Should I go to confession?

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I’m a Protestant, but am studying the Catholic Church and (gradually) becoming aware and accepting of her doctrines. I accept all her teaching on sin, penance and absolution, and know that I have committed serious mortal sin. What should I do? Can?should i go to confession. I would love to.
 
I’m a Protestant, but am studying the Catholic Church and (gradually) becoming aware and accepting of her doctrines. I accept all her teaching on sin, penance and absolution, and know that I have committed serious mortal sin. What should I do? Can?should i go to confession. I would love to.
Until you have professed your faith and have been accepted into the Church, the Sacraments are not available to you. Until such time you are limited to a sincere act of contrition.
 
I’m a Protestant, but am studying the Catholic Church and (gradually) becoming aware and accepting of her doctrines. I accept all her teaching on sin, penance and absolution, and know that I have committed serious mortal sin. What should I do? Can?should i go to confession. I would love to.
Yes, you should go to confession - in due time. One must be Catholic to receive the sacrament of reconciliation. Keep investigating the Catholic Church.
 
Yes, you should go to confession - in due time. One must be Catholic to receive the sacrament of reconciliation. Keep investigating the Catholic Church.
Not just keep investigating the church, JOIN THE RCIA CLASS ASAP!!!

you don’t HAVE to join the catholic church immediately following the class, but it should teach you a lot of what you want to know and, if you so choose, during the course you may participate in your first Holy Communion.

Welcome home and God bless.
 
I’m a Protestant, but am studying the Catholic Church and (gradually) becoming aware and accepting of her doctrines. I accept all her teaching on sin, penance and absolution, and know that I have committed serious mortal sin. What should I do? Can?should i go to confession. I would love to.
The desire for Confession is one of the greatest spiritual gifts the Holy Spirit can offer you. You are truly blessed!

You may “go to confession” any time. BUT: you may not receive the Sacrament of Confession and absolution until those given the care of your formation deem that you are well catechized and properly disposed: i.e., your head and your heart are both in the right place. For example, a person coming into the Church may not receive the Sacraments if he has an irregular marriage.

You should definitely present yourself to a priest, who can link you up with the RCIA people in your parish.

God bless you!
 
I’m a Protestant, but am studying the Catholic Church and (gradually) becoming aware and accepting of her doctrines. I accept all
her teaching on sin, penance and absolution, and know that I have committed serious mortal sin. What should I do? Can?should i go to confession. I would love to.
Until you have professed your faith and have been accepted into the Church, the Sacraments are not available to you. Until such time you are limited to a sincere act of contrition.
Yes, you should go to confession - in due time. One must be Catholic to receive the sacrament of reconciliation. Keep investigating the Catholic Church.
Guys, this is not actually true. It is normative, however take a look at this excerpt from John Paul the Great’s encyclical Ecclesia de Eucharistia.
  1. While it is never legitimate to concelebrate in the absence of full communion, the same is not true with respect to the administration of the Eucharist under special circumstances, to individual persons belonging to Churches or Ecclesial Communities not in full communion with the Catholic Church. In this case, in fact, the intention is to meet a grave spiritual need for the eternal salvation of an individual believer, not to bring about an intercommunion which remains impossible until the visible bonds of ecclesial communion are fully re-established.
This was the approach taken by the Second Vatican Council when it gave guidelines for responding to Eastern Christians separated in good faith from the Catholic Church, who spontaneously ask to receive the Eucharist from a Catholic minister and are properly disposed.95 This approach was then ratified by both Codes, which also consider – with necessary modifications – the case of other non-Eastern Christians who are not in full communion with the Catholic Church.96
46. In my Encyclical Ut Unum Sint I expressed my own appreciation of these norms, which make it possible to provide for the salvation of souls with proper discernment: “It is a source of joy to note that Catholic ministers are able, in certain particular cases, to administer the sacraments of the Eucharist, Penance and Anointing of the Sick to Christians who are not in full communion with the Catholic Church but who greatly desire to receive these sacraments, freely request them and manifest the faith which the Catholic Church professes with regard to these sacraments. Conversely, in specific cases and in particular circumstances, Catholics too can request these same sacraments from ministers of Churches in which these sacraments are valid”.97
These conditions, from which no dispensation can be given, must be carefully respected, even though they deal with specific individual cases, because the denial of one or more truths of the faith regarding these sacraments and, among these, the truth regarding the need of the ministerial priesthood for their validity, renders the person asking improperly disposed to legitimately receiving them. And the opposite is also true: Catholics may not receive communion in those communities which lack a valid sacrament of Orders.98

The faithful observance of the body of norms established in this area 99 is a manifestation and, at the same time, a guarantee of our love for Jesus Christ in the Blessed Sacrament, for our brothers and sisters of different Christian confessions – who have a right to our witness to the truth – and for the cause itself of the promotion of unity. Based upon this document,it appears that GtG might be wise to approach the priest at his local parish to ask if it is possible, since he may well be properly disposed.

That is not for us to discern though. That belongs to the priest he talks to.

GtG, go for it! It cannot hurt to ask, and RCIA classes are starting soon.
The peace of the Lord be always with you.
 
That is not for us to discern though. That belongs to the priest he talks to.

GtG, go for it! It cannot hurt to ask, and RCIA classes are starting soon.
The peace of the Lord be always with you.
Very true. And even if the priest decides that the OP is not properly disposed He (she) can still confess to the priest, but will be unable to be granted absolution according to the Sacrament.
 
