Every Catholic, myself included, should be careful not to imply that his prudential judgment on the matter is somehow the authoritative judgment that the Church
really intends.
As far as I know, nowhere (in the GIRM or elsewhere) does it say anything about the hand posture of the laity during the Our Father. That means that the laity raising their hands in prayer is
not a liturgical abuse, and unless one’s local bishop says otherwise, what to do with one’s hands during the Our Father is up to individual prudential judgment.
The GIRM is not ambiguous. It is perfectly clear. There is no hand posture specified for the laity. It is left up to individual bishops, or if they don’t specify anything, then individual congregants.
If you think that the laity raising their hands in prayer is inappropriate, that is a prudential judgment of yours. Another person could, perfectly licitly, read the evidence differently and conclude that it is an acceptable practice. Now, it’s certainly true that your prudential judgment could be right and that other guy’s prudential judgment wrong; perhaps the practice is in fact inappropriate. But if he raises his hands during the Our Father, he is doing nothing disobedient or illicit, as the matter is very clearly left up to individual judgment by the Church’s liturgical laws.
These discussions would be much more pleasant if everyone admitted that it is a matter of individual prudential judgment, as it clearly is.
And yes, I’m aware that by my argument a person could flail his arms above his head wildly during the Our Father and it would still not be illicit because the GIRM says nothing about laity hand posture. But such extreme examples mean nothing. If a person can’t see the obvious difference between a totally ridiculous judgment about hand posture like “I can flail my arms above my head!” and a halfways reasonable one like “I can raise my hands in prayer” or “I can hold hands with my family,” it’s because he doesn’t want to see the difference.
That’s what people are missing. The longstanding tradition of the Latin rite is for the faithful to pray with folded hands. Not holding hands, not orans. That’s the best thing we can do during Mass. If we say everything must be in the GIRM or we can do whatever we want, it would be a mess. That’s why we follow the legitimate traditions of the past.
- The gestures and bodily posture of both the priest, the Deacon, and the ministers, and also of the people, must be conducive to making the entire celebration resplendent with beauty and noble simplicity, to making clear the true and full meaning of its different parts, and to fostering the participation of all. Attention must therefore be paid to what is determined by this General Instruction and by the traditional practice of the roman rite and to what serves the common spiritual good of the people of god, rather than private inclination or arbitrary choice.
This is a good paragraph to bring up, as long as everyone keeps in mind that it is
your prudential judgment to make the application of this paragraph to the practice in question. It is your prudential judgment that lay people raising their hands in prayer is incompatible with the “traditional practice of the roman rite” and is only a matter of “private inclination or arbitrary choice.” The Church does not make that application for you. She could, but she very conspicuously doesn’t.
Now, perhaps your prudential judgment is right, and a contrary one would be wrong. Perhaps it really is incompatible with the tradition of the roman rite for the laity to raise their hands in prayer. But it’s still your prudential judgment, and other lay faithful are still free under the Church’s law to reach a contrary prudential judgment.