Irish last name and hinting at how rare it would be for a man of Irish descent (FIL) to NOT be RC. Come to find out, FIL never transferred rites, thus DH was not BC.

This was shocking to him, and we were married in the RC church. After our wedding, DH began the process to transferring his rite so that legally speaking, he’d be BC. That was an interesting process, especially as the eparchy first thought he was just some random, attracted to the smells and bells of the east!
 
Constantine…I suggest you speak with your parish priest or the bishop since you have his ear. They have probably been through this before and will let you know the routine.
That process is underway but they don’t have an answer for me just yet.
 
No, the couple goes to the husband’s rite.
Not always. Either party can declare at the time of the wedding that they are joining the church of the other party…it is noted in the register and that is it…no other “change of rite” needed.
 
Hmm I’ve never heard this! Interesting! How is it decided where the wedding would be held? I’d heard that the Eastern rite gets the wedding between a Byz Cath and a RC.
 
Jenn, Eastern Rite gets the wedding IF the husband is Eastern, its all according to the rite of the perspective groom. I should clarify that and say at least for the Byzantine Ruthenian Church thats the way it is. I married a Latin Catholic and had my marriage in the Byzantine Church but only after special permissions were obtained from the bishhops of the respective Church`s.
 
Hmm I’ve never heard this! Interesting! How is it decided where the wedding would be held? I’d heard that the Eastern rite gets the wedding between a Byz Cath and a RC.
The Latin Church gives freedom to choose which parish, but the eastern Catholic canons specify the parish of the groom, unless a just cause exists, or the particular laws allow either. And the wedding must be blessed by a priest (not a deacon) to be valid, unless there is a grave reason. (There are also differences in impediments, and the eastern marriage is unconditional.)

CCEO 806, 809, 810, 811, 826, 828, 831.2, 834
 
I married a Latin Catholic and had my marriage in the Byzantine Church but only after special permissions were obtained from the bishhops of the respective Church`s.
We’re looking forward to such a wedding in our parish in the coming months. 😃
 
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