Should we have another child?

[maryjk]

It may sound ridiculous to you, but to me, it makes total sense. I’m talking very much about myself, because I know how I would react to that . It’s about how they would interact, but I guess the parents know much better than us. I thought that it may be good to see the other side of the coin .

Yes, generally, adults know much more than children.

If you don’t mind answering, since you said you were young, how young are you?

 

[LaLaLa49]

Yes, generally, adults know much more than children.

If you don’t mind answering, since you said you were young, how young are you?

Hehe, at the end of November, 14 . That may be the cause of the problem . I’m very curious about everything , especially religion(in case you were wondering why I’m wandering around here) . By the way, I’m also answering from a very different point of view. I’m not from the USA (I saw many people here say they were from there, so I thought I should add that) and where I live people usually have 1 child. I am also an only child (I have probably mentioned that in another post ) , so maybe I’m just looking at it by a selfish point of view. Romania isn’t a great place to raise many children, well, a lot of problems and I added too many details LOL. I hope you don’t mind… (I want you to understand it well) Well, again, I thought it would be good to add another insight to the “problem” .

 

[maryjk]

Hehe, at the end of November, 14 . That may be the cause of the problem . I’m very curious about everything , especially religion(in case you were wondering why I’m wandering around here) . By the way, I’m also answering from a very different point of view. I’m not from the USA (I saw many people here say they were from there, so I thought I should add that) and where I live people usually have 1 child. I am also an only child (I have probably mentioned that in another post ) , so maybe I’m just looking at it by a selfish point of view. Romania isn’t a great place to raise many children, well, a lot of problems and I added too many details LOL. I hope you don’t mind… (I want you to understand it well) Well, again, I thought it would be good to add another insight to the “problem” .

So you are 13. That explains a lot.

I can tell you that I would **never **recommend that a couple go to their children for permission to have another child.

In fact, I wouldn’t recommend that a couple go to their children for permission for any major life event. Be it changing jobs, moving or anything similar.

As important as you are in your parent’s life, you shouldn’t dictate how they live theirs.

 

[LaLaLa49]

So you are 13. That explains a lot.

I can tell you that I would **never **recommend that a couple go to their children for permission to have another child.

In fact, I wouldn’t recommend that a couple go to their children for permission for any major life event. Be it changing jobs, moving or anything similar.

As important as you are in your parent’s life, you shouldn’t dictate how they live theirs.

Alright, I thought it may be quite important to know if the child wants a sibling or not. Simple as that. Thank you for replying , and I didn’t mean to leave the impression that I am immature.I don’t view myself as that, but I have much to learn and I’m just 13, right? I hope I’ll learn more about what I’m interested in here. Seems like a nice forum.