Not necessarily! I’m a guy and I find that the whole short hair = boyish logic doesn’t even add up half the time.
Really? Princess Diana had short hair, I can give the names of a number of ‘gorgeous’ women with short hair. However, thats all a matter of taste and preference based on various factors. Hair, looks, make up or no make up etc has no bearing on what a person is and is of no relevance in the bigger scheme of things.
I don’t really see why anyone’d wig out about this. (Get it? Wig, because – nevermind).
Morena Baccarin will be beautiful no matter what she does with her hair, though! She’s just lucky that way.
In fairness, you asked for our opinion.
Exactly. Opinion was requested and given. Now Op is calling foul. Sheesh!In fairness, you asked for our opinion.
No I did not… I asked about morality not whether people think it is unattractive. I have been getting that for years…I have had short hair since I was seven and men always put me down for it. Plus it is enough to say that you prefer long hair. If I see a guy with long hair for instance, I wouldn’t say I like short hair on men, long hair is unattractive… I made clear earlier in the post I had short hair… so it is the same sort of situation. I think Debra and Catholic90 got the question, but noone else seemed to. The whole reason why I mentioned some Christian groups who think women should not cut their hair.In fairness, you asked for our opinion.
Color is a BIG problem because hair die is so toxic. Just google it. You’ll see.Hair is just hair. People, men and women, should be able to wear it how THEY like it. Period.
When my oldest son started to grow his hair long in 8th grade, people kept asking me when I was going to “make” him get it cut. I would always tell them it was up to my son. It was HIS hair, and if he liked it, then I was OK with it. My only stipulation was that he kept it washed and clean. He kept it pretty long until his senior year of high school, then cut it.
My middle son (18 years) has hair longer than I do (mid shoulder length). He is very particular about his hair. He has one stylist that he sees to get it thinned and trimmed every few months, and he has a complete hair regiment he goes through every day. He gets sooo many complements on his hair, ironically enough, mostly from older women! He has worn it long since he was about 13.
My hair must be long enough to pull into a pony tail or short enough that it does not get in my eyes. No in between!
As for color - again, if the wearer likes it, go for it! It is JUST HAIR!
JMHO.
That’s just mean. I have short hair, I have since I was a little kid, I just like it better that way.
Well when you tell a woman that anything on her is unattractive, it is going to hurt her feelings. No woman likes to hear that. Plus I am talking about the morality not the aesthetic of short hair.
If you read carefully I was not asking about what you guys thought about the aesthetic of short hair… I was asking about the morality.
). I don’t think it’s very accurate to say that all men prefer long hair; certainly, there are some men who prefer short hair. But I don’t see why what men prefer should guide my choices of hair length… If someone loved me while my hair was long, I assume they would continue to love me after a haircut (keeping all other things like personality, constant).