Report: The Pronoun Wars: Professor Goes to Court After Being Punished for Refusing to Refer to Transgender Student By Preferred Pronoun

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Freddy:
Assuming that your forum name indicates that you are male, how would you handle it if every single person in all circumstances referred to you as a woman?
He’d probably be unhappy because it wasn’t the truth.
Whether it was true or not, if he believed it to be so then he’d go through life a very unhappy person. And if it was actually true, because he’d had a medical condition that caused people to think he was male when he was actually female, then even more so.
 
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Freddy:
As I intimated earlier, you need to pick your battles, Theo. You need to decide if this is the hill you are prepared to die on. In this case, I see no cause to even fight. Much ado about nothing.
The student is the one upset about not being specifically called a certain pronoun after the teacher said that the studen’s name would be used as a compromise.
And still referred to the student as him. Probably not directly - he’d avoid doing that. But to contantly change ‘him’ to ‘that student’ as opposed to complying with the student’s request seems the hight of folly.
 
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I see no cause to even fight.
The cause worth fighting for, to me, is the issue of whether one can be compelled to say something by another.
It does seem to be a free speech issue.
Even if the person calling for alternative pronouns is mentally ill, that does not give him or her the right to compel others to speak a certain way.
 
But to contantly change ‘him’ to ‘that student’ as opposed to complying with the student’s request seems the hight of folly.
The teacher is doing this due to personal beliefs and the student has no right to impose on those beliefs.
‘him’ to ‘that student’
That’s because the identity of the student is protected so in this article that’s the noun used, in the classroom things will be different because then the name can be substituted.
 
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Whether it was true or not, if he believed it to be so then he’d go through life a very unhappy person.
Edith Stein said: “Accept nothing as truth if it does not have love, and accept nothing as love if it does not have truth.”

We’ve gotta be true with people. Affirming them in their unreality usually brings hardship and harm. If you’re anorexically thin but people indulge your (irrational) belief about being “fat”, that becomes dangerous very quick. If people tell you you’re a great singer when you sound like nails on a chalkboard, you might get humiliated on national TV when you take your “beautiful” voice to American Idol. Bottom line, best to be charitable, but always true.
 
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Freddy:
I see no cause to even fight.
The cause worth fighting for, to me, is the issue of whether one can be compelled to say something by another.
It does seem to be a free speech issue.
Even if the person calling for alternative pronouns is mentally ill, that does not give him or her the right to compel others to speak a certain way.
I see it the other way, Jean. Somebody refusing to accept a relatively simple request by someone because they hold to a moral position that says ‘men are men and women are women’. It appears to me to be making a moral stand when one is not justified.

It’s someone taking a religious stand and then complaining about free speech because their position has been rejected.

No winners here.
 
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Freddy:
Whether it was true or not, if he believed it to be so then he’d go through life a very unhappy person.
Edith Stein said: “Accept nothing as truth if it does not have love, and accept nothing as love if it does not have truth.”

We’ve gotta be true with people. Affirming them in their unreality usually brings hardship and harm. If you’re anorexically thin but people indulge your (irrational) belief about being “fat”, that becomes dangerous very quick. If people tell you you’re a great singer when you sound like nails on a chalkboard, you might get humiliated on national TV when you take your “beautiful” voice to American Idol. Bottom line, best to be charitable, but always true.
Maybe you’re not married…
 
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Freddy:
The reverse is obviously true.
The teacher made a reasonable compromise so that’s not the problem.
The teacher effectively said that he’d call the student by whatever name the student requested but he wouldn’t accept her as a female. I don’t see that as much of a compromise.

That’s like telling someone ‘I apologise for calling you an idiot. I promise I won’t do it again to your face. But I still think you’re an idiot’.

Is that ‘a compromise’?
 
The teacher effectively said that he’d call the student by whatever name the student requested but he wouldn’t accept her as a female.
Likely as a personal belief which the teacher has a right to.
That’s like telling someone ‘I apologise for calling you an idiot. I promise I won’t do it again to your face. But I still think you’re an idiot’.

