It is a common sense argument. The facts speak for themselves. Sex is for unity and procreation. A barrier is used to separate, not to unite. As much as someone may feel they need to be protected from that part of their husband or wife, it is still part of him or her. It is the way God made them. Therefore they are rejecting that part of of their spouse. They are saying they don’t want all of him or her at that moment.
The pill is used to make a part of a woman’s body that was healthy and functioning, the way it was supposed to, no longer function properly. Our bodies were not meant to be inundated with those hormones every day of our lives and affects not just that part of her body, but her whole self. And surgical sterilization is breaking, or destroying a part of us that was functioning just fine…self mutilation. How is it not common sense that this is not the way it is suppose to be? These are not my opinions they are facts. If there is a serious enough reason…whatever that might be, why can’t people just learn self control? Love is not just sex and love is certainly not about self gratification at any cost. But love is about sacrifice and
total self giving. Ask Jesus!