Should I pursue this or not?

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@Kathleen18 To me it doesn’t even pay to try dating because it just hurts to continually get rejected and know the reason why and what also hurts is the fact that people rub it in my face oh your still single you still don’t have children. Then they start oh well you know what maybe he can’t father.
 
Have you talked to a counselar or Priest?
Unfortunately people can be cruel. And if all they see is someone single with no kids. Then they are shallow and blind.
 
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No because that won’t change anything or perhaps might make things worse.
 
@Kathleen No I’m not trying to change anyone its just most people that I meet they all want the same thing guys that work the street father children and treat the woman and children as if they are nothing as to where a person like myself gets judged for being born with a disability and they say you are not my type we are all human.
 
Ahhhhh. I have no solution other then talk to your Priest. I will offer my prayers for you 😊
 
She has me on do not disturb or something I hear people say all the time your time will come. I guess when I am just not a likeable person.
 
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Hi John,I wonder if you are on a catholic site?You really need to protect yourself by doing so and being able to say in your profile what you are looking for in a best friend,use your profile to screen out those that are not sincere as best as you can.
Take care and God bless.
 
I only had good experiences on Ave Maria and Catholic Match…id reccomended those sites.Hop into the forums there and good people will take care of you as they did me,so many nice people.
 
She’s not interested in a relationship. And I doubt it has to do with your disability. She may be looking for friendship only. You want love. Two different worlds.
 
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I use a phone service where men have to pay for minutes.
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All you are doing using that kind of service is setting yourself up for failure at best, or getting robbed etc at worst.

Try Greenfield’s sound advice.
 
@lilypadrees She told me at first she was looking for a friend that would accept her for who she is and if it turns to more then let it be we’ll see what happens let God handle it.
 
John, my brother in Christ. Think about this for a moment my friend: Why would a man have to pay for a phone conversation?
 
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The phone chat lines the men have to pay to be on the system while its free for women.
 
I would advise talking to a Priest and a counselor about your frustration.
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I use a phone service where men have to pay for minutes.
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Sorry, that service sounds like a scam. Don’t waste your money on it. Try Catholic Match instead.
 
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