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In other words, although it is possible that a seder might be objectionable to a Catholic, that is not something one can automatically assume to be so.I don’t recall there being anything in the traditional Hagaddah that is anti-Catholic. The prayers are all psalms. And, as you know, it focuses on the story of Exodus. There are messiah oriented haggadot that are geared toward messianic Jews.
Compare and contrast this with a Jew participating at Mass. Of course it would be out of bounds for a Jew to conduct a pseudo-Mass, for about every reason one could think of. If invited to a nuptial Mass, a Jew might attend and observe, simply to be at the wedding, or some Jews might find that their sense of integrity as a Jew wouldn’t allow that, and they’d just attend the reception. Or a Jew might attend Mass if invited, but not participate, simply in order to learn about Catholics and Catholicism. Some Jews would be OK with that, others might not. It would not be appropriate, though, for a Jew to receive Holy Communion, or for a Catholic to invite them to Mass and not explain that while Mass is open to the attendance of all people of good will, receiving communion is not. Nevertheless, since it is OK with us for non-Catholics to attend and to choose whether to pray with us or sit and stand when we do, certainly a non-Catholic could come to Mass and follow his or her conscience about whether to participate at a level that we’re OK with.
It has to do with a) be respectful enough not to conduct approximations of the religious observances of other faiths and b) when hosting, being willing to explain the ritual and its implied meanings, so that the outside person can make an informed and respectful decision, and for the host to be accomodating to the prospective guest’s sense of integrity, as a part of hospitality.