Same-sex marriages: Let it be!

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I would call that group the state.
I would argue that it is more a state-system than the state itself. The question of “What is the state?” is a very big question indeed. And sociologists, philosophers, political scientists, and historians have poured a lot of ink over it. While it would certainly be interesting to have this conversation here, I would caution that it can quickly hijack this thread. Just sayin’.
 
. When the government states that it will now given equal status to same-sex couples, they are not demanding you yourself change your ideas. Rather, they are simply stating that their contract of association will be given the same tax benefit.

You might have a problem with the moral arguments that the activists put forward that demand that gay marriage be equally moral. You don’t have to accept those. But those arguments are not inextricably linked to recognizing their legal contracts.
As I stated before:

Actually gay people could have very easily introduced and supported legislation that would have granted all marital rights and benefits to those in civil unions.

But that is not the reason gay activists want the institution of marriage to be redefined is it?
 
As I stated before:

Actually gay people could have very easily introduced and supported legislation that would have granted all marital rights and benefits to those in civil unions.

But that is not the reason gay activists want the institution of marriage to be redefined is it?
Not true at all. The reason gay activism has had as much success is precisely because of federalism. Changing the tax code at the federal level totally by-passes the federalist process and goes directly to Congress. It is almost impossible to make such a drastic change to the tax code. Hence, why the state route was endorsed and DOMA was challenged on the basis of equal protection under the law. DOMA would not have fallen if civil unions were granted tax exempted status at the federal level. But as I have said before, reforming the tax code is almost impossible.
 
Not true at all. The reason gay activism has had as much success is precisely because of federalism. Changing the tax code at the federal level totally by-passes the federalist process and goes directly to Congress. It is almost impossible to make such a drastic change to the tax code. Hence, why the state route was endorsed and DOMA was challenged on the basis of equal protection under the law. DOMA would not have fallen if civil unions were granted tax exempted status at the federal level. But as I have said before, reforming the tax code is almost impossible.
The United States Tax code is changed almost daily. That is why it has grown from 300 pages in 1912 to 73954 today.

The state route was chosen because activists could rely on more sympathetic (or gay) judges to hold laws unconstitutional…rather than rely on legislation. This will be settled, finally, in June when the Supreme Court views the issue.
 
Not true at all. The reason gay activism has had as much success is precisely because of federalism. Changing the tax code at the federal level totally by-passes the federalist process and goes directly to Congress. It is almost impossible to make such a drastic change to the tax code. Hence, why the state route was endorsed and DOMA was challenged on the basis of equal protection under the law. DOMA would not have fallen if civil unions were granted tax exempted status at the federal level. But as I have said before, reforming the tax code is almost impossible.
Many jurisdictions around the world have amended tax and other laws so the provisions that apply to married people also applied to civil unions. That fact did not see a reduction in demand for SSM, but rather saw the basis of that demand shift entirely away from such matters. Same Sex couples, fundamentally, want their arrangement accepted as a normal and natural state, with the same endorsement by the State / community as Marriage. They needed “marriage” to apply to them.
 
The United States Tax code is changed almost daily. That is why it has grown from 300 pages in 1912 to 73954 today.

The state route was chosen because activists could rely on more sympathetic (or gay) judges to hold laws unconstitutional…rather than rely on legislation. This will be settled, finally, in June when the Supreme Court views the issue.
Amendments and corporate loopholes are added almost daily. But going through the entire code and rewriting the language is a different matter entirely.
Many jurisdictions around the world have amended tax and other laws so the provisions that apply to married people also applied to civil unions. That fact did not see a reduction in demand for SSM, but rather saw the basis of that demand shift entirely away from such matters. Same Sex couples, fundamentally, want their arrangement accepted as a normal and natural state, with the same endorsement by the State / community as Marriage. They needed “marriage” to apply to them.
Has it ever occurred to you that civil unions aren’t granted this sort of tax exempt status in the federal tax code precisely because the “civil union” route was pro-gay to begin with? And in all honestly, I don’t care if they want their lifestyle accepted as normal. You nor I have to accept that. But blocking the path for their equal treatment under the law is abhorrent. The state has never advocated “marriage” as some sort of metaphysical sacrament. The US law has always regarded it as a contract. There is already a disconnect between Catholic or religious “natural law theory” and what the law deems. Therefore, changing marriage in the law to include homosexual couples does not change anything on your end of the deal.
 
Amendments and corporate loopholes are added almost daily. But going through the entire code and rewriting the language is a different matter entirely.
It would not take a rewrite of the entire tax code. A simple amendment would do.
Has it ever occurred to you that civil unions aren’t granted this sort of tax exempt status in the federal tax code precisely because the “civil union” route was pro-gay to begin with? And in all honestly, I don’t care if they want their lifestyle accepted as normal. You nor I have to accept that. But blocking the path for their equal treatment under the law is abhorrent. The state has never advocated “marriage” as some sort of metaphysical sacrament. The US law has always regarded it as a contract. There is already a disconnect between Catholic or religious “natural law theory” and what the law deems. Therefore, changing marriage in the law to include homosexual couples does not change anything on your end of the deal.
At present, no one, including social scientists, philosophers, and historians, can predict with any certainty what the long-term ramifications of widespread acceptance of same-sex marriage will be. And judges are certainly not equipped to make such an assessment.

