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Sarabande
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Lol! Yes, modesty is looked at differently in Italy… in a lot of Europe, actually. I also lived and studied in Salzburg. At the beach by their lakes, it was not unusual to see woman topless and children swimming and running around completely naked. No one gave a second look. The last time I was in Italy (about three years ago), it is also not unusual to see mothers nursing completely open. They did not use covers. No one blinked or stared. It was just normal. It was also normal to be out at 11:00/12:00 at night and see entire families with young children and babies wandering the streets, having dinner (restaurants open late and stay open very late) and enjoying the summer nights. They have those old-fashioned looking carriages where the babies will just sleep while they are out and about. Over here in the U.S. if you saw people doing that, you’d think they were bad parents. Over there, it seemed to be the norm and considered fine.I appreciate your perspective, since you have lived in Italy. It seems a very modern culture, compared to what I thought it was. Glad that you wear a modest swimsuit (so do I when I swim), but the thought of 70+ women at the beach in Italy wearing string bikinis is a little scary..
None of my grandmothers were like that either, but one was Irish and other was much older by that point, so I don’t know what she was like in her 50s. I do have a beautiful… no gorgeous… and wonderful aunt in her 50s, though. She is charismatic, in incredible shape, spiritual, devout Catholic, married to an Italian (and has kind of taken on some of the mannerisms that Italians have). She’s not quirky as the way the actress was acting, but she could have easily taken her place. One question, did you see the English version or the Italian version? I never saw the English version, so I don’t know if there was something lost in translation?The woman in the video is old enough to be a grandmother. As a cultural aside, I spent a lot of time with my own grandmothers, and they sure didn’t dress and act like that. Okay, one was raised as a Quaker, but still. For all I know, the woman in the video is a devout Catholic, and she was only doing what she was told by the producers of the video. But she wasn’t representing Catholicism in an appropriate manner. Just my opinion…
Yes. You are right. When I think about it, it’s very difficult to “escape” Catholicism, especially in the very older sections of Italian towns/cities. It seeps Catholicism… at least culturally from the buildings and the paintings and frescos on the outer walls. It would be a sin to cover all of those old frescos up. On a side note, I was so excited when I found out that a very old, medieval church I performed in which was deconsecrated at the time, was just reconsecrated and now used for mass again. That just filled my heart. I hadn’t been in that town for 8 years when I found out.It’s good to know, though, that there are still Catholic elements in the culture there, such as what you mentioned about the pictures in the school. We don’t really have that here in the U.S., unfortunately.