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However much emotions are correlated with thoughts, both rational, and irrational; I remain emotional.
Well, that’s the problem. A lot of people seem to be willing to rationalize lying because of the warm emotions evoked by the Santa Claus deception.However much emotions are correlated with thoughts, both rational, and irrational; I remain emotional.
I don’t know if anyone has shown you this yet, as I don’t have time or patience to read all of the responses. I figured I would post it anyway.Well, that’s the problem. A lot of people seem to be willing to rationalize lying because of the warm emotions evoked by the Santa Claus deception.
But as the Church makes so clear in the Catechism, the conscience must be formed through reason. Emotion does not dictate right and wrong. A lie that creates joy is still a lie.
So by your reasoning, it would be a sin to collaborate on a surprise party. Or tell your wife the dress looks great on her (when it does not). Or tell your grandmother you love the hand knitted sweater in wool (that is too small and scratches). Or tell your child his drawing was the best in the class (when its subject was unrecognizable by you). Or tell your child the hand baked chocolate chip cookies are the best you’ve ever tasted (made with too much salt and baked a little too long).A lie that creates joy is still a lie.
I don’t know if anyone has shown you this yet, as I don’t have time or patience to read all of the responses. I figured I would post it anyway.
I would also like to point out that this is merely Michelle Arnold’s, Catholic Answers Apologist, opinion. But it is an opinion that I believe people should value a bit more than most: forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=119576
CA apologists are not always right. This is a good example.I don’t know if anyone has shown you this yet, as I don’t have time or patience to read all of the responses. I figured I would post it anyway.
I would also like to point out that this is merely Michelle Arnold’s, Catholic Answers Apologist, opinion. But it is an opinion that I believe people should value a bit more than most: forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=119576
This is nothing but a rationalization. There is no “myth-making” exception to dishonesty. Trying to pass myths off as truths is lying.Rather than “lying,” it can be considered “myth-making.”
I like the jolly man from The North Pole. The reindeer are great. I saw a Mule Deer at Yosemite this summer. A few of them, eating. “Rudolph The Red Nosed Reindeer” has always been a cheerful song.Well, that’s the problem. A lot of people seem to be willing to rationalize lying because of the warm emotions evoked by the Santa Claus deception.
But as the Church makes so clear in the Catechism, the conscience must be formed through reason. Emotion does not dictate right and wrong. A lie that creates joy is still a lie.
So when you tell your children the story about about Adam and Eve are you going to say "well there was this man named Adam and then God made Eve out of Adam’s rib (evolution is wrong) and then this nasty snake, well not a snake, well a snake but it really was Satan, tempted Eve to eat a fruit.CA apologists are not always right. This is a good example.
For instance:
This is nothing but a rationalization. There is no “myth-making” exception to dishonesty. Trying to pass myths off as truths is lying.
You should note that Ms. Arnould also artfully dodges directly addressing the Catechism on lying.
I’m not certain of this, but if flying in a plane at a particular altitude could qualify a person as an astronaut, then you might take the next flight out with a captain willing to fly high.… My parents used to tell me that I could be whatever I wanted in life when I wanted to be an astronaut. I have medical disabilities that prevent me from becoming an astronaut but you must take a child’s mental capacity to understand abstract concepts, such as giving and receiving.
I don’t think there is an official Church position on Santa Claus, any more than there is on the Tooth Fairy. But the following information from the Catholic Encyclopedia on lying is instructive:I have a question. I’m not trying to cause a problem- I am honestly curious about this (and I haven’t read every post, so forgive me if this has been brought up): Has the Church ever published anything against the belief of Santa Claus? I ask this because the legend of Santa has been around for centuries, hence, parents have been lying to their children for centuries. With all of those souls potentially in danger due to the lying, wouldn’t the Church have taken a stance against Santa? Again, I really am just curious; I’m not trying to make anyone upset or anything.
I just feel that if there is no official stance, then everything we have all said is just our own theories/opinions, and they really don’t matter much except to us and those close to us.
Anyway, thanks in advance for anyone who can help with this question.