If the Constitution contained a provision guaranteeing the right to marry a person of the same sex, it would be the duty of the Supreme Court to enforce that right. But the Constitution simply does not speak to the issue of same-sex marriage. (Or traditional marriage)

In our system of government, ultimate sovereignty rests with the people, and the people have the right to control their own destiny. Any change on a question so fundamental should be made by the people through their elected officials. Not by unelected judges.
 
Amendments and corporate loopholes are added almost daily. But going through the entire code and rewriting the language is a different matter entirely.

Has it ever occurred to you that civil unions aren’t granted this sort of tax exempt status in the federal tax code precisely because the “civil union” route was pro-gay to begin with? And in all honestly, I don’t care if they want their lifestyle accepted as normal. You nor I have to accept that. But blocking the path for their equal treatment under the law is abhorrent. The state has never advocated “marriage” as some sort of metaphysical sacrament. The US law has always regarded it as a contract. There is already a disconnect between Catholic or religious “natural law theory” and what the law deems. Therefore, changing marriage in the law to include homosexual couples does not change anything on your end of the deal.
And calling gay sexual relationdhips Marriage is abhorrent too. You are at risk of burying the “reality” of marriage beneath the legal framework. Is the latter all you can see now?

If two cohabitating men deserve the legal framework associated with marriage, then their sexual relationship ought not to be relevant. I have no problem with such an arrangement for arbitrary persons wishing to share assets, mutually care for each other and so forth. Your requirements are therefore met. It is not marriage though.
 
It would not take a rewrite of the entire tax code. A simple amendment would do.

At present, no one, including social scientists, philosophers, and historians, can predict with any certainty what the long-term ramifications of widespread acceptance of same-sex marriage will be. And judges are certainly not equipped to make such an assessment.

If the Constitution contained a provision guaranteeing the right to marry a person of the same sex, it would be the duty of the Supreme Court to enforce that right. But the Constitution simply does not speak to the issue of same-sex marriage. (Or traditional marriage)

In our system of government, ultimate sovereignty rests with the people, and the people have the right to control their own destiny. Any change on a question so fundamental should be made by the people through their elected officials. Not by unelected judges.
Actually it would require much more than a simple amendment. You’re right, ultimate sovereignty rests with the people. And since it is so, we should not deny the right of association to homosexuals, nor equal treatment under the law.

You aren’t going to let it be legalized because you fear the unknown? Seriously? That’s a poor reason.
And calling gay sexual relationdhips Marriage is abhorrent too. You are at risk of burying the “reality” of marriage beneath the legal framework. Is the latter all you can see now?

If two cohabitating men deserve the legal framework associated with marriage, then their sexual relationship ought not to be relevant. I have no problem with such an arrangement for arbitrary persons wishing to share assets, mutually care for each other and so forth. Your requirements are therefore met. It is not marriage though.
What reality are you speaking of? Again, you are saying your view of marriage is real, when in fact the whole idea is simply a social construction. You can argue that it is real in a metaphysical sense, but metaphysics not something that can be empirically tested at all. All we have to work with is the cultural construction, not the metaphysics.

If you are so dead set on denying that the social and cultural definitions of marriage change because people will them to, then I suppose I cannot argue with your poor logic. So I propose another route, which history will likely not favor because it is already too late: The state refuses to recognize any marriage. Bam, all is well and the debate is over. But I have not seen a single traditional marriage advocate make this suggestion, precisely because those same people want their morality dictated and written into the law.
 
What reality are you speaking of? Again, you are saying your view of marriage is real, when in fact the whole idea is simply a social construction. You can argue that it is real in a metaphysical sense, but metaphysics not something that can be empirically tested at all. All we have to work with is the cultural construction, not the metaphysics.

If you are so dead set on denying that the social and cultural definitions of marriage change because people will them to, then I suppose I cannot argue with your poor logic. So I propose another route, which history will likely not favor because it is already too late: The state refuses to recognize any marriage. Bam, all is well and the debate is over. But I have not seen a single traditional marriage advocate make this suggestion, precisely because those same people want their morality dictated and written into the law.
I’m open to the idea you suggest, but there are important social protections that the State ought to afford, most commonly when children are involved. Some framework is required.

And by the way, I fully support freedom of association. That does not of necessity entail 2 men or 3 men and 5 women being eligible for a marriage licence. It does not entail boys having the option of joining the Girl Guides either, or any number of other arrangements.
 
Actually it would require much more than a simple amendment. You’re right, ultimate sovereignty rests with the people. And since it is so, we should not deny the right of association to homosexuals, nor equal treatment under the law.
Of course we should not deny rights to people who those rights apply. That is why the Supreme Court did not rule on the equal protection clause in DOMA.

The only basis on which the gay community could claim constitutional protection under the equal protection clause is: minority status as a “suspect class.”

