Same sex marriage, but not in Church

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Have you ever noticed how those who most support marriage are the same people who hold it in least esteem? Ask a SSM supporter if it’s immoral or wrong for people to live together before marriage, if it’s best for kids to have two parents, or if marriage is best for society.

What would they answer? What would they have answered 15 years ago when nobody thought about SSM? What do the places with the least marriage think about SSM (Scandinavia, etc.)? How does SSM marriage affect marriage rates in those places?

This is a trick, people. There’s no reason we need SSM unless the goal is to diminish marriage (people automatically don’t respect worthless things which marriage as nothing more than really strong feelings at one point would be) and no good non-emotional arguments for SSM unless, again, it’s to deal a death blow to society organized around a nuclear family.

Don’t believe me? Notice how all of the arguments for have to do with (non-existent) “rights” and how it won’t affect society or people’s marriage too much. Again, just stand firm and this fad will pass.
If there were any evidence of this, you might have a point.

This “fad” will not pass, and gay marriage will occur across America, as it does already in two states and in 14 European countries. But it will take some time here in America.
 
It may come if, in like Europe, we nearly completely abandon marriage as a societal norm. Did you really want to use Europe as an example? You won’t win in the long term if people decide that marriage is fundamental to a healthy society. If people think it’s a big party that people should experience if they want, then you win.
 
McTeague, I hate to say it, but, that’s apples and oranges. Gays have, from everything I can gather, all of the rights heterosexuals have. If there are one or two missing, then get them added. It is unnecessary to overturn the “institution” of marriage. There were some that were missing but, in my opinion, those were due to rotten apple politicians, who played with the laws and fairness when they should not have.

Furthermore, there may be sufficient reasons why certain abilities might not be given to homosexuals, just as there are certain abilities not given to pilots, by insurance companies. That’s life.

God bless,
jd
The point is that you can’t dismiss the legitimacy of their concerns simply because the ssm argument is possibly made by a minority within the gay community. Which is what you did. Do I really believe that gay marriage is exactly the same as throwing Christians to the lions. Not really. But my Irish blood can not pass on the opportunity to make an impassioned defense of man’s struggle for liberty. You also have to consider that those in the movement may feel oppressed by the lack of the right of marriage. It is just wrong to dismiss them with an ad homenin attack. They certainly can and do feel they are marginalized by not being treated exactly the same by society.
 
It may come if, in like Europe, we nearly completely abandon marriage as a societal norm. Did you really want to use Europe as an example? You won’t win in the long term if people decide that marriage is fundamental to a healthy society. If people think it’s a big party that people should experience if they want, then you win.
Our system of government and our belief in and pursuit of legal individual rights comes directly from Europe.

Your fears about “marriage” and “society” are unfounded in this regard. Only your sensibilities get injured, not children or anyone else’s hetero marriage and certainly not the CC.
 
They came from a Europe that didn’t have SSM. My fears are backed up by statistics. Everyplace with SSM has low marriage rates and high cohabitation. Marriage isn’t important.

What advantages do you have? None. None at all.
 
They came from a Europe that didn’t have SSM. My fears are backed up by statistics. Everyplace with SSM has low marriage rates and high cohabitation. Marriage isn’t important.

What advantages do you have? None. None at all.
They’re all predominantly Christian countries, too. 😉

Marriage rates go down as society becomes more free, especially economically. Marriage’s primary social purpose has been a defense against poverty and hunger. When that is no longer as true for several generations, the glue wears off and the institution does not “stick” to so many people. This has nothing to do with gay marriage.
 
this is excuse-making. You have just as much influence over these as you do over gay marriage. You could certainly have just as much talk here at CA about them as there is about gay marriage.

But nope.
Larkin:

I’m with you, my brother! Start a thread - as I have already done many times. I have things to tell people about divorce, about fooling around on your mate. We have a couple thousand listeners and, sometimes, I feel like I’m preaching to the choir. But, with your help, I’d be happy to!

God bless and let’s do it!
jd
 
Well, I think I just proved my point. Thank you very much.
But it has nothing to do with gay marriage. You associated it in a cause-effect manner with decline in marriage rates, which is specious. Marriage is an ancient institution that has lost its protective purpose in countries that have economic mobility and strong legal protections for women and for children. Persons continue to pair and mate and cohabitate for love, for money, for protection, for children–and most of them marry. But as the legal distinctions and between married pairs and unmarried pairs lessen and the protective advantage of marriage lessens, then more and more folks will find cohabitation a viable alternative.
 
