A few questions
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This matter of interfaith marriage confuses me. So...
(1) If a baptized Catholic who joins a Protestant church as a young adult, then marries a Protestant - does this mean that her marriage is illegitimate in the eyes of the church? Therefore, their children are illegitimate, etc.? I know a minister whose wife was a former Catholic and they occassionaly have joked that 'they are living in sin' in the eyes of the Catholic Church? True or false?
Illegitamacy is a purely civil term, and I believe historically had to do with property rights.
The church doesn’t use the term and no children are considered “illegitiment.”
I believe the marriage would be invalid because the wife did not get a dispensation.
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(2) If a Catholic who was baptized Catholic as an infant marries a Protestant in a Protestant ceremony and they are divorced, does that first marriage count in the eyes of the church? In other words, does the person who was baptized Catholic have to get an annulment before remarrying in the Catholic Church? If not, what if anything is required before the Catholic can remarry? What if she remarries another Protestant?
I believe the first marriage was invalid due to lack of form (married outside of the Church without dispensation). From what I understand, these are easy to obtain. If he/she marries another Protestant, they need to do it properly.
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(3) What are the rules these days re best men and maids of honor? Do either or both have to be Catholic for a priest to officiate?
I don’t think there are any rules as these are generally unnecessary for contracting the sacrament.
Under most circumstances, all that’s required, besides the couple, is two witnesses and a deacon or priest. In rare circumstances where the priest/deacon is not regularly available, that requirement is dropped. This is because the sacrament is between the two people.
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(4) If a married couple practice artificial birth control and refuse to stop, even though warned that they must by a priest at confession, are they automatically excommunicated and should not go forward to receive communion at Sunday mass?
Not excommunicated - I believe there’s only certian things that warrant excommunication. The right term is they are living in mortal sin. I believe Excommunication is just an extention of that (i.e. you had an abortion)
Since they are in mortal sin they should not recieve communion.
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(5) What if a young Catholic couple are co-habiting, and continue in that relationship for years? Are they automatically excommunicated and therefore should not go forward to receive communion?
Same answer as #4.
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(6) I have attended weddings in Protestant churches. Three questions. (a) A priest co-officiated in two of them. Is that in accordance with canon law? (b) Hymns were sung and the guests were invited to participate verbally in some of the liturgy.Was it a sin for a Catholics to sing or respond within the ritual? (c) Communion was made available to those who wished to receive it. "Open communion" as one pastor stated it. "All Christians welcome." Some Catholics present participated. Was this is serious sin to confess or simply a mistake on their part?
(a) I don’t know the answer to this.
(b) I think hyms were fine but some of the prayers/creeds are a no no
(c) It is grave matter to recieve communion at a non-Catholic church. If someone did not know this, then it would not be a mortal sin, therefore not worth confessing.