Right to Veil in church?

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I Vail in church but not lately due to being injured and family emergencies. I would like to know if it is wrong to not Vail in church or if it is ok i also try and follow St… Paul’s teaching about Vailing in church. I also Vail because I like the symbolism of covering one’s own head while at mass.
 
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I Vail in church but not lately due to being injured and family emergencies. I would like to know if it is wrong to not Vail in church or if it is ok i also try and follow St… Paul’s teaching about Vailing in church. I also Vail because I like the symbolism of covering one’s own head while at mass.
You can wear a veil or not, as you see fit. There is, as you point out, a biblical basis for veiling, but to the best of my knowledge, the Church has never taught (as a moral doctrine, not ecclesiastical discipline) that a woman must veil in church under pain of sin. It may have been mandated by canon law at one point — again, discipline, not doctrine — but it is not mandated now.

If I were a woman, I would veil or wear some kind of head covering, in keeping with traditional practice, but that would just be my preference. And “head covering” does not have to be a veil, mantilla, or those little doily-looking things. A scarf or a hat would suffice. I even knew of one traditionalist Catholic woman who wore a hijab (she was neither Muslim nor Middle Eastern). She looked very nice. Pretty girl.
 
Your choice! It was necessary for reasons of humility in Saint Paul’s time. It can still be very efficacious, both as part of the clothing as well as a sacramental if one allows it to be. However, humility has its source in the human heart.
 
It is entirely up to you. The church has no rules for this, so you can create your own personal rule… or not.
 
Not really. Suggesting that women “should” do something that the Church does not require goes beyond the suggester’s authority.
 
Personally I feel we would have a lot fewer saints if people didn’t feel that they personally have the opportunity/knowledge to choose to do something(s) good and positive that the Church ‘does not require’.

A minimalist, “I’ll do what is ‘required’ and no more, after all, that’s good enough” approach may be fine for some, but I find it often degenerates into legalism, rote actions, and narrow-mindedness for others.
 
Greetings, stpurl. Not sure what you mean…Could you please rephrase this? Thanks.

Confirmed head coverer here. Have I gotten nasty looks at a few parishes? Occasionally, and that’s okay. I don’t judge people for not wearing a veil, why should anyone judge me for wearing one? I love the old ways and keep them.

There’s that scene in “The Passion of the Christ”, where Jesus is raised up on the cross and St. Mary Magdalene covers her hair at the same time. Love that!
 
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Sure. This is not directed at any particular poster because we’ve all used the same kinds of phrases and descriptions, etc., but what I meant was that there sometimes is an attitude of, “The Church asks for this but doesn’t require any more and therefore I don’t think that there should be an encouragement to others to do any more than the Church asks for”. Now probably this attitude stems from people who know, or presume, that ‘others’ are full of scrupulosity or know, or presume, that doing ‘more than the minimum’ will somehow encourage people, especially women, to become all prideful and puffed up and holier-than-thou. A lot of presumption but one can’t say it does not happen.

On the other hand, and this is where I come in, I think that there are more likely to be people out there who need and would appreciate a little more fire. People who, without encouragement, without doing a little more digging for information, examining history, etc., might just drift along and become narrow minded and legalistic, “We only NEED to do this” and suspicious of those who go beyond. . .people who, WITH encouragement, might find themselves intrigued, might become more thoughtful about what more they can do for the Lord instead of just doing the bare minimum.

Of course, we’re all different. I just feel that people should have the information and the opportunities laid out for them to choose-or not choose–and not be scared away because of being made to feel that something is ‘too over the top’.

Because we don’t get saints from people who are afraid to ‘go the extra mile’. Which is not, of course, to say that every person must do every ‘extra’ the Church offers but does not ‘require’. . .but it also means that we aren’t supposed to stamp down every extra because "it isn’t required’.
 
I agree with what you’ve said.

I just wish to add there is another “side”, where the temptation is to guilt others into doing more, (instead of leaving all this up to the individual), with the implication being that if they don’t step up and do more than the Church asks of her faithful, then it is almost seen as the person is less Catholic, they love God less, are less holy, are not true Catholics etc etc etc.

The goal should be to draw as close to God this side of the veil between heaven and earth as we can, but the Church herself sets out the bare minimum for the spiritual life though she encourages the faithful to obviously go further. (here i have in mind the minimum requirements for confession of grave sins and the reception of Holy Communion).
 
There’s that scene in “The Passion of the Christ”, where Jesus is raised up on the cross and St. Mary Magdalene covers her hair at the same time. Love that!
This is very, very telling. I recall that scene.

It is part of the “Catholic DNA” to want to do “more” for the love of Almighty God. I always tell people “you know how much you love your children or grandchildren? — these people love God ten times more than that, and then some — that’s why they go ‘above and beyond’”.

My own efforts are pathetic compared to some people I know. If you press them, they will say “I know I don’t have to do this — but I want to”.
 
The goal should be to draw as close to God this side of the veil between heaven and earth as we can,
Quite right. It’s important to remember that the drawing closer will look different for everyone as God calls each of us to grow in different virtues at different times and in different ways.

There is no one size fits all.
 
“Heroic virtue” is one of the requirements for becoming a saint. Years ago, a SSPX priest said that just keeping the Ten Commandments qualifies for heroic virtue these days. 😉
 
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