The point is that you can’t dismiss the legitimacy of their concerns simply because the ssm argument is possibly made by a minority within the gay community. Which is what you did. Do I really believe that gay marriage is exactly the same as throwing Christians to the lions. Not really. But my Irish blood can not pass on the opportunity to make an impassioned defense of man’s struggle for liberty. You also have to consider that those in the movement may feel oppressed by the lack of the right of marriage. It is just wrong to dismiss them with an ad homenin attack. They certainly can and do feel they are marginalized by not being treated exactly the same by society.
Not so, McTeague. I’ve lived in San Fransicko. I’ve witnessed the parades. I’ve watched the horrible and wretched actions of those who are vocal and it all depressed and angered me. They did not care if children were witnessing what they were doing. They did not care whether or not they were on TV. They just writhed in slithering snakiness and sickness for the sole purpose of flaunting their sickness. And, let’s make no mistake, when sex becomes the most important thing in your life, you are sick and will display it.

I have stood on the roadside with gay friends and listened to what they had to say about the spectacle before us… I’m so sorry but giving in to depravity is not the answer. The loudest group of gays is, it seems, the most depraved.

That’s my story and I’m sticking to it!

God bless you if you are gay or have gay leanings. I wish you the best - but I do not wish you all of the degeneracy you can consume. Now, if you are gay, say so and we’ll have sensible conversation. Are you?

jd
 
larkin

*Marriage is an ancient institution that has lost its protective purpose in countries that have economic mobility and strong legal protections for women and for children. Persons continue to pair and mate and cohabitate for love, for money, for protection, for children–and most of them marry. But as the legal distinctions and between married pairs and unmarried pairs lessen and the protective advantage of marriage lessens, then more and more folks will find cohabitation a viable alternative. *

This seems to be a case for gays to cohabit (which they already do), rather than to marry.

Marital rights for gays opens up opportunities (and rights) for gays to adopt children of their own sex, children who are under age and whose sexual identity has not yet been established, children who can be recruited for gay sex not only with their adopting parents who might be homosexual pedophiles, but also with the homosexual and pedophile friends of their parents.

At another thread someone said heterosexuals are not to worry about homosexuality spreading through homosexual marriage. But this is precisely how it can spread, and will spread for sure, if homosexual marriage is legalized. This is not paranoia. This is the truth about perverse human beings … that they will seek the survival of their own kind by every means possible, but preferably the most legal means possible.

After abortion was legalized, its practice multiplied astronomically. If homosexual marriage is legalized, the recruitment of children for homosexual acts will multiply astronomically. Believe it. The homosexual pedophile agenda is transparent.

Pity the children who will be trapped in it. And God help those who are about to approve it. It will be better for them if a millstone were wrapped around their necks and they were thrown into a lake.

Guess who said that.
 
Our system of government and our belief in and pursuit of legal individual rights comes directly from Europe.
Well, not from Europe in general, but, from the Magna Carta and for specific, outlined grievances. Then, we put together the Constitution and dusted the MC.
Your fears about “marriage” and “society” are unfounded in this regard. Only your sensibilities get injured, not children or anyone else’s hetero marriage and certainly not the CC.
Not unfounded fears, rather, unfounded assertions - on your part.

God bless,
jd
 
They’re all predominantly Christian countries, too. 😉
CINO countries, you mean.
Marriage rates go down as society becomes more free, especially economically. Marriage’s primary social purpose has been a defense against poverty and hunger. When that is no longer as true for several generations, the glue wears off and the institution does not “stick” to so many people. This has nothing to do with gay marriage.
No; marriage rates go down when unbridled sexuality becomes the standard for life. You buy into a standard of depraved sexuality and let me know how it goes in a couple of years.

Look: if you’re gay, it’s alright. I’m Catholic. I can’t hate you.

God bless,
jd
 
Well, not from Europe in general, but, from the Magna Carta and for specific, outlined grievances. Then, we put together the Constitution and dusted the MC.
Are you denying the European roots of the Enlightenment and their contributions to the ideas around individual liberties and rights of personhood and conscience? Are you claiming that the American/British founders read no Europeans nor understood the European history of intellectual and religious growth toward individuality? Are you suggesting that our Constitution is not much more informed by Protestant (European) spirit than by Catholic?
 
