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Hello everyone … I am back for more. Hope you can help out.
Does this sound right? (along with a few questions):
In Reconciliation, we are confessing to Christ and it is he who forgives and absolves our sin. The priest is the sacramental witness, who assures us of forgiveness, as appointed by Jesus to the Apostles in John 20.
So is praying to Jesus for forgiveness a mandatory part of this process? Can this be done when not in the presence of a priest? In other words during our own personal time of prayer and meditation? Because as I understand it, according to the Church, we only need the Sacrament of Reconciliation for mortal sins, but that we should always confess all manner of sin. Is that right?
OK, since mortal sin separates our soul from God’s grace, what if I don’t make it to the confessional in time? I remember having this discussion a while back here (about the "Godfather movie and the “good mob guy” that goes to confession). So this is where the “Baptism of Desire” (or “absolution by desire”) comes in, that only God knows our heart, knows we are truly repentant, that he will never withhold His forgiveness from us, seeing as how God is our only judge in the first place, and will never turn us away when we sincerely come to him. Like the thief on the cross who obviously was not baptized with water, and yet Christ forgave him and guaranteed him a place in Paradise.
Don’t get me wrong I know why we must have the Sacrament and why Jesus gave the responsibility to the Apostles, and why in accordance to Sacred Tradition and Scripture it is carried on: to help us overcome sin, beyond “just” being forgiven.
I have heard this phrase now a few times, “God has bound Himself in the sacraments, but He is not bound to the sacraments”. I think that means God uses extraordinary means beyond the ability of man to understand them because He is God and knows the hearts of men - plus God does not need our help. In short, God can dispense grace to whomever and in whatever manner He chooses.
Lastly, with regards to mortal sin, I basically don’t see how a believing, faithful Christian could commit a sin of grave nature, know it is grave in nature, do so with their full free will intact, then totally disregard the forgiveness of God and turn from it. If is this so, it is obvious it is the Christian who has separated himself from God. It almost seems like a miracle in reverse.
Your guidance and thoughts would be much appreciated.
Respectfully,
Thom
PS - I am going through the Rite of Acceptance tomorrow! :extrahappy:
Does this sound right? (along with a few questions):
In Reconciliation, we are confessing to Christ and it is he who forgives and absolves our sin. The priest is the sacramental witness, who assures us of forgiveness, as appointed by Jesus to the Apostles in John 20.
So is praying to Jesus for forgiveness a mandatory part of this process? Can this be done when not in the presence of a priest? In other words during our own personal time of prayer and meditation? Because as I understand it, according to the Church, we only need the Sacrament of Reconciliation for mortal sins, but that we should always confess all manner of sin. Is that right?
OK, since mortal sin separates our soul from God’s grace, what if I don’t make it to the confessional in time? I remember having this discussion a while back here (about the "Godfather movie and the “good mob guy” that goes to confession). So this is where the “Baptism of Desire” (or “absolution by desire”) comes in, that only God knows our heart, knows we are truly repentant, that he will never withhold His forgiveness from us, seeing as how God is our only judge in the first place, and will never turn us away when we sincerely come to him. Like the thief on the cross who obviously was not baptized with water, and yet Christ forgave him and guaranteed him a place in Paradise.
Don’t get me wrong I know why we must have the Sacrament and why Jesus gave the responsibility to the Apostles, and why in accordance to Sacred Tradition and Scripture it is carried on: to help us overcome sin, beyond “just” being forgiven.
I have heard this phrase now a few times, “God has bound Himself in the sacraments, but He is not bound to the sacraments”. I think that means God uses extraordinary means beyond the ability of man to understand them because He is God and knows the hearts of men - plus God does not need our help. In short, God can dispense grace to whomever and in whatever manner He chooses.
Lastly, with regards to mortal sin, I basically don’t see how a believing, faithful Christian could commit a sin of grave nature, know it is grave in nature, do so with their full free will intact, then totally disregard the forgiveness of God and turn from it. If is this so, it is obvious it is the Christian who has separated himself from God. It almost seems like a miracle in reverse.
Your guidance and thoughts would be much appreciated.
Respectfully,
Thom
PS - I am going through the Rite of Acceptance tomorrow! :extrahappy: