Refusing Service on Religious Grounds

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Comes extremeley close to a straw man argument, because single chaste homosexuals rarely if ever approach a Catholic adoption agency to adopt. Sexually active couples have approached, the Church has turned them down, and in some States, the Catholic Church has been forced to close its doors.

And I actually think that you know all this, and you know well the policy on such couples adopting, and yes, there’s official Church policy about it.
Because the Church has been accepting money from the state and fed gov for decades.

the agency where my daughter placed her child for adoption (Pentacostal), doesn’t take a dime from the state or the federal government and during the interview stated it does not adopt children to gay/lesbian couples or singles. The agency is supported by a private/religious organization. Several Pentacostal Churches are involved in the agencies support.
 
Because the Church has been accepting money from the state and fed gov for decades.
That’s “the Church” in general, not specifically adoption agencies, and not specific to each State. It is not my understanding that all the Catholic adoption agencies forced to close their doors because of conscience violations were receiving governmental money.

Perhaps Edward H or fix can correct me on that if I’m wrong.
 
Because the Church has been accepting money from the state and fed gov for decades.

the agency where my daughter placed her child for adoption (Pentacostal), doesn’t take a dime from the state or the federal government and during the interview stated it does not adopt children to gay/lesbian couples or singles. The agency is supported by a private/religious organization. Several Pentacostal Churches are involved in the agencies support.
I doubt the Pentacostal churches have anywhere near the broadness and scope of Catholic organizations across the world. It doesn’t surprise me that other entities have offered to help them, considering all that the Church has done world-wide. 🤷

The world, state and governments are just as willing to accept relief and help from the Church during crises, too…cuts both ways.
 
It is a very real situation but you are ignoring some basics. Even if your health system is different, I am pretty sure there are some basic things all doctors do.

2 lesbians want to get pregnant and have no idea on how to go about that. They would consult with a doctor – a general practitioner for instance. It is up to this doctor to inform them about the various possibilities and probably refer them to a hospital or specialist. As I said before, not all (Catholic) doctors would provide this consultation because that would be helping 2 lesbians to get pregnant and raise a child; something that is contrary to our beliefs.
Every doctor that I know, Catholic or otherwise, would simply tell them that they would need to speak to someone that specializes in fertility services, and they do not.
 
This is false. The Catholic Church has demonstrated time and again that people who engage in certain immoral behaviours cannot hold certain roles in religious and even public institutions.

The Church has rules and regulations. People who violate certain rules do not get the same treatment. A very simple example is receiving communion.
So your statement above is inaccurate.
You are correct, the Church has specific teachings on what roles people can hold based on certain facts about them. However, the Church also says that in all cases, unjust discrimination must be avoided. That means the real question becomes, what is unjust discrimination?

Now, if someone does not provide services that they believe are immoral, fine. No problem. Just do it across the board. For example, a doctor. If they believe IVF is immoral. Do not perform that service. Don’t say because of your sexual orientation I am not going to give you IVF, just don’t do it at all.
 
That is not accurate. The Church teaches that we should obey only those laws that are just–laws that are not contrary to our religious beliefs. We don’t follow everything that leftist governments dictate. Laws contrary to our beliefs can never be legitimate.
They believe it is discrimination for the Church not to allow women to be priests for instance but they haven’t yet gone as far as to take action on that. What some government defines as discrimination is not necessarily discrimination.
That is why I specifically singled out LEGITIMATE laws. Immoral laws are not legitimate.
 
So…would you be comfortable with a hotel owner telling heterosexual couples who are not married that they can not have sex in their hotel?
That is also a sin, yes?
I see no problem with them doing that either.
 
You are correct, the Church has specific teachings on what roles people can hold based on certain facts about them. However, the Church also says that in all cases, unjust discrimination must be avoided. That means the real question becomes, what is unjust discrimination?

Now, if someone does not provide services that they believe are immoral, fine. No problem. Just do it across the board. For example, a doctor. If they believe IVF is immoral. Do not perform that service. Don’t say because of your sexual orientation I am not going to give you IVF, just don’t do it at all.
There are licit fertility treatments that some may not want to provide to non married persons. That is not unjust.
 
Great point!!! and DG…how would the hotel clerk “know”? And is it any of the hotel clerk’s business, really? 🤷

How far are some going to take this? The bank you have patronized for years gives a mortgage to a homosexual couple who patronizing the same real estate firm that sold/or helped you buy your home, whose husband or wife owns the car dealership where you have purchased all of your cars, and this homosexual couple has the same name dealership on the back of their car… really? How far do you want to track back? Should gays/lesbians be rounded up and put in a colony of their own? This is getting beyond stupid.

Is it time to start looking for a cave or a fishbowl, so some can totally separate themselves from society?
You are missing the point that I am trying to make. I do not think that any business should discriminate based on someone’s sexual orientation. I do not think that this falls under any morality issue.

I believe that homosexual acts are immoral, just as is heterosexual sex before marriage. Therefore, if you do not want sinful acts taking place in your establishment, fine, but don’t just pick and choose. Ban them all. Period.

Also, as I pointed out, I think there would be an enforcement issue. 😃
 
For example, a doctor. If they believe IVF is immoral. Do not perform that service. Don’t say because of your sexual orientation I am not going to give you IVF, just don’t do it at all.
Some of this is duplicative. A physician who is a practicing, believing Catholic is likely not even providing IVF, to begin with, to anyone. Ditto, for A.I.D., except in the narrow way the Church approves that, within the couple itself.

Again, though, a Catholic doctor can simply say that he perfoms artificial insemination only in specialized cases, because of the greater medical risk involved in other cases, and because of the time, experimentation, etc. necessary to widen that service to include anonymous donor insemination, which would also overburden his patient load.

No specific mention of ethics, morality, or religion is necessary. And if anyone on this board thinks this doesn’t happen, you are naive.
 
:confused: Are you now saying the Church doesn’t ‘discriminate’ or what’s your point?

Are you aware of the fact that the Church fires employees (teachers) for coming out as homosexuals or for promoting gay marriage?
For coming out publicly and promoting things that are against Church teaching absolutely. For keeping to themselves and living a chaste life despite the fact that they have SSA, I have never heard of someone being fired for this.
 
Some of this is duplicative. A physician who is a practicing, believing Catholic is likely not even providing IVF, to begin with, to anyone. Ditto, for A.I.D., except in the narrow way the Church approves that, within the couple itself.

Again, though, a Catholic doctor can simply say that he perfoms artificial insemination only in specialized cases, because of the greater medical risk involved in other cases, and because of the time, experimentation, etc. necessary to widen that service to include anonymous donor insemination, which would also overburden his patient load.

No specific mention of ethics, morality, or religion is necessary. And if anyone on this board thinks this doesn’t happen, you are naive.
And I would add some AI is morally licit and some is not. It certainly would be illicit for homosexual persons.
 
Are you aware of the fact that the Church fires employees (teachers) for coming out as homosexuals or for promoting gay marriage?
True. But it’s not just a “gay” issue. The Church will also fire pregnant unwed mothers, a person in an invalid marriage, etc.
 
Is a Catholic school for instance dealing with the public or with ‘private/religious organisations’?
It’s considered religious. There are also private non-religious public schools. Unlike public schools, they may fire teachers for all sorts of moral issues, and toss students out of school permanently if they act up.

In fact, one of my very good friends is a teacher and head of a department at a Catholic High School. He loves working there because if a kid acts up, it can be handled assertively, unlike in public schools.
 
There’s actually behavior evidence that substantiates that it’s better to have a bad father than no father.
You might want to familiarize yourself with what some of these children go through. My sources are my ex-wife who was a therapist that dealt with such children, my ex mother-in-law who had foster children coming in and out of her house for over a decade, and my first cousin who has her Master’s in Social Work that has dealt with such children for about three decades. There is a lot of physical, verbal, and sexual abuse of these children, in particular minority and disabled children.
 
Every doctor that I know, Catholic or otherwise, would simply tell them that they would need to speak to someone that specializes in fertility services, and they do not.
FWIW, a Catholic doctor should not be doing that; i.e., recommend that someone go to a doctor that performs services that the Church considers immoral. The doctor should simply state that he/she does not perform those services. If the patient asks for recommendations, the doctor can simply state that he is not familiar with those that provide such services.
 
FWIW, a Catholic doctor should not be doing that; i.e., recommend that someone go to a doctor that performs services that the Church considers immoral. The doctor should simply state that he/she does not perform those services. If the patient asks for recommendations, the doctor can simply state that he is not familiar with those that provide such services.
I never said he would recommend someone. I simply said that he would say they needed to see someone who specialized in fertility and he does not.
 
you’d have a Hilton clerk ask every couple if they were married and let the clerk decide who to check in?

really?

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Nope, just as I wouldn’t have them ask if someone was gay. If you don’t have the information, you are not complicit in the sin and no need to send them away. If they say that they are not married and going to have sex, or they advertise that they are a gay couple in a relationship don’t serve them. No need for questions.
 
Nope, just as I wouldn’t have them ask if someone was gay. If you don’t have the information, you are not complicit in the sin and no need to send them away. If they say that they are not married and going to have sex, or they advertise that they are a gay couple in a relationship don’t serve them. No need for questions.
you’d personally do this, even if it wasn’t company policy (which it isn’t)?

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