Should I pursue this or not?

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Should I just let this person that I met online go she is a single mother of 2 and she has 13 tattoos we met in october last year and she last talked to me on the fourth of december I texted her on the fifth and she replied with I’m NOT talking to anyone right now I’m in a bad mood. Is it just a nice way of saying not interested in a relationship with you? She just gave me her number out of the blue and we would text daily she asked me about my family and some personal questions so I asked her to meet and she said let me get through the holidays and when the year changes I’ll work on meeting you but as I said ghosted in december. CAF sorry for bringing this here.
 
She claims that she is in college but has no job and she supposedly went to school to be a pharmacy technician now she’s supposedly in college for medical billing and coding we met online and I told her. I wanted a relationship and she says she has trust issues and that love hurts.
 
Meet people in real life.

And, tattoos have nothing to do with a person’s “dateability”.
 
Either way it goes real life or online it will not solve the fact that they won’t look past my disability.
 
As a disabled woman, I would never have dated, let alone married, someone who “looked past my disability”. I want someone to love and appreciate me, all of me, body mind and soul.

Disability really has nothing to do with meeting and dating quality people. Your way of presenting yourself, your confidence and your integrity are what make the difference.

Look at Peter Dinklage. He is considered a “sex symbol”.

Work on understanding that your disability is part of what makes you you.

I’d suggest reading Matthew Kelly’s work (a solid Catholic) on being the best version of yourself.
 
My friend. It is January 20th. It has been over a month since you heard fron her. She informed you that she did not want a relationship. Perhaps the best thing she felt that could happen was to leave? She is supposedly a mother of 2 kids and going through school. That is tough.
I am sorry you were hurt and are having a tough time with your disability.
 
If she ever calls back which I doubt should I just say nice to see you still exist but I’m good?
 
@TheLittleLady what I mean by look past my disability is that its all people notice as in to say he is good for nothing.
 
You asked this in a previous thread.
I know you’re looking for a good mate, but she told you in no uncertain terms she’s not interested, so move on.
PLenty of nice women out there. Be patent, and trust what God really has in store for you.
 
Then why would you even consider talking to her again? Move on. She’s thrown out enough red flags that you should be running in the opposite direction.
 
John,

I have to agree with what everyone is suggesting to you. Don’t be desperate. I was for many years and married an abuser, dated two abusers etc. This woman is an abuser!
She never met you and called you a nobody???

YOU DON"T NEED THAT KIND OF TREATMENT!!!

You sound like a good, sensitive guy. Don’t set yourself up for kicks in the teeth! She’s NOT WORTH YOUR TIME! Be patient and let God handle your relationship issues. Father knows best, right?
 
It never fails everyone online approaches me in a nice manner but when I tell them I"m interested or refuse to give money they change.
 
Approaches you in a nice manner? As in date you or just in general?
Btw, it does hurt deeply. I know. But not everyone has the best intentions. Online or off.
 
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@Kathleen 18 they give me their numbers without me even asking and then when I tell them I want a relationship or they ask for money and I say no to giving money ok lose my number and I don’t want a relationship with you because your handicapped and I can’t be seen with nothing like that.
 
Yeah… Big Red Flag, when they give you their number unexpectadly. Live and Learn. Forgive. Move on.
 
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