Same sex marriage, but not in Church

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An equal standard of in the reason applied to our discussion about them. You can not say that gay marriage is illegitimate because of lack of popular support, but those other things are legitimate when they also lacked it. It is a biased analysis, and should be rejected. We should hold like things to the same standard. These are like in the sense a claim was made that lack of popular support proves illegitamacy. The examples given prove that assertion false. There may be valid reasons to oppose gay marriage. But illegitamacy argued because of lack of majority support is not a valid argument
mcteague,
I do not say gay “marriage” is illegitimate because of lack of support. I say it is illegitimate because it undermines the true sacrament of marriage between a man and a woman.
That is why I get more than a little vexed when you bring in historical events in an analogous argument. This just blurs the focus of the debate. Far from proving any illegitimacy argument false it only skews historical events into self-serving “reasons”.
Also, I see in another of your posts that you reference the movie ‘Inherit the Wind’.
I really have to say that you ought to steer clear of hollywood to bolster your arguments.
Hollywood is a mere bubble of dreams, a gossamer thin bag of hot air.
God Bless,
Colmcille.
 
mcteague,
I do not say gay “marriage” is illegitimate because of lack of support. I say it is illegitimate because it undermines the true sacrament of marriage between a man and a woman.
That is why I get more than a little vexed when you bring in historical events in an analogous argument. This just blurs the focus of the debate. Far from proving any illegitimacy argument false it only skews historical events into self-serving “reasons”.
Also, I see in another of your posts that you reference the movie ‘Inherit the Wind’.
I really have to say that you ought to steer clear of hollywood to bolster your arguments.
Hollywood is a mere bubble of dreams, a gossamer thin bag of hot air.
God Bless,
Colmcille.
I actually know you did not say that. Someone else did though. I admit to a great degree of appeal to emotion in my recent posts. But I think people here often delude themselves into thinking they are making purely abstract argument based on logic. Religious belief is deeply personal and rarely based on reason. Nor should it be.
The point of the movie story is that I value empathy as one of the most important human qualities.
The argument about definitional change is interesting. We know that the meanings of words change. There are few proscriptive dictionaries. Some resistance to definitional change is good. We do want things to actually have meaning. This is all part of a natural dialectical process. This is often difficult and painful.
A change in the definition of marriage for the broader world would not necessarily change it for Catholics. Well probably it might eventually.
But to what degree is it appropriate to deny others the right to define themselves and their relationships using language that they have as much right to as we do. It presumes that gays are what postmodern and postcolonial theorists call “the other”. It presumes a supremacy in the authority to define marriage in the straight and Christian world. I question whether this is a proper attitude.
Catholics, believing their authority comes from God are I think particularly prone to that kind of thinking. One of the criticisms I would make of Catholic reasoning is that because of the way they view God, and the the foundational beliefs of their epistemological systems they are often guilty of the error of bifurcation in their analysis. The idea that a thing could have more than one essence or essential purpose, and that the absence of one of them does not exclude a thing from being grouped within a particular definition seems almost beyond them.
I will try to resist my romantic nature and limit my use emotionally appealing rhetoric. I probably can’t eliminate it. As an Irishman I am sure you recognize that how we tell the tale is often more important than the tale itself.

By religious beliefs though quite unusual do not preclude me from saying God bless you also.
 
I actually know you did not say that. Someone else did though. I admit to a great degree of appeal to emotion in my recent posts. But I think people here often delude themselves into thinking they are making purely abstract argument based on logic. Religious belief is deeply personal and rarely based on reason. Nor should it be.
Sorry to butt in, McTeague, however, I disagree. Perhaps religious adherence, in the wild, is like that. But, maybe not so much in these fora.
The argument about definitional change is interesting. We know that the meanings of words change. There are few proscriptive dictionaries. Some resistance to definitional change is good. We do want things to actually have meaning. This is all part of a natural dialectical process. This is often difficult and painful.
It can be the same thing with poker. No one would relish sitting in on a game when the rules (words) change from time to time throughout the game. Altered words do find their way into the lexicon, but, usually by accident, or from minority languages.
A change in the definition of marriage for the broader world would not necessarily change it for Catholics. Well probably it might eventually.
Yes. It probably would. Religionism, in this country, is a minority. Yes, a big one, but, still considered a minority. Can Catholics and Protestants usurp Ramadan?
But to what degree is it appropriate to deny others the right to define themselves and their relationships using language that they have as much right to as we do.
For the same reasons that you (maybe) or I (for sure) 😃 would not want a marriage-like relationship to be called so, that was between a man and his dog. I wouldn’t want it called a civil union either! Perhaps, an uncivil union?
It presumes that gays are what postmodern and postcolonial theorists call “the other”. It presumes a supremacy in the authority to define marriage in the straight and Christian world. I question whether this is a proper attitude.
And, so, the problem with that?
Catholics, believing their authority comes from God are I think particularly prone to that kind of thinking.
I think Catholics are the least likely to embrace that “type” of thinking, whatever that means.
One of the criticisms I would make of Catholic reasoning is that because of the way they view God, and the the foundational beliefs of their epistemological systems they are often guilty of the error of bifurcation in their analysis.
I don’t know what you mean by that, but, Catholics take the heat from other religions, all the time, for our relaxations of such things that other religions find very disdainful. In general, gays are murdered in the most of the mid-eastern world.
The idea that a thing could have more than one essence or essential purpose, and that the absence of one of them does not exclude a thing from being grouped within a particular definition seems almost beyond them.
You continuously forget that Catholicism, and Christianity, take their marching orders from the Bible. We can’t pick and choose. That’s not our prerogative. Unfortunately, some do. That’s operating ex cathedra.

