ROSARY: Who is "our life, our sweetness and our hope?"

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Anyone have this book?

Hail Holy Queen: An Explanation of the Salve Regina
Alphonsus De Ligouri

It’s written by St. Alphonsus. I just ordered it form amazon.
 
Perhaps I could ask a priest about the wording change, or even the meaning change without the wording, to make sure its not “wrong”, but I think its pretty self evident that referring to Mary as the mother of " our life, sweetness, and hope" in terms of those 3 things = Jesus Christ, cannot be wrong, just different from the norm. I may do so regardless and share the results here with everyone.

Although I didn’t ask about the wording change, I did receive a response from a priest, Fr. Serpa (see previous posts on this thread) on the meaning of calling Mary “our life, sweetness, and hope” rather than meaning Jesus, and he responded that it’s acceptable because it’s a hyperbole, an exaggeration. This is seemingly at odds with some others views here that it is not necessarily an exaggeration.

The real issue is, if the understanding is so convoluted that an apologist priest gives one answer, lay apologists give different, possibly conflicting answers with the priests answers, a reknowed Jesuit priest and scholar is hard pressed to explain it in simple terms, and differences in philosopical concepts are invoked by others to explain it, isn’t it pretty self evident that that poses a problem?? Quite simply, the meaning behind prayers should not be so difficult to understand or explain, in my opinion. If a priest with 8 years of seminary and another 8 of collegiate biblical or theology study has problems explaining it, something should be done that hasn’t been done-- at the very least, the official Church teaching on this should be updated and/or clarified. If we don’t understand what we are praying, as Jesus said in the Gospel of Matthew 6:7, then it is empty and we shouldn’t do it.
You’re right - I didn’t know that you already knew about the apologist’s remarks. It’s a prayer. It’s not anything like the Church’s teaching on why obtaining an abortion is a grave offense. It’s a way to communicate our love to Mary and God and it’s good.

I’m not saying that the prayer you are saying is wrong. I just wanted to make sure that you (and any others) who pray the Rosary in this way are doing it correctly. I know it’s perfectly acceptable to pray with any words, but I was a bit concerned about it being part of the Rosary. The prayer I changed the wording of was a prayer from the Rosary, too. And perhaps the priest I spoke to was wrong. I don’t know.

Unfortunately, priests with any amount of seminary and theological training, etc. can be wrong and often are wrong. I don’t know if there is any official Church teaching on this. This sort of thing throws me. I thought I was praying my prayer in a way that was better than the prayer was originally worded and I prayed it with all honesty and in love for God.

I guess all we can do is the best we can do, right? If there is disagreement about a prayer to Mary, then until someone can show official Church teaching I guess you are correct in praying it however you want to pray. I don’t know if there is Church teaching. I don’t even know where the prayers of the Rosary came from. I think perhaps it came from when Mary appeared once, but I really don’t know.

I’m just throwing my two cents in. This sort of thing is where I become frustrated with being Catholic; not knowing if what I am doing is OK and not being able to find out and when I try I receive conflicting answers from people I believe should know better.

All prayer that is spoken in love is good. Maybe we just need to hold onto that and pray the way our consciences tell us to. Maybe thinking about this too much can lead some people to stop praying because of confusion and I’m sure that’s not what God and Mary would want. I’m sure they love receiving our prayers and don’t sit up in heaven on thrones with books with our names in them, putting black marks after our names when we don’t say a prayer specifically the way it was originally written (or how the words that make it up were originally meant to mean and that’s assuming there was even a consensus back when the prayer was written).

Prayer shows love, perhaps a request, perhaps thanks, but always love.

That’s really all I have to say, except that I’m glad you pray the Rosary (I do, too) and that I wish you only joy and peace when you pray. God bless us all!! 🙂
 
This is only a problem if one buys into the false dichotomy in the first place.
 
The ending of the Rosary is well explained by Mary’s Annunciation and her role as Mediatrix of Christ’s Life and Graces.
 
This is an old thread, but I can’t help re-emphasising that there is NOTHING wrong with calling Mary ‘our life, our sweetness and our hope’.
I don’t think we are saying the prayer is wrong. I think what we are saying is that it needs to be clearly defined what it is that we are saying when we pray that prayer. For our conscience can not allow us to give credit where credit is not due. For there is no salvation apart from Christ. It was Christ that was nailed to a cross, not Mary. It was Christ that died for our sins, not Mary. So we have to understand that our life comes from God. St. Paul says we are partakers in the divine nature. Who’s nature? God’s nature. Not Mary’s nature. Mary is a creature just like us. She is a created thing, not divine. Only the trinity is divine. So we are interested in only giving God was it God’s, Mary what is Mary’s, and Caesar what is Caesar’s.
 
Realism allows a both/and: Because Jesus is our hope, and only because Jesus is our hope, it is possible for Mary to be our hope.
Okay, this then begs another question that I’m sure many would ask, especially non-Catholics, and that is - Even if it is possible for Mary to be our hope, why would we want Mary to be our hope when Jesus is already our hope? This is a much harder question to answer. Similarly, one could also ask why do we need to even pray to Mary when we could pray directly to Jesus? This is a little easier to answer. But perhaps both answers are related.

Is it a false hope to ask others for prayer? Should we only pray directly to Jesus? The bible seems to think praying for others is a good thing.
Similarly, is it wrong to have hope in others besides Jesus? I guess that depends on what you are hoping for and of whom you put your hope in. Are your expectations realistic? Or are you placing your hopes in something that is false?

When you are asking others for prayer, you are asking them to pray to Jesus, so you are really hoping your prayer will ultimately be answered by Jesus himself. Similarly when you are hoping on others, like Mary, who is in Christ’s will and no longer subject to corruption your ultimate hope can only be satisfied by Jesus since Jesus is the source of all fulfillment.

So really, if you ask for bread does the Father give you a snake? No. It is clear in the bible that God knows how to give good gifts to his children who ask. If you ask Mary for something does she give you something else or lead you astray? How can she if she is divinely guided in the Father’s will she can only give what the Father gives, since she can not give what she does not have? She is no longer subject to corruption or sin but to will the of the Father. So it would seem that Mary would not offer a false hope but a hope that is fulfilled in Christ.

Now, just what hope can we place in Mary? This goes back to is our expectations realistic? If Mary brings us Christ and Christ is the fulfillment of our hope then our hope can be satisfied. But if Mary’s role is to simply be an intercessor then we can only hope for her intercession. It is Mary’s role that comes into question here and defines what we can and can not expect through her. For if Christ is the ultimate goal then why go through Mary at all? Why not just go directly to Jesus? Now, I already gave a partial answer to that question but it is not a total answer.

The other thing that comes to mind is the concept of family. Mary is a part of the family of God and therefore a recognized member that we have a relationship with just like you would have a relationship with all of the members of your family. To ignore Mary is to ignore an important member of God’s family. So perhaps it is not so much a matter of necessity that Mary be involved in our prayers but rather it is part of recognizing her place in the family of God. We honor her because she if the mother of God just as we would honor our own mothers.

It may not be necessary for us to ask our friends to pray for us either. After all we could go directly to Jesus but perhaps God wants us to ask our friends to pray because that builds love between our friends and family. Perhaps God is interested in increasing our love for our fellow family members through prayer. Perhaps God is interested in increasing love between all of the communion of saints through intercession.
 
Even if it is possible for Mary to be our hope, why would we want Mary to be our hope when Jesus is already our hope?
Through his saints God reveals his plan for all his faithful creatures: participation in his own life and work. When we look at Mary, we see our own destiny in Christ.

