pilgrim,
Promising to remain celibate, and actually living celibate, are two very different things. As a heterosexual man I can honestly state that it would provide a very strong challenge to be living with women and remain celibate. Whereas there would no additional challenge to live with other heterosexual men. I am attracted to women, so having women to live with would be a distinct distraction and temptation over time…since I am not the least bit attracted to men, there would be no distraction or temptation over time if I happened to live with other men.
Apply that to homosexuals, who are onbviously attracted to men.
Why would we want to do that to anyone?