God bless,
jd
 
I say it is illegitimate because it undermines the true sacrament of marriage between a man and a woman.
And therein lies your fatal error. For the argument about gay marriage is not about a ‘sacrament’, rather it is about a legal status. Fortunately, our government is secular and does not deal in sacraments.
 
And therein lies your fatal error. For the argument about gay marriage is not about a ‘sacrament’, rather it is about a legal status. Fortunately, our government is secular and does not deal in sacraments.
That’s about what it boils down to. To Prop 8 folks, civil government is just supposed to be another enforcement arm for their sectarian religion (oops "natural law’). Since they have faith in the government to administer sacraments, it wouldn’t be a problem if they appointed bishops too, would it? If we’re going to tear down the wall between church and state, we might as well do it right like they do in China or Iran.
 
And therein lies your fatal error. For the argument about gay marriage is not about a ‘sacrament’, rather it is about a legal status. Fortunately, our government is secular and does not deal in sacraments.
Gay “marriage” is a fatal error.
You don’t have to tell me your government is secular. It is also pragmatic, bureaucratic, atheistic and any amount of other “ics” you care to throw in.
(Also, I’m replying to you, sir, out of courtesy as you hopped in on my post. Be assured though, for future reference, I dismiss everything you say unless you’ve had a revolutionary change of heart and opened your mind a teeny bit so that you can truly say you are “seeking”.)
God Bless,
Colmcille.🙂
 
That’s about what it boils down to. To Prop 8 folks, civil government is just supposed to be another enforcement arm for their sectarian religion (oops "natural law’). Since they have faith in the government to administer sacraments, it wouldn’t be a problem if they appointed bishops too, would it? If we’re going to tear down the wall between church and state, we might as well do it right like they do in China or Iran.
You, sir, have obviously not the first clue about why the wall between Church and state exists. Here’s what I advise you to do: read up on Uncle Joe. Check out Mao’s legacy.
How many people do you reckon these two scumbags slaughtered between them. When you arrive at an approximate figure, come back and we’ll discuss Chuch and state.
God Bless,
Colmcille.
 
You, sir, have obviously not the first clue about why the wall between Church and state exists. Here’s what I advise you to do: read up on Uncle Joe. Check out Mao’s legacy.
How many people do you reckon these two scumbags slaughtered between them. When you arrive at an approximate figure, come back and we’ll discuss Chuch and state.
God Bless,
Colmcille.
I think we might need to look up the word sarcasm. I am sure he was being facetious
 
I actually know you did not say that. Someone else did though. I admit to a great degree of appeal to emotion in my recent posts. But I think people here often delude themselves into thinking they are making purely abstract argument based on logic. Religious belief is deeply personal and rarely based on reason. Nor should it be.
The point of the movie story is that I value empathy as one of the most important human qualities.
The argument about definitional change is interesting. We know that the meanings of words change. There are few proscriptive dictionaries. Some resistance to definitional change is good. We do want things to actually have meaning. This is all part of a natural dialectical process. This is often difficult and painful.
A change in the definition of marriage for the broader world would not necessarily change it for Catholics. Well probably it might eventually.
But to what degree is it appropriate to deny others the right to define themselves and their relationships using language that they have as much right to as we do. It presumes that gays are what postmodern and postcolonial theorists call “the other”. It presumes a supremacy in the authority to define marriage in the straight and Christian world. I question whether this is a proper attitude.
Catholics, believing their authority comes from God are I think particularly prone to that kind of thinking. One of the criticisms I would make of Catholic reasoning is that because of the way they view God, and the the foundational beliefs of their epistemological systems they are often guilty of the error of bifurcation in their analysis. The idea that a thing could have more than one essence or essential purpose, and that the absence of one of them does not exclude a thing from being grouped within a particular definition seems almost beyond them.
I will try to resist my romantic nature and limit my use emotionally appealing rhetoric. I probably can’t eliminate it. As an Irishman I am sure you recognize that how we tell the tale is often more important than the tale itself.