“You are glorified in the assembly of Your holy ones, for in crowning their merits You are crowning Your own gifts.” St. Augustine

“The glory of God is man fully alive; and the life of man consists in beholding God.” St. Irenaeus
The bible seems to think praying for others is a good thing.
“I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people… This is good, and it is pleasing in the sight of God our Savior, who desires all people to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth.”
When you are asking others for prayer, you are asking them to pray to Jesus, so you are really hoping your prayer will ultimately be answered by Jesus himself. Similarly when you are hoping on others, like Mary, who is in Christ’s will and no longer subject to corruption your ultimate hope can only be satisfied by Jesus since Jesus is the source of all fulfillment… If Mary brings us Christ and Christ is the fulfillment of our hope then our hope can be satisfied.
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The other thing that comes to mind is the concept of family. Mary is a part of the family of God and therefore a recognized member that we have a relationship with just like you would have a relationship with all of the members of your family. To ignore Mary is to ignore an important member of God’s family… perhaps God wants us to ask our friends to pray because that builds love between our friends and family. Perhaps God is interested in increasing our love for our fellow family members through prayer. Perhaps God is interested in increasing love between all of the communion of saints through intercession.
“For just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, though many, are one body, so it is with Christ… The eye cannot say to the hand, ‘I have no need of you,’ nor again the head to the feet, ‘I have no need of you.’ …God has so composed the body… that there may be no division in the body, but that the members may have the same care for one another. If one member suffers, all suffer together; if one member is honored, all rejoice together. Now you are the body of Christ and individually members of it.”
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Fr. Vincent Serpa:
Hi,

This is what I wrote on Thursday:

We are dealing here with hyperbole. Hyperbole is a rhetorical device in which statements are exaggerated. It may be used to evoke strong feelings or to create a strong impression, but is not meant to be taken literally. We use it all the time, for example: “I’m so hungry I could eat a horse.” Or “It took forever for me to get here,” Or “Your name is music to my ears,” Or “Hail holy Queen, our life, our sweetness and our hope.” The latter just means that she is so special to us because God has made her so. That’s all.

But today, Friday, a person wrote in who, I think, really clarified the sentence. I’ve always thought that we begin by addressing Mary as mother of mercy. Then we call her " our life, our sweetness and our hope" as if these pertain to her. But actually, we shouldn’t separate “our mercy” from the rest. She is the mother of mercy, the mother of our sweetness and the mother of our hope. All of these are Jesus. We are calling Jesus all these things and she is His mother: the mother of our mercy, our sweetness and our hope.

Fr. Vincent Serpa, O.P.
Amazing-- Fr. Serpa went back and edited his response to me and now agrees with my view on it-- but I never got a notification that he revised his response!

I’m much more comfortable with this edited answer-- but it just confirms what I’ve said and what I was worried about in this thread all along-- here is an apologist priest who never realized the “problem” with (what seems to be) the traditional understanding of the prayer that millions of Catholics pray daily-- until it was brought to his attention. Even then, he gave a quick (and unsatifactory IMO) answer seemingly out of obligation, but apparently later realized that the question deserved more attention. At least he was honest in saying he never realized the implications of the prayer before, which I fear is the case with most Catholics that pray the Rosary.

This is why as a Church, we must never write off objections by others to things we do, just because “thats just how it is”. It really seems that some apologists seem to get offended when posed with certain questions or theories, and revert into this “recoil” mode. That sort of smugness has no place in the Church in my opinion. We must always be mindful of the dialogue and debate of the early Church and understand that constructive dialogue or debate is always valuable and many times fruitful. It is our duty as members of the Church to ensure we educate ourselves and others in understanding and living the Gospel.

Now, the question is, would the “new” understanding get approval from higher ups in the Church, would it be denied approval, or would it be written off without even being given proper attention by some? At least this is a good start.
as accurately as possible.
 
Ignore the “as accurately as possible” closing to my post above, it was a leftover typo from editing my post before I posted.

BTW, the above post was not intended to rip on Fr. Serpa-- I’m glad he revisited the question and am satisfied with his conclusion/agreement with my understanding. I was very concerned the issue would just be written off by most not willing to admit their understanding of the prayer may be wrong or at least in some way inadequate. Now I’d just like to know how that understanding would be accepted by other authorities in the Church.

Josh
 
I’m much more comfortable with this edited answer-- but it just confirms what I’ve said and what I was worried about in this thread all along.
HAIL, HOLY QUEEN, Mother of Mercy, our life, our sweetness and our hope!

rosary-center.org/howto.htm

Mercy is capitalized, as are proper nouns. Mary is, of course, the mother of Jesus who is mercy itself. One could now read this sentence as, HAIL, HOLY QUEEN, Mother of Jesus, our life, our sweetness and our hope! Viewed this way, life, sweetness and hope obviously refer to Jesus.
In a reference to St. Robert Bellarmine, Rev. John A. Hardon, S.J. wrote, “It is not enough to believe. With God’s grace, which means reflection and prayer, you must understand what you believe.”

therealpresence.org/archives/Saints/Saints_005.htm

Thanks for starting this thread!
 
“Is it any wonder, then, that the soul feels the need, after saying this prayer and experiencing so profoundly the motherhood of Mary, to burst forth in praise of the Blessed Virgin, either in that splendid prayer the Salve Regina or in the Litany of Loreto? This is the crowning moment of an inner journey which has brought the faithful into living contact with the mystery of Christ and his Blessed Mother.” Pope John Paul II, Rosarium Virginis Mariae, no. 37

FWIW, I am not yet convinced that it’s grammatically defensible to claim that “our life” (etc.) refers to “mercy” as opposed to Mary. The second line, like the first, is also a greeting:

Salve, regina, mater misericordiae,
vita, dulcedo, et spes nostra, salve.

In English:

Hail, queen, mother of mercy,
life, sweetness, and our hope, hail.

If it’s interpreted “Mercy = Jesus, not Mary = Life, etc.” (rather than “Mercy refers to Jesus, life refers to Mary”) then the prayer greets two people at the beginning, calling into question what the antecedent to the following pronouns is…?
 
“Is it any wonder, then, that the soul feels the need, after saying this prayer and experiencing so profoundly the motherhood of Mary, to burst forth in praise of the Blessed Virgin, either in that splendid prayer the Salve Regina or in the Litany of Loreto? This is the crowning moment of an inner journey which has brought the faithful into living contact with the mystery of Christ and his Blessed Mother.” Pope John Paul II, Rosarium Virginis Mariae, no. 37

FWIW, I am not yet convinced that it’s grammatically defensible to claim that “our life” (etc.) refers to “mercy” as opposed to Mary. The second line, like the first, is also a greeting:

Salve, regina, mater misericordiae,
vita, dulcedo, et spes nostra, salve.

In English:

Hail, queen, mother of mercy,
life, sweetness, and our hope, hail.

If it’s interpreted “Mercy = Jesus, not Mary = Life, etc.” (rather than “Mercy refers to Jesus, life refers to Mary”) then the prayer greets two people at the beginning, calling into question what the antecedent to the following pronouns is…?
I disagree that the prayer greets two people, it clearly greets only Mary. The literal translation of the Latin seems better than the traditional english rendering of “Hail Holy Queen”. It seems perfectly OK to understand the prayer as follows:

Hail, queen, mother of [mercy, life, sweetness, and our hope], hail!

This is in perfect harmony with the understanding that Mary is the mother of “mercy, life, sweetness, and our hope”, in my opinion. That doesn’t necessarily mean that the prayers author intended it to be understood that way, though. Perhaps he/she did, or perhaps he/she intended the traditional meaning. Regardless, that doesn’t change the question of whether the traditional meaning is spiritually problematic.

Can anyone post some insight as to how the prayer was understood by those near the time it began to be used?
 
Sweetness I think I understand.
Hope - as in the Assumption?
Life - Please help me here, I don’t understand this one.
We bring our trials to her, and she comforts us providing sweetness,
Mary is our life in that she gives us life, having borne (given life) the Son.
By doing this, and because we know that her Son listens to her, she is our Hope.

This is by far my favorite Marion prayer.

Sheer poetry.
 
