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ThinkingSapien
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Love isn’t necessarily a motivation for marriage. It may be a motivation for marriage. But there are other motivations (status, sex, producing children, living up to expectations of the ones community, loneliness, fear, desire for physical or financial security, encouragement from others, cultural conformance so on). I think your marriage example could be used to illustrate that people are capable of taking risk. But I’m afraid it doesn’t illustrate (at least to me) some one having conviction by volition.That’s what I’m saying, TS. There are a zillion folks, atheists included, who leap into marriage with lots of less evidence for any long lasting love than they demand for the evidence for God.
Why is there such a peculiar double standard?
This looks more like a description of “hope” than “conviction.” Some are not convinced that this is going to be the case but hope it is and may try to mitigate other possible outcomes through various practices, such a prenuptial agreements, not sharing accounts, so on if he or she feels that there are assets to be loss if things don’t go so well. Though some one approaching the situation with little assets may only stand to gain and not find cause to engage in any protective measures at all.You (a generalized “you” here) will take a leap in the dark with a “conviction” that you will remain committed to another person for the duration of your life, with not any empirical evidence, lab-tested demonstrable evidence for love…yet you demand exquisitely higher evidence for the existence of God.
I’ll take your word for this.In fact, that atheists marry, contrary to the evidence that their marriage is going to fail 46% of the time, gives one pause about how much stock they actually put into “evidence”.