Again, I contend that LOVE has to be the dominant value which our society is based. This is the basic teaching of the Bible. God is LOVE!
That depends upon what you mean by “LOVE.” If you mean sunshine and lollipops and getting everything your little heart desires, then it might be true that such is the “dominant value” upon which our current society is based (I.e., entitlement,) but that doesn’t define God.
Love means willing what is “the good” (I.e., the Summum Bonum) for the other. That doesn’t mean all other goods are not willed for the other, but it does mean a defined sense of proportionality exists such that when goods conflict we are capable of prioritizing them and weighing someone’s lesser good against another’s higher good to arbitrate between them. If you simply collapse all goods into a heap of goods and let everyone “have at 'em” it is, I suppose, possible to stand back and repeat “God is LOVE,” but that doesn’t do much to resolve real world issues.
Would you accept that killing, if necessary, is permissible in cases of self-defense or to protect the innocent? Killing one person (a perpetrator) is therefore compatible with loving another person (potential victim.) LOVE for the innocent in those cases demands that we might even have to kill to abide by our LOVE for them.
If not, then how is merely standing by or acting ineffectually while an innocent person, or yourself, are killed in front of your eyes, also NOT being loving with respect to those who are about to be killed by a murderer? Doesn’t permitting the murder of an innocent person to occur in front of you without making a sufficient attempt to stop it, when you can, amount to being an accessory by showing partiality for love of the murderer over love of the victim?
It seems to me that “Life” choices are a bit messy and aren’t amenable to simple answers that cover all situations, and exceptions to universal rules can always arise. Being ideologically “pure” isn’t always possible. Sometimes how far we are willing to go to love another is more morally telling than how unwilling we are to be involved justified by defending our own ideological purity or moral virtue-signaling.
Are you certain that your apparent “LOVE” isn’t merely a front for apathy or cowardice? That is a serious question by the way. I am not merely trying to make a polemical point. From my experience, it is far easier to be cowardly, apathetic and rationalize inaction – by developing and rationally justifying simple rules to cover all instances – than it is to show real love and courage in dangerous situations.