I wonder if the debate here would take a different tone if the question were:
“What is the range of proper relationships that Christians can have with Mary?
Is there a danger from knowing her too little?
Is there a danger from depending on her too much?”
I think it’s a valid question. I do see how the phrasing “Mary worship” is offensive to some here, and the reactions of
This thread would better fit in a protestant forum.
make sense since this is an accusation that Protestants have leveled at Catholics. Also, the language is not the easiest to use - worship sounds like something you for the Almighty even if it’s technically a correct translation for Latin terms like
dulia and
hyperdulia.
So while, from an academic standpoint, Tantum ergo is correct:
Do you quite understand that the word ‘worship’ does not historically mean 'that act of adoration offered to God alone? Have you ever studied word etymology?
It’s common usage that we have to consider when we evangelize, within the Church and without. Thus I prefer to use “adoration” for what is offered the Lord, “veneration” for what is offered a saint, and leave “worship” out of it entirely. It does you no good to be correct in an etymological sense if the listener misinterprets your message.
Similarly, the theological truths that the Church professes about Mary, through dogma and other doctrine, are honestly not well-understood. Hence I understand (and appreciate) Benedict’s reluctance to declare the fifth Marian dogma:
Pope Benedict XVI said that the world is not ready for certain titles of Mary because it is not sustincly a bible term, tho it has a basis in the Bible.
Theologians continue to debate its meaning, for one, and I wonder what a dogmatic definition would accomplish in terms of the faith lives of Catholics, and our efforts to evangelize other Christians and non-Christians. Would such a definition make things more clear or more muddy? Would it increase Marian devotion? Would it have an impact in the lives of the faithful?
Even tho it has been explained, it is still for some incomprehendsible and/or incompatible with that of Christ’s. But the compatible explaination is out there. And people are very intelligent. Then why is it so hard to grasp?
A number of reasons. For one, it’s not been well-explained in a common form. Encyclicals are not leisurely reads, and the sources most-often cited for an in-depth explanation aren’t as accessible or known - on Amazon for example, Montfort’s “True Devotion” ranks in the 500,000s for best seller, while Scott Hahn’s “The Lamb’s Supper” is in the 9,000s, so that Amazon sells 55 copies of Hahn for every copy of Montfort.
For another, it’s not a central experience to many Catholics. If you attend Mass, go to Confession once a month, serve as a liturgical minister, assist a charity regularly, pray the rosary daily and pray the daily readings, you may never encounter the doctrine of the Mediatrix of all Graces, despite doing everything that the Church says you must do for salvation, and more. If the Bishops teach Marian doctrine as central to Catholic faith, that gets lost somewhere between the diocese and the pew.
Lastly, when one does encounter the doctrine, questions come up. As you mentioned:
Once the word mediator is mentioned that is the end of the story and there is nothing more to discuss. Because to do that would mean for them the end of mediatorship of Christ, or a shared mediatorship which is unthinkable and heresy.
So what’s Mary the unique mediator of, and why isn’t the Father, the Son or the Spirit doing any of those things? I’ve been asking questions like this for more than a year, and every so often I hit that dead-end fiat:
“Because God wills it.”
Which is frustrating because we have a faith that is strongly logical (the Book of Romans is a masterful set of syllogisms), saints who invented the laws of evidence and the scientific method, and a substantial deposit of faith that no other living religion can match in scope and scholarship. After all this, to get to “God wills Mary to distribute all Graces” is a let-down. Unsatisfying answers are hard to believe.
Another example of why Marian teaching isn’t readily accepted is precisely the question over necessity:
But, because we have direct access to Christ, ( IF WE INDEED RESIDE ‘IN CHRIST’ via the Promised Paraclete ) …we don’t need Mary (or any Saint), to pray to Christ for us. We can talk directly to our Creator…as scripture and our Church teaches us !!!
So that someone (like me) can accept the validity of personal Marian devotion but not the necessity of it. So I see a difference between saying a rosary asking for assistance, and seeing Mary (as Montfort, Ligouri, and others have written) as the necessary path for a believer to reach Jesus.
I hope this helps to show that my own difficulty with Marian doctrine isn’t out of some impious closing of the mind but very real questions in attempting to reconcile what I’ve not yet been able to reconcile.