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rinnie
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I am the same person I was a year ago. And I went to the river last summer. And the same person who went to the river a year ago stepped into the same river this year.Not so much a purpose as an observation. You are not the person you were a year ago, the person you were back then no longer exists. That person can never live again, s/he is confined irrevocably to the past no matter what you do.
“You can never step in the same river twice, because it is not the same river and it is not the same you.”
rossum
I am always myself. Sometimes I can be a better VERSION of myself sometimes I can be a worse VERSION. But it does not even take a year. It could happen in minutes.
I have learned since my Son moved out to let him live his own life. He chooses what he wants to do, where he wants to eat, how he wants to live.
I knew this before he left that someday he would have to make his own choices.
I am the same person today then when he lived with me. Do I feel I could make better choices for him then he could at this point. Of course I do.
But I also know when a Child moves out he has to learn on his own. Will he make wrong decisons in life. Yes he will. Will the wrong decisions make him a different person.
No they will not. They may make the SAME person wiser, etc because you learn from your mistakes. You also learn what you did right and wrong in this world.
But how could you learn from your mistakes if you are a different person as you mature in life.
Just like a baby is born at 7 pounds. So that baby is still the same person at 150 pounds. Only wiser and more independant.
But if what you are saying is if I weighed 125 when I got married, and then gained 20 pounds a year later. Then I lose the 20 pounds what I am then the same person again. It makes no sense.
I am the same person at 125 as I am at 145. Only more THICK as my Son puts it.