nannygirl:
You’re sorry? This is your empathetic best?
I have one child with the aforementioned man. The child is now nearly 22 years old. Immediately after her birth, her father deliberately retreated into a self-imposed exile where he could not be reached. I did my level best to involve him to the extent that the court outlined. He failed time and again to step up to the plate.
Your attitude is exactly reflective of the aloof self-absorption facing single and divorced mothers (and some single fathers as well) on a daily basis. The embryo isn’t a blob, it’s God’s highest work. The fetus isn’t a development of cells, it’s a baby, with feeling and perception, even at 4 weeks, I’ve read. Precious. Precious. Precious.
Until it arrives.
I wanted to see who on this forum would adopt a baby saved from abortion, and those who responded in the affirmative did so with gladness and generosity. Those who did so in the negative never said they would not adopt, they just told me my question was stupid and unscientific. It’s clear to me that there is no unity among devout Catholics regarding how to help the pregnant woman in crisis, how to transition her into motherhood, how to educate her regarding her legal rights, how to help her to put food on her table and a shelter over their heads. The unborn is a gift from God; when the baby gets here, it’s, “Hey, chick, you’re on your own. You’re the one who got knocked up, not me.”
If you ever want the abortion laws reduced or repealed, you might put a little shoulder into developing an idea that works.
Caesar517 and mapleoak:
Change the text to suit yourselves all you want. We still don’t, and won’t, live in a perfect world.
marietta
This is the main quote that I was ref. in my comment Post #116, item # 5!

and in that same #5 I go on to counter Marietta’s assertion “when the baby gets here, it’s, 'Hey, chick, you’re on your own.” (see above).
I don’t question that you’ve had a bad experience; I am saying your quote *implies *devout Catholics *in general *don’t care or help just because there’s not
perfect unity, and I don’t accept that as an established fact. My experience would prove the opposite: Catholics care and provide tangible, practical help.
As for clarifying my point # 2, it’s a matter of logic and deduction. If I say I believe apples should be red. It’s not logical to deduce that I also mean any fruit that isn’t an apple should not be red!

Does that help?
Also, this way that I’m writing at the moment, is not at all how I normally talk! I’m trying my hardest to be very clear, and as non-offensive, non-reactionary as possible, but in doing so,I’m also restraining nearly all emotion, and I think that makes me “sound” much “colder” than I really am!
One reason I’ve stuck w/ this thread so long is because I care not only about the topic but also about the people I’m getting a little acquainted w/ as we discuss. Which I think again demonstrates another level or sphere of caring…
It’s quite evident that most of the people in this discussion are already Pro-Life and against “Pro-Choice” politics, so it’s not as though we’re going to convert each other’s thinking. A couple of posters’ positions are slightly more ambiguous to me, but they haven’t made strong enough arguments one way or another for me to notice them as much as one particular poster!
Marietta, is holding her own on a position that is clearly Pro-Choice, but beyond that it’s hard for me to tell why she’s/you’re arguing so much; it looks more like she/you tend to **agree w/ **Pro-Lifers about all the surrounding care that needs to be given men, women, and babies who are voluntary or involuntary participants of an unwanted pregnancy.
And by now it seems like the discussion has really become as much about Marietta’s experience as it is about the original topic. And because I’m not comfortable w/ that*, I want to quit my participation is this thread. But before I do,
I repeat my offer of friendship via email.
*“that” meaning I think we should keep topical threads on topic, and anything that becomes so pointedly personal is better served via email.
so, Marietta! email me!
Anyone else may also!
Christ’s Peace to everyone!