Remember me? I have bad news

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I am sure most of you remember me…over a month ago I came here seeking help when I unexpectedly became pregnant and my DH and I wanted to have an abortion. Your prayers truly helped us to make the right decision and go forward trusting in God and getting ready to have a baby.

My first three weeks of pregnancy were not easy. I was having spotting that concerned both myself and my doctor. I ended up going in for an ultrasound at the hospital one day and also to the ER the night before we left on a trip to Hawaii. Both times everything still looked okay. We got to see the baby and its heartbeat.

The first night we arrived in Hawaii - I started to miscarry. It was the most traumatic thing that has ever happened to me. It is something that I will never forget.

We are both so heartbroken and trying to find a way through our grief. We have so many unanswered questions and so easily can fall into thoughts of guilt. I am still trusting in God - and know that His plan is bigger than mine. I have peace knowing that I did all I could for my child while he was here - I will always love him and he will be in my heart. I will see him one day and I cannot wait for that moment when we are united.

I humbly ask for your prayers again for us. That the Lord may be with us during this time and help us in our sadness.

Thank you CAF community.
 
Oh I am so terribly sorry for your loss. 😦
May the Lord comfort you and your husband during this time…
(((HUGS)))
 
I’m so very sorry for your loss. 😦

I know through experience how traumatic a miscarriage is and no, you will never forget it. But you also have the hope that you will be reunited with your little one in Heaven and you have a very special saint in Heaven right now that is praying for you. That thought has always brought me comfort.
 
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I have peace knowing that I did all I could for my child while he was here - I will always love him and he will be in my heart. I will see him one day and I cannot wait for that moment when we are united.
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This will make all the difference as you heal. I too have had to heal from the loss of two babies. It was painful enough… I cannot imagine the horrific pain that would have been added had I been the one that killed them.

Even though you ultimately lost this baby, you will forever have this peace of knowing that you chose to love him while he was here. You might even appreciate that more than a mother who never considered abortion. You had to actively choose to love that baby. You actively chose to give him his life while he had it. You can always remember that when the pain becomes hard to handle.

You really did become a mother when you chose not to abort. Because you started putting your baby ahead of yourself. Whenever you are tempted toward guilt… remember that! You CHOSE RIGHT! What happened later was out of your hands. But you chose love and life for your child while he was on Earth, and that is to your credit, always and forever.
 
How heartbreaking. I am so sorry for your loss, dear. You and your husband are in my prayers. :hug1:
 
Many women and men find comfort in naming their baby and placing the name in the Book of Life at the Shrine of the Holy Innocents where they are prayed for perpetually.
innocents.com/shrine.asp

Many prayers!
 
😦 I’m so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine what you must be going through. Praying for you.
 
I’m terribly sorry for your loss and will keep you in my prayers.

My wife and I experienced a miscarriage and I never imagined anything could be so painful. Time helps a bit, but little things can bring it all back. I’ve had several things hit me hard just this past week so I can definitely sympathize with what you’ll be going through.
 
I just wanted to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. I will keep you all in my prayers!

Brenda V.
 
I am so very sorry for your loss. And how awful that you had to go through that while on a trip away from home. 😦 I remember after one of my miscarrages waking up the next day to a beautiful sunny day and all I could think was why must the sun be shining today when I am so miserable??

((Hugs)) for you. I really am so sorry.
 
I am so sorry to hear of your loss - I will remember you and your husband in my Rosary today as well as your dear little baby. God bless you and comfort you at this awful time.
 
I am so very sorry for your loss. You will remain in my prayers.
 
:console: I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Your little angel is watching over you from heaven above, praying for your reunion one day. God be with you and your husband during this difficult time.
 
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