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Droning_Mary
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Thank you for your prayers x - I said a few feeble prayers yesterday for all and mentioned you with kindness.
I think perhaps, that we have an English language difficulty? But correct me if I am wrong.
Anal sex - which I believe you are referring to, is not an act that any Catholic can engage in. That includes heterosexual and homosexual anal sex. Anal sex is by its object - or in ordinary English terms , is by its end goal not orientated to producing a child. So oral sex, anal sex, protected sex (condom / contraceptives), masturbation, etc, or in deed any sex act that by its end goal does not allow for the procreation of a child is not permitted in Catholic teaching inside or outside of marriage. This teaching refers to every person and not just homosexuals.
However, you maybe surprised to know that a person can romantically love another person of the same sex and not sin. Absolutely Yes. So long as it does not become a sexual act. Simply put, it is not a sin according to Catholicism, to be a homosexual or in fact to be a heterosexual. Check this out, if you doubt me. To be a homosexual is a sin in Islam and other faiths. …Sometimes I think the Catholic Church has some very hidden Muslims and members from other faiths without realizing they are in the wrong church, and that may include me. I eat meat but I am not always happy about it
…Anyway, back to the difference between act and being. Human sin happens only with an act and not with being. For example, in very loose terms, an act does not only mean an external act like killing a person, it can mean also an internal act like thinking about killing a person or willing a person’s death etc. Sorry if I am stating things you may already know, but I want to indicate that I am not posting about act. I am posting about Being - that is the question
A person cannot be a sin. They commit sin which is an act.
Any being from the hand of God, is by God’s will or permission that being and only that being - ( at least until the resurrection ). Unfortunately, our sexuality is not determined singularly by psychological or by physiological factors alone. Sexuality is hardwired into our existence (into our individual beings) and cannot be altered, however hard we may try to alter it. It can be a composite of both psychological and physiological and/or other factors. For example, an hermaphrodite has both male and female sexual organs and their sexual orientation will emerge, rather than evolve psychologically. Hermaphrodite sexuality can be male or female or, theoretically both sexual orientations.
( Usually, but not always, one sexual orientation emerges ).
To deny the existence of hermaphrodites would be to deny an act of creation by the hand of God and would also deny that a human being (for example a hermaphrodite) can physically have a different sexual orientation to one of their sexual organs and; that is homosexuality in being, at least towards one of their sexual organs. Having a male / female or both sexual organs does not always predetermine or decide a person’s sexuality. So it is very possible for homosexual person to exist from the hand of God if we only refer to a person’s physical sexual organs. Perhaps, the real truth and sin of homosexuality has yet to be discovered ??? Who knows? For example, is it a homosexual sin for an hermaphrodite to engage in a sexual act with a person that did not match their predetermined and hard wired sexual preference. Yes, would be my answer. Can the same be said of a homosexual? If not, why? Again, it is all down to procreation as an act and not down to being.
Pope Francis affirmed the difference between being a homosexual and the problem of a sexual act when he stated " If they (Homosexuals) accept the Lord and have goodwill, who am I to judge them? They shouldn’t be marginalized. The tendency (to homosexuality) is not the problem … they’re our brothers."
…perhaps Pope Francis should have said they are our brothers and sisters (it’s is a bit sexist otherwise).
So being a homosexual is not the problem. The problem is a homosexual sexual act which by its nature does not allow for the procreation of a child. To masturbate as a heterosexual is identical in its disorder to a homosexual masturbating. In fact many heterosexual sexual acts are similar in their disorder to many homosexual sexual acts when they do not allow for procreation of a child.
So it is all about the act and not about the being.
Please pray for me x
I think perhaps, that we have an English language difficulty? But correct me if I am wrong.
Anal sex - which I believe you are referring to, is not an act that any Catholic can engage in. That includes heterosexual and homosexual anal sex. Anal sex is by its object - or in ordinary English terms , is by its end goal not orientated to producing a child. So oral sex, anal sex, protected sex (condom / contraceptives), masturbation, etc, or in deed any sex act that by its end goal does not allow for the procreation of a child is not permitted in Catholic teaching inside or outside of marriage. This teaching refers to every person and not just homosexuals.