By religious beliefs though quite unusual do not preclude me from saying God bless you also.
Hi Mcteague,
Mr Daniel got in before me and, I admit, made a far more decent effort at a reply than I could have managed.
The “deeply personal” nature of religious belief informs the public dissemination of said Faith. That is why countless millions are attracted to it.
No feeble words of mine can adequately express the joy of Catholicism.
I can only be honest with you here. Gay “marriage” is anathema to Catholics.
I have tried on other threads to state quite clearly that I, personally, do not hate any human. I know that there are those who do hate. And I find it difficult to convince some debaters that, although they would like to lump me in with their homophobic enemies, I refuse to play their game.
Still one tries one’s best.
Tis a pleasure chatting with you, sir!
God Bless,
Colmcille.🙂
 
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Gay “marriage” is a fatal error.
Fatal? To whom?
You don’t have to tell me your government is secular.
Is it not also your government?
Be assured though, for future reference, I dismiss everything you say unless you’ve had a revolutionary change of heart and opened your mind a teeny bit so that you can truly say you are “seeking”
Ah. I see. Because I give more credibility to contemporary, living humans who have caught a glimpse of the other side than I do to documents that are thousands of years old and of questionable sourcing I am not being open minded enough. That’s cool.
 
And therein lies your fatal error. For the argument about gay marriage is not about a ‘sacrament’, rather it is about a legal status. Fortunately, our government is secular and does not deal in sacraments.
Ken:
All due respect, but, the “sacrament” was ours way before Uncle Sam’s came along. In fact, “marriage” began with the “original” marriage. Therefore, we, if anyone, own the word and appurtenant criteria.

God bless,
jd
 
Ken:
All due respect, but, the “sacrament” was ours way before Uncle Sam’s came along. In fact, “marriage” began with the “original” marriage….
When, in historical timeline, was this?
 
When, in historical timeline, was this?
A quick search will at least show the word marriage is middle English from the 14th century. I don’t know enough about church history to say when it became a sacrament. Or what it might have been called.
But the fact that some beliefs about the word may not be accurate doesn’t change the fact that people have strong feelings and connections to this ceremonial joining of two people.
 
A quick search will at least show the word marriage is middle English from the 14th century. I don’t know enough about church history to say when it became a sacrament. Or what it might have been called.
But the fact that some beliefs about the word may not be accurate doesn’t change the fact that people have strong feelings and connections to this ceremonial joining of two people.
yes

I think he/she meant Adam and Eve, and I would like to know historically when that was. He/she is making a historical argument, so some sense of dates and timeline and culture is pertinent.
 
If people who support traditional marriage stand firm and the courts stay out of it, the whole thing will go away. Society will not suffer in any way. There are no good arguments for gay marriage at all.
 
You, sir, have obviously not the first clue about why the wall between Church and state exists. Here’s what I advise you to do: read up on Uncle Joe. Check out Mao’s legacy.
How many people do you reckon these two scumbags slaughtered between them. When you arrive at an approximate figure, come back and we’ll discuss Chuch and state.
God Bless,
Colmcille.
I would think easily their death tolls number in the low to mid tens of millions. I would believe almost any number up to 50 million or so, and the numbers will rise considerably if we factor in the victims of other similar communist despots - ie Pol Pot. Nevertheless I consider them to be excellent arguments in favor of church-state separation. While officially atheists, these regimes most certainly had a state religion. It just happened that their “gods” also happened to be mortal men who controlled the machine guns. They were defending their unassailable “divine truth” in the same way as the 9/11 attackers or the Inquisition of the middle ages.
 
If people who support traditional marriage stand firm and the courts stay out of it, the whole thing will go away. Society will not suffer in any way. There are no good arguments for gay marriage at all.
Ah yes, ignoring uppity minorities and keeping your boot on their neck always smooths things over if you just give it enough time… I concede it does work for a time. It worked on black folks for about 90 years after the Civil War. Assuming that time scale holds and we use, say, the Stonewall Riots as the zero year for the gays, that leaves you, at the outside, 49 years that your scheme might work. Of course, that’s an outside estimate, since gays have many social, financial and organizational advantages which were not available to black Americans in the Civil Rights struggle.

Of course another downside to “standing firm” is that costs of maintaining oppression always rise exponentially, not in linear fashion, so the final years of the program will be much more painful and less productive for you. Still, it’s your broom. If you think you can push back the incoming tide of justice with it, rock on…
 
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