Too late. But we might want to remember we are probably the most spiritually-bereft country in the world and the most corrupted. What we need is a big fashion push for sackcloth and ashes.
I don’t know if we’re the most spiritually bereft. However, after living in Europe and South America, I have to say that American Catholics are probably the least honest of the three. I don’t think we do it intentionally. Allow me to explain.
In Europe and South America, when people disagree with the Church, they simply leave. They leave her alone. They don’t bother or cause a rift. They’re very honest. They are not part of the Church, because they don’t buy into this or that, end of story.
In the USA, people tend to disagree with this or that, but they want to call themselves Catholic and then they want to tell the Church how to do business. Sometimes, we’re so arrogant that we want to teach the faith, theology and basic catechism to the pope, especially popes who are very holy men, very faithful men and very high profile intellectuals. We hold ourselves up as their intellectual equals.
I think that in the USA we do more harm to the unity of the Church than they do in other countries. Those people may disagree, but they don’t bother the Church.
Another thing that I noticed in Europe and South America is their demeanor in the presence of bishops, clergy and religious. Despite the rampant secularism in Europe, when they are in the presence of priests, bishops, brothers, sister or nuns, they treat them with great respect, even the person who claims that he’s an agnostic or atheist. Obviously, the Nazis, Fascists and Communists were brutal to them. However, they were equal opportunity abusers. They don’t count here.
While I was a student in Rome, I made a very good friend. He was an agnostic, like most people in Rome. When we arrived, the college was full, so they rented a few apartments for us in an apartment house up the street. The young man who worked at the front desk and I became good friends. He spoke very good English and I spoke very bad Italian when I first arrived.
I asked him why he was so nice to us, aside from the fact that we were paying rent. He said something that made me think. He said that they (the Romans) have a lot of respect for clergy and religious because of their genius. They also appreciate what the clergy and religious have done for the poor. It left me thinking. They have an ability to separate what they appreciate from what they don’t appreciate. They have big issues with contraception, abortion, same-sex marriage, divorce, pre-marital sex, women’s ordination and a few other moral laws, just as Americans do. So they separate from the Church and they p(name removed by moderator)oint these issues as the reason for separating. At the same time, they acknowledge the contribution of the clergy and religious to their society.
In a recent talk to the Knights of Columbus, Archbishop Chaput spoke about those who do such things. He reminded his audience that we don’t own the Church.
He said, **“Renewal begins not in vilifying others, but in examining ourselves honestly, repenting of our own sins, and changing ourselves,”
Although sin and failure “need to be named,” he said, “when people deride their bishops and priests out of pride and resentment or some perverse desire for what they perceive as ‘power,’ they undermine the Church herself, and they set themselves against the God, whose vessel she is.”**
I believe that this is the area where we, American Catholics, need to work on. We often operate out of resentment and a desire to control. The Church cannot be controlled. Individuals cannot be controlled. People don’t change because we want them to change. Each person changes through self-examination and honest contrition. Each of us has to change rather than try to change the other person.
St. Francis always taught his brothers to change the world by their example, not their words. “Let your walking be your preaching.” St. Vincent de Paul told his Lazarists (today called the Vincentians) and the Daughters of Charity, “Let your charity, be your sermon.” Mother Teresa always said, “Love Jesus in every man. Take him everywhere you go and let him do the rest.”
If I look at Francis, Vincent and Mother Teresa, I can’t even begin to count the number of men and women whose lives they turned toward the Gospel without ever engaging in conflict.
We need to back off. Either we’re Catholics like Francis, Vincent and Teresa or we walk away like the Europeans and South Americans. To say that we’re Catholic and be in a constant state of conflict with the Church is not very Catholic at all. Great saints were often drawn into conflicts, but not against the legitimate authorities in the Church. They were drawn into conflicts against those who tried to overturn authority. That’s a big difference.
We must always seek to reach the perfection of charity in all things.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF
