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LisaA
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What a thoughtful and compelling post. Thank you! In the interest of space I clipped out a few of the most notable statements. Homosexual normalization, to the point of pretending two males or two females can marry is but a symptom of the overall problem of a self absorbed, self indulgent society. Homosexuals are at issue on this thread but the hedonistic, objectifying behavior also occurs in heterosexuals. The root cause is the loss of religious influence on society, here and abroad. Maybe we can even blame contraception which has allowed fornication and adultery to flourish. Or the 60s with its inane theories about “if it feels good do it” “tune in, turn on, drop out.” I’m old enough to remember this sea change and it hasn’t been for the better. It was supposed to be about “freedom” but it’s not the freedom we find in the New Testament.This discussion goes above and beyond the scope of homosexuality or homosexual ‘marriage,’ to the deeper root of our society’s obsession with 1) sexual pleasure; 2) having anything and everything we want, because we want it; 3) re-defining ‘self-fulfilment’ and ‘I want’ as the highest goals.
By showing their lifestyle and mindset, THEY THEMSELVES, have convinced me this is bad for society.
Why? ** The sheer hedonism**. The all-encompassing sweep of self-centeredness, the self-indulgence to the exclusion of all else, is truly breath-taking.
What am I seeing at these sites? Seeking sexual pleasure to the exclusion of almost all else.
In essence, a child somewhere in this world will continue to go to bed hungry so she and her husband can buy sex toys and pay for memberships on dating websites and have drinks and expensive dinners for multiple dating partners.
Multiply this by millions of people living this way–including in the particular area we’re discussing–and it’s not only a question of the sexual morality, but of all the good that is not being done because we have become, as a nation, obsessed with our own gratification. Of all the elderly and poor and children being neglected so that millions can pursue their promiscuity–which is highly prevalent among homosexuals.
Yes, I know that not every homosexual couple lives this way. But it’s common enough that it’s a huge impact on our society.
As I’ve read, all I can think is: WHO IS TAKING CARE OF THESE KIDS??? How is all this constant drama affecting the children watching it? How does it affect them seeing that their parents are (to all appearances) too pre-occupied with all their new relationship energy and dating to have much time left for the kids? How is it affecting a 15 year old girl and her future relationships to see her mother, father, and father’s girlfriend traipsing in and out of a single bedroom constantly and to live with the constant tension between the two women and her father jumping back and forth between two homes and simply not there because he’s off with his girlfriend?
Many of these couples chose to be childless in favor of having the freedom to live this lifestyle. Multiply this choice by millions, and there IS an impact on our society, as the number of workers supporting each older person on social security dwindles, as the burden is raised on each of those individuals.
We’re talking here specifically about creating a whole new concept of ‘marriage’ between two people of the same sex, but all of these things play into that–how we got here, where it’s going to continue to take us. ** I bring these things up because over and over, studies show that this hedonism is quite common among homosexuals**. *** I see it in these sites and people I know, directly from these people’s own mouths, and we’re fooling ourselves pretending it’s not happening, and calling people names rather than addressing how this is affecting our society and our children***.
My own experience and contact with homosexuals mirrors your own. Although many male homosexuals were “committed” partners, it did not stop them from having some sauce on the side. I had a long talk with a psychiatrist who is homosexual about this phenomenon and he said that “sex is meaningless except for the transient pleasure” Therefore in his mind, and in the mind of many homosexuals, having an encounter with someone other than the partner doesn’t damage an already disordered relationship. The prohibition of sexual betrayal is part of most societies because of the destruction of the family and therefore society. But since homosexuals cannot procreate, it matters not where they play.
Yet the irony is that some homosexuals claim they want “marriage” but what they really want is to normalize their disordered sexual activity. Once they have that piece of paper so many in the 60s and 70s demeaned, they can force their agenda into schools (well they already are but it will get worse) force businesses and charities to decide whether to violate their conscious or go out of business.
Truly you wonder how someone could be so addicted to a specific type of sexual pleasure that they are totally unconcerned with how it is a force for evil in our society. But it just goes back to the selfish desires and the glamour of evil.
Lisa