I disagree that the prayer greets two people, it clearly greets only Mary. The literal translation of the Latin seems better than the traditional english rendering of “Hail Holy Queen”. It seems perfectly OK to understand the prayer as follows:

Hail, queen, mother of [mercy, life, sweetness, and our hope], hail!

This is in perfect harmony with the understanding that Mary is the mother of “mercy, life, sweetness, and our hope”, in my opinion. That doesn’t necessarily mean that the prayers author intended it to be understood that way, though. Perhaps he/she did, or perhaps he/she intended the traditional meaning. Regardless, that doesn’t change the question of whether the traditional meaning is spiritually problematic.

Can anyone post some insight as to how the prayer was understood by those near the time it began to be used?
You may be onto something Josh. It certainly appears to be a list of things Mary is mother of when written like that - mother of mercy, life, sweetness, and our hope. But I guess the question still remains is it wrong to think of Mary as those things also since she is bringing Christ? Many people pray that prayer as if it is referring to Mary.
 
From the prayer itself, early posts in this thread, and this article below it is clear that the attributes refer to Mary.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hail_Holy_Queen

The fact that some are a bit uncomfortable (myself included) with these attributes for Mary may be because either the descriptions are indeed a bit strong or they show us our need for better understanding our faith.

This early prayer to Mary refers to taking refuge beneath her compassion:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sub_tuum_praesidium
 
Anyone have this book?

Hail Holy Queen: An Explanation of the Salve Regina
Alphonsus De Ligouri

It’s written by St. Alphonsus. I just ordered it form amazon.
That may have come from a larger work of his, The Glories of Mary, which may be found here. On Part I of the book, St Alphonsus explains each part of the “Hail Holy Queen,” or “Salve Regina.”
 
Who is our life, our sweetness and our hope? Mary and Jesus, of course!

I am sorry, but I cannot understand why the hesitation in ascribing these words to the Blessed Virgin Mary. When we say “Hail Holy Queen, Mother of Mercy!” we do not only honor her as the Mother of Mercy Himself, Jesus Christ, but we also honor her as our mother of mercy. She is our mother by virtue of us being adopted as children of God the Father, as brothers and sisters of Jesus. And yes, Jesus is our Life, our Sweetness, and our Hope, but so is our Mother! The Blessed Virgin is not our mother by name only.

St Mary gave her whole life to loving Jesus that He may save us, and even today she prays and intercedes for us incessantly that we may come to know and love her Son, that we may have life. She therefore is our Life and also our Hope.

As for the Blessed Mother’s Sweetness, well, she WAS and IS Jesus’ mother! Can anyone think of any other mother who can care for us so affectionately and tenderly as her?

Incidentally, Our Lady of Pontmain, or Our Lady of Hope, is one of the Marian apparitions approved by the Vatican as worthy of belief, and is the patron of my home town.
I am the mother of fair love, and of fear, and of knowledge, and of holy hope. In me is all grace of the way and of the truth; in me is all hope of life and of virtue. Come to me all that desire me and be filled with my fruits (Sirach 24:24-26).
Devotion to Our Lady of Hope is one of the oldest Marian devotions. The first shrine bearing that title was erected at Mezieres in the year 930.
 
Can anyone post some insight as to how the prayer was understood by those near the time it began to be used?
The Latin grammar should be revealing enough. Any Latin grammarians among us?

This passage from the old Catholic Encyclopedia indicates that some Protestants and Jansenists objected precisely to Mary being called these names:
Luther complained that the anthem was sung everywhere throughout the world, that the great bells of the churches were rung in its honour, etc. He objected especially to the words “Queen of mercy, our life, our sweetness, our hope”; but the language of devotion is not that of dogma, and some Protestants, unwilling that it should disappear from Lutheran churches, reconstructed it “evangelically” (e.g., a version in use at Erfurt in 1525: “Salve Rex aeternae misericordiae”.) The Jansenists found a like difficulty, and sought to change the expression into “the sweetness and hope of our life” (Beissel, I, 126).
 
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