I suppose there are guidelines out there somewhere, but it seems to me the smarter course of action would be 1) conditionally baptize, 2) reconciliation, 3) Eucharist. This is because a non-baptized person cannot receive the other sacraments (thus, if you really weren’t baptized before you couldn’t receive absolution) and, on the other hand, if you were already baptized, the conditional baptism would not, I believe, remove all sins because baptism, and thus its particular effects, can only occur once. Thus in the latter case you would need reconciliation to get a clean slate. I’d welcome other opinions on the matter.
