P
pathia
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This place is anonymous. You don’t really know who I am. I am just a bunch of words on your screen. Work is an entirely different animal. I don’t discuss the issues I discuss here until I’ve known someone for MONTHS. Do you know how hard it is to talk to someone about these issues in an interview? It botches the entire thing, I get nervous, I start stammering, I start to have flashbacks and nervous breakdowns. I break out in hives for goodness sakes, on my face no less.We have an old saying in the Infantry, “If it’s stupid and it works – it isn’t stupid.”
I think if you are applying for a job, and know from experience that when your condition is known it will cause problems, it only makes sense to get it out into the open. After all, you discuss your condition with people you’ve never met (like me) don’t you?
So why not lay it out for them – the worst they can do is not hire you. But if they do hire you, they are not likely to fire you later for something you told them upfront, are they?
It might be possible for some people, but my mind just can’t take it, I lock up, break down and inevitably lose the interview for other reasons, because I make myself look like a psychotic freak.