St. Augustine, however, took the opposite side, and wrote two short treatises to prove that it is never lawful to tell a lie. His doctrine on this point has generally been followed in the Western Church, and it has been defended as the common opinion by the Schoolmen and by modern divines.
It rests in the first place on Holy Scripture. In places almost innumerable Holy Scripture seems to condemn lying as absolutely and unreservedly as it condemns murder and fornication. Innocent III gives expression in one of his decretals to this interpretation, when he says that Holy Scripture forbids us to lie even to save a man’s life. If, then, we allow the lie of necessity, there seems to be no reason from the theological point of view for not allowing occasional murder and fornication when these crimes would procure great temporal advantage; the absolute character of the moral law will be undermined, it will be reduced to a matter of mere expediency.
The chief argument from reason which St. Thomas and other theologians have used to prove their doctrine is drawn from the nature of truth. Lying is opposed to the virtue of truth or veracity. Truth consists in a correspondence between the thing signified and the signification of it. Man has the power as a reasonable and social being of manifesting his thoughts to his fellow-men. Right order demands that in doing this he should be truthful. If the external manifestation is at variance with the inward thought, the result is a want of right order, a monstrosity in nature, a machine which is out of gear, whose parts do not work together harmoniously.
newadvent.org/cathen/09469a.htm
No, I was going to be the first female astronaut to walk on Mars.I’m not certain of this, but if flying in a plane at a particular altitude could qualify a person as an astronaut, then you might take the next flight out with a captain willing to fly high.![]()
I don’t think your definition of lying is the same as St. Augustines. If you look at his teachings of Adam and Eve for example, I am sure he didn’t attempt to tell children his point of view of Adam and Eve. It would have been nearly impossible for them to comprehend.I don’t think there is an official Church position on Santa Claus, any more than there is on the Tooth Fairy. But the following information from the Catholic Encyclopedia on lying is instructive:
You are beginning to make yourself look foolish on quite a few counts. Michelle Arnold outlined the wholse Santa Claus thing beautifully. She’s right; you are wrong and getting yourself in a mighty tangle in the process of being pig headed.CA apologists are not always right. This is a good example.
No, it’s called analogy.This is nothing but a rationalization.
Please do yourself a favour and look up the dictionary meanings of “Myth” and “Truth”. Then come back here and tell us that myths involving truths are true. C’mon, own it.There is no “myth-making” exception to dishonesty. Trying to pass myths off as truths is lying.
Disparaging a well known and respected Catholic apologist is not only insulting, it reeks of hubris on your part.You should note that Ms. Arnould also artfully dodges directly addressing the Catechism on lying.
My definition of lying is taken directly from the Catechism.I don’t think your definition of lying is the same as St. Augustines. If you look at his teachings of Adam and Eve for example, I am sure he didn’t attempt to tell children his point of view of Adam and Eve. It would have been nearly impossible for them to comprehend.
Myths are fiction. Truth is truth. It’s a very simple distinction.You are beginning to make yourself look foolish on quite a few counts. Michelle Arnold outlined the wholse Santa Claus thing beautifully. She’s right; you are wrong and getting yourself in a mighty tangle in the process of being pig headed.
No, it’s called analogy. Please do yourself a favour and look up the dictionary meanings of “Myth” and “Truth”. Then come back here and tell us that myths involving truths are true. C’mon, own it.
So then St. Augustine would be a hypocrite? And anybody who tells their children the story of Adam and Eve as literally and historically accurate would also be lying. Oh dear… do you think Jesus was lying when he told the parables… He never stated that they weren’t true!My definition of lying is taken directly from the Catechism.
As I said, CA apologists are not always right. This is one such instance.Disparaging a well known and respected Catholic apologist is not only insulting, it reeks of hubris on your part.
I understand that this is a complex subject, so perhaps you don’t understand the subtle nuances at play.So then St. Augustine would be a hypocrite? And anybody who tells their children the story of Adam and Eve as literally and historically accurate would also be lying. Oh dear… do you think Jesus was lying when he told the parables… He never stated that they weren’t true!
Fact?As I said, CA apologists are not always right. This is one such instance.