However, you maybe surprised to know that a person can romantically love another person of the same sex and not sin. Absolutely Yes. So long as it does not become a sexual act. Simply put, it is not a sin according to Catholicism, to be a homosexual or in fact to be a heterosexual. Check this out, if you doubt me. To be a homosexual is a sin in Islam and other faiths. …Sometimes I think the Catholic Church has some very hidden Muslims and members from other faiths without realizing they are in the wrong church, and that may include me. I eat meat but I am not always happy about it
…Anyway, back to the difference between act and being. Human sin happens only with an act and not with being. For example, in very loose terms, an act does not only mean an external act like killing a person, it can mean also an internal act like thinking about killing a person or willing a person’s death etc. Sorry if I am stating things you may already know, but I want to indicate that I am not posting about act. I am posting about Being - that is the question
Any being from the hand of God, is by God’s will or permission that being and only that being - ( at least until the resurrection ). Unfortunately, our sexuality is not determined singularly by psychological or by physiological factors alone. Sexuality is hardwired into our existence (into our individual beings) and cannot be altered, however hard we may try to alter it. It can be a composite of both psychological and physiological and/or other factors. For example, an hermaphrodite has both male and female sexual organs and their sexual orientation will emerge, rather than evolve psychologically. Hermaphrodite sexuality can be male or female or, theoretically both sexual orientations.
( Usually, but not always, one sexual orientation emerges ).
To deny the existence of hermaphrodites would be to deny an act of creation by the hand of God and would also deny that a human being (for example a hermaphrodite) can physically have a different sexual orientation to one of their sexual organs and; that is homosexuality in being, at least towards one of their sexual organs. Having a male / female or both sexual organs does not always predetermine or decide a person’s sexuality. So it is very possible for homosexual person to exist from the hand of God if we only refer to a person’s physical sexual organs. Perhaps, the real truth and sin of homosexuality has yet to be discovered ??? Who knows? For example, is it a homosexual sin for an hermaphrodite to engage in a sexual act with a person that did not match their predetermined and hard wired sexual preference. Yes, would be my answer. Can the same be said of a homosexual? If not, why? Again, it is all down to procreation as an act and not down to being.
Pope Francis affirmed the difference between being a homosexual and the problem of a sexual act when he stated " If they (Homosexuals) accept the Lord and have goodwill, who am I to judge them? They shouldn’t be marginalized. The tendency (to homosexuality) is not the problem … they’re our brothers."
…perhaps Pope Francis should have said they are our brothers and sisters (it’s is a bit sexist otherwise).
So being a homosexual is not the problem. The problem is a homosexual sexual act which by its nature does not allow for the procreation of a child. To masturbate as a heterosexual is identical in its disorder to a homosexual masturbating. In fact many heterosexual sexual acts are similar in their disorder to many homosexual sexual acts when they do not allow for procreation of a child.
So it is all about the act and not about the being.
Please pray for me x
It’s my pleasure to pray for others in the hope that the others will take care of my sorrows (in their prayers).
A bit of “kick-boxing”, as an element of good friendship, though.
You said “born from the hand of God as a homosexual”. This is one of few knowns to you, yeh?
I wonder who was the first to affirm the absurd idea that some people is born with already developed anal sexual desire (I am a male and for me gays mean male gays, though the father of two grown daughters). Are there real-life examples?
The well established pedagogical theory says that anal sensibility is one of later stages in the development of a child, which comes before sexual maturity which actually completes the physical and psycological formation of a person. The exact maturity age vary in various climates. You can learn it from quite a few American textbooks.
Would you point at the earliest proven statement of the above absurd idea?
Thank you,
P.S. Just to make things clearer, the male homosexuality (acceptance of this kind of perversion) develops in the adolescence as a result of existing extreme and abnormal slave-master relations in some (thanks Lord, not many) boys companies or families. The harsher is the public (clerics included) punishment the fewer are manifestations of this kind of slavery.