My quote:
Just because you don’t believe something doesn’t make it true.
Your response:
“I have no idea what you mean here.”
My reply:
I don’t either.

(notice to lurkers, don’t post at the end of a long and tiring day) The sentence was supposed to read: Just because you don’t believe in something, doesn’t make your point of view true. For example, I might not believe in the theory of evolution, but that doesn’t make my point of view true. (And by the way, I do believe that evolution is the best explanation of the historical and ongoing creation of existence)
As to the rest of your observations: You posit the possible existence of a God who is decent and rational. You say that free will is a cop out by a lazy and incompetent designer. And then you elaborate on free will’s existence in subsequent posts. So it stands to reason that a decent and rational God could not have given man the free will that you contend he has. (After all a decent and rational God isn’t lazy and incompetent.) So, if free will didn’t come from God, what then, it evolved??? In only one species ??? What does a decent and rational God have against rainbow trout, or kangaroos, or western diamondback rattlesnakes? Why don’t they have free will ?? then, you confuse reflex with instinct, and go on to argue the parallels between human sexuality and the activities of higher primates. To be honest, I can’t find the caboose on your train of thought. To another poster you claimed that he/she was arguing the particulars and not the concept you put forth. Me, I find so many concepts, I’ll pass on any attempt to reply. Suffice to say, you are an exceptional moving target.
Your example of the child and the electrical outlet isn’t a good one, although your point that the action of a superior intellect and will does not negate free will is a good one. However a
‘coerced’ free will is a contradiction in terms.
Young children have neither instinct nor higher faculties of reason.
Put a six month old child and a six month old mouse in a room with a king cobra. The mouse, acting on its instinct, will flee. The infant will not. It will approach the snake, and die. It has neither instinct (and in the animal kingdom, the instinct of self preservation is paramount), nor acquired knowledge with which to survive. The human parent child relationship is unique in the animal kingdom. Parents must think for their infant children. Human reason and free will develop humans in a way no other animal in known existence, does. Interestingly, in the overall point of this thread, you are arguing for the existence of free will, that gift that our rational and decent Creator endowed us with.
As to being intolerant, GUILTY. You see, this is a Catholic forum, and we Catholics (hopefully) faithfully follow a man who was nailed to a tree and also was intolerant. “Go and sin no more” - rather intolerant, wouldn’t you say? So, I do not and will not tolerate the canonization by the “beautiful people” of pop culture, of the moral sores I cited in my post. Despite your contentions, those moral cancers do hurt people, and we see it every day in the news. Yes, I am intolerant of the action, but not of the person or persons involved. That judgment is not left to me, and we Catholics did away with the Inquisition a long time ago.
As to further arguing the existence of God, Free Will, and other related topics, no. That runs the danger of hijacking the thread and that belongs on the I am an Atheist thread anyway. Arguing the Catholic concept of God with committed atheists, is a little like going to the barrio in Mexico City and speaking Norwegian. No thanks
And as to the original intent of the thread, I think that there are some interesting scientific, psychological, and physiological investigations underway as to the root causes of homosexuality. In twenty years I think we will understand that there is a constitutional aspect to it, and it is not simply a chosen behavior. Here I depart from the views of a great number of my more conservative Catholic brethren. And while you may believe that sexuality, either homo or hetero is simply a matter of seeking fun and pleasure, the fact is that it will always be the Catholic position that human sexuality was created “from the beginning” to be expressed within the framework of a committed union between a man and a woman, and its purpose was to be pro-creative and unitive. That will not change. Any other expression is an offense to mankind’s Creator. That’s the Catholic position, this is a Catholic forum, and just because you don’t believe it, doesn’t make you right. At least, not on this forum.
And you said that it is foolish to impose my views on others. I’m not imposing anything. I am merely stating a point of view and I don’t consider the views of others, views that are diametrically opposed to mine, to be an imposition. Granted, my views are in opposition to the ‘anything goes’ sexuality, permissiveness, and moral relativism of today’s society. If people who hold views contrary to mine consider me an imposition, it’s their problem.
And you stated something about using the arguments of others. Reading your post, I don’t know if you are stating that is what I’m doing. Well, if that’s the case, I have no idea who John Doran is, never read a word he’s said, and wouldn’t know him if he ran up my right side, did the funky chicken on my head, and ran down my back. Besides, you wouldn’t believe the source and inspiration of my ideas if I told you. A source that doesn’t wear a Roman collar, preachers robes, or minister’s business suit - not by a long shot.
Shalom