So this is equivalent of what you give Mary?
Catholics love Mary. There are many reasons why but I will just give you one.
Do you follow the Ten Commandments in the OT? I assume that you, as a Christian, do. The following is one of those Commandments:
“Honor thy Father and thy Mother.”
Mary is Jesus’ mother. Jesus followed the Ten Commandments. He honored his mother. Now we are supposed to be like Jesus, are we not?? So we also honor Jesus’ mother. Did Jesus love his mother? Absolutely. And in loving Mary we are acting as Christ-like as we can.
We do
not worship her. That is absolutely forbidden as it goes against the first of the Ten Commandments: “I am the Lord thy God…and thou shalt not have strange gods before me.”
If a Catholic worships Mary he/she is not following Catholic Church doctrine. It is unacceptable behavior.
I’m sure you realize that Catholics are human beings and we sin, just like you do. Sometimes people get confused by what the Catholic Church really teaches. I would like to give a quote about this from Bishop Fulton Sheen:
"There are not over a hundred people in the United States who hate the Catholic Church. There are millions, however, who hate what they wrongly believe to be the Catholic Church—which is, of course, quite a different thing. These millions can hardly be blamed for hating Catholics because Catholics “adore statues;” because they “put the Blessed Mother on the same level with God;” because they “say indulgence is a permission to commit sin;” because the Pope “is a Fascist;” because the Church “is the defender of Capitalism.
“If the Church taught or believed any one of these things, it should be hated, but the fact is that the Church does not believe nor teach any one of them. It follows then that the hatred of the millions is directed against error and not against truth. As a matter of fact**, if we Catholics believed all of the untruths and lies which were said against the Church, we probably would hate the Church a thousand times more than they do.”** (emphasis added)
I added emphasis to the last line because I think it sums up what Bishop Sheen is saying here.
God’s peace to you,;
Christina