Is that ‘a compromise’?
That’s the best you can get, the thought police is not practical and people have the freedom to think like that even when we disagree
but he wouldn’t accept her as a female.
Even if the student was called by the preferred pronouns that would still be an issue.
 
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I guess it depends on biology. Is the student a biological male or female?
You can call an apple a carrott but it doesn’t change reality.
 
refusing to accept a relatively simple request
The relatively simple request seems to be, in reality, a veiled demand.
The question of whether one has the right to compel speech from another remains.
 
It’s someone taking a religious stand and then complaining about free speech because their position has been rejected.
The stand could as easily be made by an agnostic or an atheist. While religion may be contextually pertinent in certain cases the issue of the constitutionality of compelled speech is not limited to those who claim a religious affiliation.
 
That, my friend, is completely out of order. There can be genuine medical cases where gender is not firmly established and the people involved must go through a lot of pain and torment about their situation. To glibly class them as ‘mentally ill’ doesn’t reflect well on you.
I reject this criticism on the basis that transexualism (a mental disorder) is not intersex or hermaphroditism (a biological disorder). These two things are very different. And if you actually followed the case cited in the article, the professor made every effort to come to a middle ground agreement whereby he would refer to the student by their preferred name, but would not use gendered pronouns that does not reflect the biological reality. The student and admnistration refused to make any commonsense compromise to satisfy both parties. In other words, this is genuinely a case of mental illness, and in this case willful intransigence to accommodate the first amendment rights of the professor.
 
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Freddy:
It’s someone taking a religious stand and then complaining about free speech because their position has been rejected.
The stand could as easily be made by an agnostic or an atheist. While religion may be contextually pertinent in certain cases the issue of the constitutionality of compelled speech is not limited to those who claim a religious affiliation.
True. I needn’t have qualified the stand as being religious. But the right of free speech depends on the right you claim to make that free speech. If I have a belief that no women should wear short skirts and that they are sexually permissive by doing so then do I have the right to declare those women as being sexually permissive? If it’s a religious belief then we can call it as such.
 
In other words, this is genuinely a case of mental illness, and in this case willful intransigence to accommodate the first amendment rights of the professor.
Again, that is completely out of order. If you don’t know the details of the case and are not qualified to make a psychological determination then that argument is not worth the paper it isn’t written on.

Notwithstanding that transexualism is not classified as a mental disorder. And unless you are suitably qualified then you’d better have a good scientifically based argument for claiming that it is.

‘Transgender health issues will no longer be classified as mental and behavioural disorders under big changes to the World Health Organization’s global manual of diagnoses.’ Transgender no longer recognised as 'disorder' by WHO

And any argument that suggests that this simply proves were all on the downhill slide to the destruction of civilisation as we know it will be summarily dismissed.
 
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Hi Freddy, I forgot to copy your quote before responding so I am popping it into quotes below.

From Freddy:
“If I have a belief that no women should wear short skirts and that they are sexually permissive by doing so then do I have the right to declare those women as being sexually permissive?”

From jt:
Of course you have the right to call her as you see her. She has the right to sue you for defamation of character.
But she does not have the right to compel you to call her “the most amazing woman ever” or “your friend” or “fill in the blank here…”.
She has no right to compel speech from you.
 
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Of course you have the right to call her as you see her. She has the right to sue you for defamation of character.
But she does not have the right to compel you to call her “the most amzing woman ever” or “your friend” or “fill in the blank here…”.
She has no right to compel speech from you.
True again. And I would say that you should treat people with the minimum of respect as per their wishes. We haven’t yet had ‘the end of civilisation as we know it’ argument but that’s where these discussions generally end up and it won’t be long coming. And I don’t see that as a logical position.

As I said right at the start, there are two sides to this argument and not much room for manouvre (rejecting as I also said earlier any claim that there has been compromise for the reasons I gave).

Edit: Yeah, I followed your line of reasoning without the quote. All good.
 
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It seems odd to me that you and I are having this argument. I know we argue about abortion pretty regularly, but I would think that your interest in choice and individual rights would have us a bit more aligned on this topic.
I wish you a good evening and friendly greetings to your wife.
Take care,
jt
 
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