I’ve noticed that at my parents’ local parish, they do this a lot. Is this something common and allowed in NO Masses, or is this something that I could justifiably complain about. Personally I think it should be in there, but I’m unsure as to the necessity of saying it.
The priest is not obligated to use the Confiteor if he uses one of the other options for the Penitential Rite. There are 3 that he may choose from, one of which begins with “I confess”. The others are:
The Priest says:
Have mercy on us, O Lord.
The people reply:
For we have sinned against you.
The Priest:
Show us, O Lord, your mercy.
The people:
And grant us your salvation.
The absolution by the Priest follows:
May almighty God have mercy on us,
forgive us our sins,
and bring us to everlasting life.
Amen.
Followed by the Kyrie (or Lord have mercy)
OR:
You were sent to heal the contrite of heart:
Lord, have mercy. Or: Kyrie, eleison.
The people reply:
Lord, have mercy. Or: Kyrie, eleison.
The Priest:
You came to call sinners:
Christ, have mercy. Or: Christe, eleison.
The people:
Christ, have mercy. Or: Christe, eleison.
The Priest:
You are seated at the right hand of the Father to intercede for us:
Lord, have mercy. Or: Kyrie, eleison.
The people:
Lord, have mercy. Or: Kyrie, eleison.
The absolution by the Priest follows:
May almighty God have mercy on us,
forgive us our sins,
and bring us to everlasting life.
Amen.