Hi Thomas

i understand that the knanaya is a private community and i respect that, but what you should understand is that you should not mix Christianity into you community but it is Christianity that should be your community . i understand that many of the eastern christian churches have segregated communities, and in my opinion it is wrong in fact any one who brings their community above Christ is wrong. and if you are thinking that you are not bringing community above God, then let me ask you if you expel members of your church for marrying with non-knanayas. if you do not then there is nothing wrong and you should continue practicing your customs, but if you if you do then then there is something seriously wrong and you should try to make it right by fighting for what is right and that is Jesus Christ
the Lord has said
do not segregate. what i mean by saying this is that marriage outside of your community to another christian should not result in the immediate expulsion from the knanaya church. the bible especially the letters of Paul which were written to all true Christians make it explicitly clear that there should not be segregation and quarreling over genealogies within the christian church. and you should know when it comes to the Bible there are no but’s and if’s especially when both of us believe it is the word of God. and one more thing just because one church does something, it does not make it OK to do the same. if you take your time your time to read the bible fully with an open mind and heart you will see that the early christian communities also made similar mistakes and Paul wrote letters to reprimand their practices and now i’m tying to do the same here remember churches are not perfect they do make mistakes and so if we followed them we will all make mistakes. Anyway if you think about it even if the genetic tests showed that you are a 100% Semitic it shouldn’t stop you from intermarrying with other Christians, remember the
there is no Jew nor gentile, no master nor slave, nor male nor female but all are one in Christ part.after all it is the most underlying aspect of what is means to be christian.
p.s. the bible does say about segregation in the old testament e.g. Ezra, now if you do manage to put what he says in context you’ll see that not marrying with the Canaanites was important because they were pagans, and the problem with a believer marrying pagans is that they tended to lead you astray towards idolatry and worshiping the pagan gods ( just look at Solomon ). any way that rule doesn’t apply to Christians communities as Christians don’t have many gods but only One, therefore being led astray in that sense is out of the question.
At the end of the day the Truth is that segregation within christian communities is wrong there is no way around it, under it, above it, there is only through it.there is little compromise because the truth is a narrow gate.
“Enter by the narrow gate; for wide is the gate and broad is the way that leads to destruction, and there are many who go in by it. Because narrow is the gate and difficult is the way which leads to life, and there are few who find it” (Matthew 7:13-14)