One can ask the same about the priest in the parish couldnāt they?
Here just SOME of my responsibilities:
-play at least 2 masses a week for the grade school
-teach the students the songs they will sing at mass:4 classes every other week
-Once a month liturgy committee meeting
-Once a week staff meeting
-Music planning committee meetings
-3 Sunday morning masses, and fill in for the saturday night crew when they canāt make it
-2 rehearsals a week with main groups.
-Book extra musicians for holidays such as Christmas and easter
-Research music for Christmas program, order, arrange
-copies of music
-transcribe music, arrange music, learn the music writing software,
-Make songsheets for various masses
-Play for the youth retreats, adoration and youth group nights
ābe available for ANYTHING that pops up such as Living Rosary, adoration and mass to pray for elections, holy innocents mass, Thanksgiving mass,
āwalk throughs of big liturgies like Holy Thursday and Easter vigil
-Extra rehearsals for big liturgies
-multiple holy day masses, and when these happen on a saturday, sometimes its an EIGHT MASS WEEKEND!!! with only 4 hours sleep in between Midnight mass and the first one the next morning.
Thatās a start. and nowhere near even half of what I do.

And soooooo much more, as you say. My one friend who was a MD at a major parish would often put in 50+ hours a week and hardly ever had a weekend off to be with family. I had a parttime position directing a childrenās voice choir and handbell choir. I spent at least 15-20 hrs a week preparing, researching music and practice with the children. You just donāt show up at the time of mass and expect it all to come together. And then talk about volunteers. My 30+ choir would be there for the school masses during the week, but because itās volunteer you could expect less than half of the members to show up at mass because their parents didnāt feel like going to mass. So, you had to be prepared to do something different at the last minute in case not enough kids showed up. For an adult choir, in my experience when I had the time to volunteer for a choir, most choristers didnāt read music. I was one of the few who could read music. So, the music directors would spend A LOT of time teaching them the music by rote. At a couple of those parishes we did polyphony and other choral motets as well as chant. They arenāt easy and a well-trained music director is essential to be able to teach this music correctly to non-musician singers. Then you have the unreliability of volunteers not showing up for practice or at mass, which occur more often than what people would think⦠according to many of my colleagues who direct volunteer choirs and cantors at churches. Iāve often been called up at the last minute to fill in for a volunteer cantor who just decided to take the Saturday or Sunday off.
I think one of the problems is that many non-musicians who arenāt involved with any kind of music ministry, really donāt know the work and hours that goes into being a musician or being involved in music ministry. Of course, there are parishes which canāt afford to pay their musicians and that is understandable. But if a parish values music for their liturgies and have the financial means, they will find a way to pay for high quality musicians and music directors. For the parishes I work at, they do value well-trained instrumentalists and singers and want to pay them. The music directors get a salary and the other instrumentalists and cantors are paid a stipend per mass that they play/cantor.
For my work as a trained singer, I put in *at least *15 hours a week, if not more (depending on the time I have in between caring for my kids) in vocal practice, learning and studying new music and keeping up the music I already know. That doesnāt include the actual masses cantored and rehearsal before the mass or performances/rehearsals at the theater or other venues. I spend at least $150 per vocal lesson every couple of weeks. I make much less than that a mass, so I donāt cantor for mass to pay for my lessons. But my lessons help me give the best of my gift. My weekends are split up and donāt have that much time to spend with my family either because of multiple masses/weddings or my other secular music jobs. I had three weekends off this summer because most people donāt want to spend their entire weekends at a church when they can be somewhere else. At Christmas I donāt spend much time with my family as I am constantly at mass and rehearsals. I get about 4 hours of sleep and then up again for Christmas morning masses. Easter is the same. Rehearsals are usually not paid, which I fully accept and will give of my time for that. I donāt mention these things because Iām complaining, but to show some of the time, money and sacrifice it takes to be a church musician. That is the nature of the beast when you become a professional musician and one you accept.
Another problem is that working as a musician is often not āvaluedā in terms of a ālegitimateā occupation. For some people, because it is something enjoyed, itās not a real job, even when a person is making a good living at it. So, when they see that a trained musician is being paid to work at a church, they think itās a bad thing. To them, itās not as legitimate as being a businessman, a doctor, a teacher, etc. Itās a waste of money to them.
In regards to not giving of oneself completely to God if one is paid, that is absolutely incorrect for many musicians, paid or not. Yes, there are musicians who arenāt spiritual or religious, but I would say many of the musicians I work with at churches are often prayerful people, whether or not we agree with whatās appropriate for liturgical music. For myself, whenever I sing, I am fully giving myself to God, praising Him to my utmost. Every piece of music I sing, whether itās at a secular event or at mass, is a prayer to God for me. It is a form of spiritual ecstasy I receive no where else except for the intense love I have my husband and children. So, to say that because a musician is being paid he/she canāt possibly be praising and praying to God just seems absurd and ridiculous in my mind.
Anyway, those are my thoughts. Maybe one day, when I donāt have to make a living where the little bit I make from my church work is a matter of being able to make our mortgage payment and donāt need those extra dollars to pay for diapers and such, I could volunteer my work all the time (sometimes I do now), but I see nothing wrong with paying trained musicians for mass and all the other responsibilities required when working as a musician/music director at a parish.