Some points from Schindler’s article:
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he cites a number of intemperate and very immodest expressions used by West, then he states: “I offer these examples not merely because they are vulgar and in bad taste, not to mention sometimes bordering on the just plain silly, but because they indicate a disordered approach to human sexuality.”
he then goes on to raise a number of serious theological objections to the substance of West’s work: “First, West misconstrues the meaning of concupiscence, stressing purity of intention one-sidedly when talking about problems of lust.”
his next criticism is also a fundamental problem with West’s work, that West “conceives love in a reductive bodily-sexual sense, then reads the Christian mysteries as though they were somehow ever-greater and more perfect realizations of what he emphasizes as key in our own experience, namely, sex.” In other words, West exalts sexuality to be not only equal to spirituality, but as if it were the key to unlocking spirituality: “But sex is not even the most important part of human love, let alone the key to the Christian mysteries–the Eucharist, for example. Missing in West’s work is an adequate idea of the radical discontinuity (maior dissimilitudo ) between the divine love revealed by God–and indeed the (supernatural) love to which we are called–and sexual love or intercourse.”
From what I’ve read of West’s work, Schindler’s criticism is accurate and insightful. West has a tendency to spiritualize sex as if the Sacrament of Matrimony were the Sacrament of Sex; the whole becomes subject to the part.
Schindler then goes on two make two points: that West " has no discernible sense of the difference between what might be a feminine as distinct from masculine sense of unveiling." In other words, his work does not contain the distinction in Genesis, where Adam is created from the earth, and Eve is created from the side of Adam; where Eve is the helper to Adam; where the husband is the head of his wife (which then affects the sexual dimention of the marital relationship). He also criticizes West for lacking a sense of shame in the sense of modesty (verecundia), in that West sees shame as only a disorder to be entirely eliminated, with the effect that the husband and wife have no modesty between themselves.
Most disturbingly, when anyone criticizes or objects to these excesses and this thorough immodesty, “West makes them feel a sense of guilt, of resistance to the Holy Spirit, if they experience uneasiness about what he is saying.”
Schindler’s criticism are valid theological points. Whereas, the response from Janet Smith is basically rhetorical, and does not really address any of these criticisms with a substantial theological argument.