CINO countries, you mean.
An intellectually convenient dismissal.
No; marriage rates go down when unbridled sexuality becomes the standard for life. You buy into a standard of depraved sexuality and let me know how it goes in a couple of years.
What “standard” are you talking? You are shifting the pea under another shell.
Look: if you’re gay, it’s alright. I’m Catholic. I can’t hate you.
Why would my sexuality matter to you? I am certainly not interested in yours. And I certainly don not and would not “hate” you whether I was more religious or not. Let’s stick to the topic at hand, shall we?
 
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I have stood on the roadside with gay friends and listened to what they had to say about the spectacle before us… I’m so sorry but giving in to depravity is not the answer. The loudest group of gays is, it seems, the most depraved.

That’s my story and I’m sticking to it!

God bless you if you are gay or have gay leanings. I wish you the best - but I do not wish you all of the degeneracy you can consume. Now, if you are gay, say so and we’ll have sensible conversation. Are you?

jd
I am not gay. Just extremely open minded. Living in NYC, I to have occasionally seen some pretty outrageous things. But they often seem similar to what a lot of young people do when flaunting their identities and individuality.
I think many of those gays that act that way are responding to the psychological affects of their marginalization and oppression. They are saying; “You think I am a freak. Okay I’ll show you how outrageous I can be”. Some I would agree go a bit over the top. But would it be better for them to accept a view that they really are sick and should hide their heads in shame? They are simply defending their right to be.
You would find that if actually treated with total acceptance in society that the incidence of the kind of outrageousness you deplore would actually decrease. The call for gay marriage is really for some a plea for acceptance. Many want to live the same kind of life you do. But we in our ignorance and persistence in clinging to antiquated belief systems will not let them.
 
Are you denying the European roots of the Enlightenment and their contributions to the ideas around individual liberties and rights of personhood and conscience? Are you claiming that the American/British founders read no Europeans nor understood the European history of intellectual and religious growth toward individuality? Are you suggesting that our Constitution is not much more informed by Protestant (European) spirit than by Catholic?
I have a question for you: “What’s wrong with England?” Is it just part of a greater Europe now? Does it not have its own identity, and do the people not have an English identity any more?

God bless,
jd
 
Not so, McTeague. I’ve lived in San Fransicko. I’ve witnessed the parades. I’ve watched the horrible and wretched actions of those who are vocal and it all depressed and angered me. They did not care if children were witnessing what they were doing. They did not care whether or not they were on TV. They just writhed in slithering snakiness and sickness for the sole purpose of flaunting their sickness. And, let’s make no mistake, when sex becomes the most important thing in your life, you are sick and will display it.

I have stood on the roadside with gay friends and listened to what they had to say about the spectacle before us… I’m so sorry but giving in to depravity is not the answer. The loudest group of gays is, it seems, the most depraved.

That’s my story and I’m sticking to it!

God bless you if you are gay or have gay leanings. I wish you the best - but I do not wish you all of the degeneracy you can consume. Now, if you are gay, say so and we’ll have sensible conversation. Are you?

jd
Don’t take this the wrong way, but if you’re really offended by the extremes of gay culture, why did you turn up at an event to view leather boys and lewd queens on floats?
 
I have a question for you: “What’s wrong with England?” Is it just part of a greater Europe now? Does it not have its own identity, and do the people not have an English identity any more?

God bless,
jd
Nothing is wrong with England. It is just an incomplete answer to the question. You blamed “Europe” for social ills around the expansion of individual rights and freedoms. I thought it necessary to remind you that that is where the Reformation and Enlightenment had its primary inception. England participated, too, of course, and the Founders were all Brits, and overwhelmingly Protestant of one form or another–which of course was initially another European idea.
 
I am not gay. Just extremely open minded. Living in NYC, I to have occasionally seen some pretty outrageous things. But they often seem similar to what a lot of young people do when flaunting their identities and individuality.
I think many of those gays that act that way are responding to the psychological affects of their marginalization and oppression. They are saying; “You think I am a freak. Okay I’ll show you how outrageous I can be”. Some I would agree go a bit over the top. But would it be better for them to accept a view that they really are sick and should hide their heads in shame? They are simply defending their right to be.
You would find that if actually treated with total acceptance in society that the incidence of the kind of outrageousness you deplore would actually decrease. The call for gay marriage is really for some a plea for acceptance. Many want to live the same kind of life you do. But we in our ignorance and persistence in clinging to antiquated belief systems will not let them.
That’s false. Take a good look at San Francisco. I rest my case!

God bless,
jd
 
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