From what you say, it does indeed sound like this woman is unlikely to be working in a capacity where her opinion on abortion is relevant.
I agree.
I guess I tend to expect a high degree of intellectual honesty. I would expect somebody who is a practising Catholic, let alone somebody who has a role of leadership in her parish, to assent to all the teachings of the Catholic Church.
I agree! We can dissent privately, hopefully on small things.
Unfortunately it is not my experience, even for people in leadership. I don’t think that the people in Church who hire someone, volunteer or with a pay job will ask many questions.
I think the main reason is that there is still few youngs people who stay and few people who is willing to help. So they take without any asking. Another reason may be fear of asking indiscreet questions. Authoritarism in the Catholic Church at the local level is something that is gone a long time ago, at least where I lived. It exists more in the traditionalist communities where the priests tend to lecture more the parishioners and give their opinion without shame.
All that in my experience. Places where the Church is stronger or very different may be very different.
For eg, as a person been employed in a Catholic school, working with students, all I was ask in my interview was if I had gone to Catholic school myself, and adding it will not made a difference anyway. In my work contract it is just specified that I engage myself to respect the character of the school (that’s mean that it is a Catholic school). But I was not even ask to read it before I was ask to sign it.
Later, when I engage as a volunteer in the school ministry nothing was asked. Same with others collegues who propose themselves. Some said they are not believers- it was not perceived as a problem nor by the priest nor the direction. One lived “in sin”. It was “ministry”, not religious lessons, for teenagers. But every student who want can freely come, the muslin as the unbeliever.
When I was a teenager, a youth animator try to convince us, 16 years old girls that to have sex before marriage is something good and we should accept it. If we refuse, we wil have to accept that we will go from break up from break up because men will not accept it, and may end in a bad marriage with a crisis in the 40’s. She also said that many married catholic men probably go to see prostitutes because of the teachings that burden the conjugal life.
We had also a debate on abortion where the final conclusion made by an animator is that we should think a lot before making a choice in any direction. And to go to PP to help us. Of course, th priest didn’t agree, but couldn’t impose his views;
Not to mention that when I was 17 I left the church during the homily because the priest was making a critic (more or less openly) on the Church teaching on the topic of sexuality, and said the Church should be closer to live of people. I did church shopping for a decade after that.
I can continue the list, for eg with cohabiting people …