There is a big, BIG problem in terms of encouraging Roman Catholics to not recognize people as Christians if they are not members of the Roman Catholic Church. So what if some Pope or other Roman Catholic theologian says there is no salvation outside of Roman Catholicism? To us outside, that just looks like somebody trying to protect a franchise.
It’s perfectly ok to believe that Roman Catholicism is a valid form of Christianity (which I do). It’s perfectly ok to believe that Roman Catholicism is the best, or a superior, expression of Christianity, and to advocate that people should join that church body. The Roman Catholic brand of Christianity has an impressive history of preserving education, encouraging many forms, of art, and establishing charitable institutions for many centuries, has done a lot of good, and has a lot to be proud of.
But to us outside, it seems obvious that the Roman Catholic variety of Christianity has accumulated a lot of unrelated cultural accretions along the way. Its practices, ceremonies, and organization reek of medieval Europe. Not that there is anything wrong with this: it’s understandable. This doesn’t make it bad or unchristian, but merely complicated. And much of the Reformation (and the American Restoration movement that gave rise to to Mormonism and all of its offshoots) was merely a desire to uncomplicate and simplify, but to retain the essentials.
Many of us were raised not to pray to Mary or to a Saint. Many of us were raised not to pray in the way one prays the Rosary. Many of us would not be comfortable in a regular confession situation. We certainly see the value in owning up to it when we do wrong, but for normal stuff we don’t feel the need to go tell the priest about it. At the same time, we understand that the people who do these things have good motives and valid reasons for doing them, and none of this makes them wrong or unchristian.
My ancestry is Northern European. Before the coming of Christianity, my ancestors left unwanted babies outdoors to die. They settled legal issues by combat, raided other people’s settlements, and took, held, and sold slaves. Today, the northern European countries, especially Scandinavia, are paragons of law, order, civil rights, and quality of life. Something got to them. But the first form of Christianity that came north was Arminian. Still, the power of the Christian message was overwhelming.
It is not an attack on Roman Catholism to say that there are different ways to be Christian. If I were promoting Catholicism, there’s better things to focus on. I would remind people that for centuries, the Church in Europe kept the lights on. For a long, dark time it was the average man’s only source of learning about history and his only source of comfort and consolation. Many sons and daughters of poor and rich alike found meaningful, altruistic careers in the Church. In a cold, harsh time many were distracted from greed and competition by its teachings and found instead ways to help one another.
If there are other, valid forms of Christianity, that’s no threat to what is real and true about the Roman Catholic Church.