I queried a CA apologist to insure that I was right and was referred to this thread in AAA.

Still, it is very much worth calling and making that appointment with the priest.

I would.
 
Thanks for this, CM. I have known priests to accept non-Catholics into Confession. Now whether they get the full Absolution or not, neither I nor anyone on the planet will ever know because the Confessional is sealed.

I agree that, if someone feels a powerful pull toward Confession, then by all means run – do not walk – run to the nearest priest.

You have an option:

You can go into the Confession booth or say your Confession face to face with the priest. Sometimes the booth has a line-up outside and that may or may not be offputting to you. Also expect some trepidation beforehand.

I always tremble before I make my Confession. I am after all at the Mercy of the Almighty and indeed in His Awesome Presence and Searching Love when I come full of fear and trembling to Him to beg forgiveness.

But afterward, it rocks! Never so peaceful as afterwards! I highly recommend it!

[SIGN]Yay, Confession![/SIGN]

A second point I would like to make is how do we take care of our non-Catholic friends in special circumstances who place themselves in our path? This is one reason I posted this thread:

Catholics and Protestants: How do you define Pastoral Care?

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Yes, you should go to confession - in due time. One must be Catholic to receive the sacrament of reconciliation. Keep investigating the Catholic Church.
Being that he isn’t formally Catholic, he can not receive absolution, therefore can’t receive the sacrament of confession. He can go to a priest and tell the priest what he has done (which IS a very good idea) and the priest will give him (hopefully) good advice but the priest can NOT absolve him of his sins, therefore he can’t receive the sacrament of confession.
 
I’m a Protestant, but am studying the Catholic Church and (gradually) becoming aware and accepting of her doctrines. I accept all her teaching on sin, penance and absolution, and know that I have committed serious mortal sin. What should I do? Can?should i go to confession. I would love to.
Being that you areen’t yet formally Catholic, you can not receive absolution, therefore can’t receive the sacrament of confession. You can go to a priest and tell him what sins you’ve committed (which IS a very good idea) and the priest will give you(hopefully) good advice but the priest can NOT absolve you of your sins.
 
some really great replies here - much appreciated. I was v interested to read the material posted by ChurchMilitant. Bishopite - your answer (and some others) seems to contradict the late Pope, who seems to be suggesting that absolution can be granted to non-Catholics. I’m British and well remember the press attention when JPII gave Holy Communion to out (ex) Prime Minister, Tony Blair. So maybe the sacraments can be administered to ‘separated brethren’…:confused:
 
some really great replies here - much appreciated. I was v interested to read the material posted by ChurchMilitant. Bishopite - your answer (and some others) seems to contradict the late Pope, who seems to be suggesting that absolution can be granted to non-Catholics. I’m British and well remember the press attention when JPII gave Holy Communion to out (ex) Prime Minister, Tony Blair. So maybe the sacraments can be administered to ‘separated brethren’…:confused:
I was under the impression that Mr. Blair is Catholic. :confused:

Still, I suggest that the important issue is that you do two things right away.
  1. Contact your priest.
  2. Get into the RCIA program.
 
Yes, and if you feel that the RCIA program will pressure you, then just relax. They will not. In fact they will regularly interview to see if you are ready to make the decision to cross the Tiber. They are not into forcing or tricking you. You can have as much time as you want. Years if necessary. Think of all the coffee and donuts that adds up to!
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RCIA also isn’t necessary for an already-baptized Protestant. Your’e already a Christian: you just need to make a profession of the Catholic faith.

Of course, finding a priest who understands that and doesn’t automatically lump Protestants with non-Christians may be hard, from what I understand.

Jeremy
 
RCIA also isn’t necessary for an already-baptized Protestant. Your’e already a Christian: you just need to make a profession of the Catholic faith.
I read on this website that many converts were glad that they went through RCIA - not only do they learn, but also share what they have already known. It is best to go through RCIA.

Bless you, GregorytheGreat and welcome to CAForums.:tiphat:
 
I’m a Protestant, but am studying the Catholic Church and (gradually) becoming aware and accepting of her doctrines. I accept all her teaching on sin, penance and absolution, and know that I have committed serious mortal sin. What should I do? Can?should i go to confession. I would love to.
Definitely go to confession. There is not a single thing wrong with doing it - no one who has posted has given a single reason why it would be better not to go rather than it would be to go under these imperfect circumstances. Not going accomplishes absolutely nothing - that much we know for sure.
Here’s a rule to live by: Don’t worry about doing the perfect thing in any situation requiring action, worry about doing nothing in that situation!
 
some really great replies here - much appreciated. I was v interested to read the material posted by ChurchMilitant. Bishopite - your answer (and some others) seems to contradict the late Pope, who seems to be suggesting that absolution can be granted to non-Catholics. I’m British and well remember the press attention when JPII gave Holy Communion to out (ex) Prime Minister, Tony Blair. So maybe the sacraments can be administered to ‘separated brethren’…:confused:
No that’s not actual. Only in certain rare cases as I’m aware that canon law allows non-Catholics to receive the sacraments like in the event of imminent and certain death, and in actuality they have to profess a belief in Catholic teaching which actually makes them formally Catholic anyway, so I still can’t see any way of a non-Catholic receiving the sacraments. I’ve heard the question possed many times on Catholic radio to canon laywers who have essentially said what I just wrote. You can go to confession but if you tell the priest that you are not a Catholic he can’t absolve you.
 
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