The Supreme Court recognizes minority status only for those groups (suspect class) which 1) have suffered a history of discrimination, 2) are powerless to help themselves and 3) are defined by immutable characteristics.
You aren’t going to let it be legalized because you fear the unknown? Seriously? That’s a poor reason.
It is not that. I fear judges legalizing things they know nothing about.
 
…Has it ever occurred to you that civil unions aren’t granted this sort of tax exempt status in the federal tax code precisely because the “civil union” route was pro-gay to begin with? And in all honestly, I don’t care if they want their lifestyle accepted as normal. You nor I have to accept that. But blocking the path for their equal treatment under the law is abhorrent. The state has never advocated “marriage” as some sort of metaphysical sacrament. The US law has always regarded it as a contract. There is already a disconnect between Catholic or religious “natural law theory” and what the law deems. Therefore, changing marriage in the law to include homosexual couples does not change anything on your end of the deal.
If it is so important that 2 men can marry, why are all the wonderful tax benefits you are fighting over restricted to people in sexual relationships?

Why do you keep raising sacraments and Church? I’ve not mentioned either.
 
If it is so important that 2 men can marry, why are all the wonderful tax benefits you are fighting over restricted to people in sexual relationships?

Why do you keep raising sacraments and Church? I’ve not mentioned either.
You do realize that this is Catholic Answers forum, Don’t you?😃
 
Of course we should not deny rights to people who those rights apply. That is why the Supreme Court did not rule on the equal protection clause in DOMA.

The only basis on which the gay community could claim constitutional protection under the equal protection clause is: minority status as a “suspect class.”

The Supreme Court recognizes minority status only for those groups (suspect class) which 1) have suffered a history of discrimination, 2) are powerless to help themselves and 3) are defined by immutable characteristics.
What about the due process clause which says that states may not “deprive any person of life, liberty, or property without due process of law”? That was the basis of Loving vs Virginia in which the Supreme Court decision stated that “the freedom to marry has long been recognized as one of the vital personal rights essential to the orderly pursuit of happiness by free men.” To “deny this fundamental freedom on so unsupportable a basis as racial classifications” was “directly subversive of the principle of equality at the heart of the Fourteenth Amendment…Under our Constitution, the freedom to marry, or not marry, a person of another race resides with the individual, and cannot be infringed by the State.”

We could just substitute instead, “Under our Constitution, the freedom to marry, or not marry, a person of the same gender resides with the individual, and cannot be infringed by the State.” It’s a question of liberty or freedom in the due process clause.
 
Awesome post. I am a retired educator , not an attorney , but I always believed that LOVING V VIRGINIA would be the defacto model in our Courts deciding the LGBTQ marriage debate.
 
If equal protection of the laws, along with freedom and liberty, are to be the basis for granting same sex marriage, then such equal protection belongs to all parties and all arrangements. If one has the freedom to marry, or not marry, a person of the same or a different race, the same or a different gender, then one ought to have the freedom to marry persons of the same or opposite gender. Including only the singular is an unconstitutional limit on the freedome to marry.

One man plus one woman. Let it be.
One man plus one man. Let it be.
One woman plus one woman. Let it be.
One woman plus two women. Let it be.
One man plus two women. Let it be.
One woman plus two men. Let it be.
Two men plus three women. Let it be.
One man plus his adolescent boy. Let it be.
One woman plus her adolescent. Let it be.
It’s all about love and freedom.

Marriage equality is marriage equality.
 
Yet a recent article makes the point that legalizing same sex marriage might not be the loving thing to do.

“There is only one sexual lifestyle that is actually healthy for the human body and mind—one man and one woman, freely and totally, faithfully and fruitfully united.”
Source
 
Yet a recent article makes the point that legalizing same sex marriage might not be the loving thing to do.

“There is only one sexual lifestyle that is actually healthy for the human body and mind—one man and one woman, freely and totally, faithfully and fruitfully united.”
Source
Homosexuality is not a “lifestyle” any more than heterosexuality is a “lifestyle.” The same harmful activities which many conservatives often associate with homosexuality could just as easily be engaged in by heterosexual couples which indeed they are by some heterosexual couples. So the thing to do would be to encourage both same-sex and opposite-sex couples to have life-long monogamous relationships.
 
What about the due process clause which says that states may not “deprive any person of life, liberty, or property without due process of law”? That was the basis of Loving vs Virginia in which the Supreme Court decision stated that “the freedom to marry has long been recognized as one of the vital personal rights essential to the orderly pursuit of happiness by free men.” To “deny this fundamental freedom on so unsupportable a basis as racial classifications” was “directly subversive of the principle of equality at the heart of the Fourteenth Amendment…Under our Constitution, the freedom to marry, or not marry, a person of another race resides with the individual, and cannot be infringed by the State.”
Do you wonder why Loving vs Virginia was NOT cited in U.S. vs Windsor (DOMA).?

Because it has no bearing on same sex marriage. It is a RACIAL issue. There is no difference between black people and white people, while there are enormous differences between males and females. A person’s race is an immutable quality. Homosexuality is not.
 
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